If you understand regret, you will understand life.

Many things are always more beautiful than reality, so is meeting, and so is parting. When the actual situation does not develop according to the ideal situation, and the facts and wishes are not unified, regret arises. Regret can show the solemn and stirring feelings, and solemn and stirring leave a kind of eternal strength to future generations, perhaps life takes away too many things, but leaves a piece of truth. People who have regrets must be people who feel deep pain, such people must have really lived, paid the most true heart, with their own actions to deduce the most true to pure emotions, moving and emotional.

Miss everything as missed time, can not get back, just miss a little bit, will miss too much, may also miss a lifetime, leaving a lifetime of regret, sometimes we could easily have, but let it slip away quietly. I remember watching a TV series "half-Life" before. I didn't deny that the hero and heroine really loved each other, but the teasing of fate and fate made them go their separate ways. Many years later, they met again, painfully, regretfully, leaving only regret. Perhaps the greatest tragedy in the world is that two people who fall in love cannot hold hands all their lives, but it is precisely because of regret that the love becomes more and more precious. Immersed in bone marrow and transcendent eternity. As another example, the love story of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, if they really come together, morning and dusk, together for a lifetime, grow old together, then how can there be the sadness of singing through the ages?

There is no need to say that there is nothing left to give up, because there is no choice. There are always too many good things, and we can't get all of them. But for things that no longer belong to us, we don't have to expect anything any more. People without luck always leave regrets. In that familiar picture, there is a taste of various emotions, and in that vivid story, I want to draw an ellipsis for it. But in the helplessness of fate is forced to draw an end to it, in the hope of the world of mortals, wash away the dark wounds after the lead, will always be strangers with each other.

In fact, there are many feelings from the beginning to the end, no matter what the result is, I think as long as I have the feeling that I have shocked my heart, this is a kind of wealth, a warm emotional mine, and the heaviest possession in my life. after all, we have exchanged each other's happiness and loneliness, don't be sad, people always have to face everything that wakes up. The world is impermanent, the passage of time is like a dream, and the dreams and vows once floated to unknown places like fallen leaves, but I always believe that it came from the heart when I said it.

I like to listen to the song "wait a minute" sung by Xu Yuteng very much, perhaps because the sad lyrics in that kind of regret move my heart more, "if life, no regrets, no waves, will you never say goodbye one day? maybe the young heart is too soft to withstand the wind and waves. If I can go back to yesterday, I will compromise with myself. I am waiting for one minute, maybe the next. Seeing your dodging eyes, I won't let sad tears cover your face. I am waiting for a minute, maybe the next minute, if you really heartache, I will tell you that my chest is still warm, that year I will not let parting forever. " Yes, I know your chest is still warm, but now the warmth belongs to someone else.

Sometimes, you can really fantasize about time all over again, so you can choose everything again. In the face of the same story that happened at the same time, you won't repeat the same mistake or follow this way of mind, but have you ever thought about it? if you haven't experienced regret, how can you cherish it? If it is not regret, how can it be so unforgettable and unforgettable to remember a person? There are many things that must be experienced before we can understand. Only with regret can we have fragments that can be recalled, and there are things that we can't forget for the rest of our lives, which resonates in the depths of our hearts.

In everyone's work, life, study will be more or less regret, I think few people will like it, but it is really the harvest of life, can enter the heart and silent, like wings, fly freely in such a big spiritual world. It can be a good memory or a painful suffering, which brings people more and deeper feelings about life. Life without regret is incomplete, regret is a touching beauty, a broken beauty, because of it, all the truth, goodness and beauty in the world will be more praiseworthy; because of it, life will be more worthy of aftertaste; because of it, there is the idea of going far away.

Life is only a chestnut in the sea, but it carries too many feelings. Whether we are unwilling or unwilling, life has always been a mystery for people to imagine, because if we do not know the final answer, we can only move forward step by step. Life will also encounter a lot of touching fate, inadvertently meet by chance, but found that you can also give a lot, a simple encounter and miss, can also be branded with a clear mark in the heart. Everything gradually fades away, the heart is gradually cold, even if tear off the camouflage of indifference, looking for you through the messy footprints, think of you once bit by bit, now only what is left, your shadow hovering in my mind, how can I forget that you have given me beauty?

Understand regret, then understand life, after experience, we will learn a lot, understand a lot, but also mature a lot. On the road of life, there must not always be luxuriant trees, dazzling flowers, beautiful scenery of butterflies and bees dancing, it must also have high mountains and desolate deserts in front of it, there will not always be colorful colors shining in the sun, and there will also be fog in cloudy days; life will not only have brilliant smiles, but also wordless tears, which no one can easily cross.

Understand regret, understand life, regret is the only way of life, but still hope that everyone can have less regret, especially hope that two people who really love each other can live happily together for a long time. Life is not perfect, life is not perfect, regret and imperfection will always exist, through the wind and rain of the years, only to find that what has been lost is very precious, and what is not got is also very precious, but the most precious thing in the world is to grasp the present. To cherish the fleeting time like water, even if the face is not there in the future, at least you can say to yourself: "I have regrets, but after regret, I have firmly lived a good life." I have no regrets. "

"I don't think about whether I can succeed. Since I have chosen the direction, I only care about both wind and rain; I don't think about winning love. Since I love roses, I bravely reveal my true feelings. I don't think about the cold wind and cold rain behind me. Since the goal is the horizon, what can only be left to the world is the figure. I don't think about whether the future is flat or muddy. As long as I love life, everything is expected."

Life, vegetation in an autumn, come in a hurry, go in a hurry, ethereal both empty, such as the beginning to wake up, there is a beginning and an end.

(postscript: your word, my love; your text, I will extend. The highest state of love is: you are Sanskrit, I am Qinglian! Thick and light is suitable, far and near are at peace, sympathize with each other, integrate into one! )

Author: wild Chrysanthemum in Taoyuan