Please remember these three words when you are upset

When modern people are upset, they are no longer slamming doors and smashing things, let alone crying hysterically, they are more silent. The more painful it is, the more quiet it is; the more bitter it is, the more silent it is.

Everything seems to be fine, smiling at family and friends, saying that they are all right, and don't want anyone to worry. They don't talk, they don't make any noise, they don't want to live much, but they don't dare to die.

Beneath this calm surface is a heart that is about to collapse. When the bad things in my heart have accumulated to the extreme, they may suddenly collapse completely the next second.

My friend, you have to understand that nine times out of ten there are unsatisfactory things in life. If the years are quiet and good, there will be people who carry heavy loads. We can't choose our destiny, but we can change it. Life is like a mirror. If you smile at her, she will smile at you.

In the journey of life, we must learn to save ourselves so that we can move forward courageously in the face of adversity. Meet difficulties with optimism, because you are the only one who can beat you.

Please remember these three words when you are upset:

01

The bad things will pass.

Along the way, we have experienced too many unpleasant things and met too many unreliable people. Doing your best in your career makes no difference; being cautious in marriage is still bruised all over; emotionally, it backfires.

Because we had good expectations for the future, we were treated gently by someone, but now we lose it, we will be upset.

Man proposes, God disposes. Now that you have chosen the distance, you only care about both wind and rain. After hard work, the rest is left to fate.

Sometimes you have to understand that it's not that you are not good enough, but that the time has not yet come. Please give up when you can't get it, look for the next goal, and don't let obsession stand in your way.

Those who belong to you will never leave, and those who leave you will not come. Your prayer of giving up your dignity may be just a clown in his eyes. If you love the wrong person, you must learn to let go and don't waste time for him. You know, the right person may be late, but he won't be absent. Maybe you will meet at the next corner.

Instead of crying in the memory, it is better to laugh heartless at the moment. All the good things have been, let it stay in the bottom of my heart, life can not go well.

When you are upset, you must believe that no matter how difficult the road ahead and how hard the present is, everything will eventually pass, today will become yesterday, tomorrow will become today, and time will never stop. What we have to do is, when the rain comes, listen to the rain; when the wind comes, wait for the wind to stop.

After many years, is it really that important to think about the things that originally made you care and worry? There are always some lucky things in life, so that we can blossom in spring even if we don't face the sea.

And you will always look forward to the moment of twists and turns and joys and sorrows.

02

Be yourself.

If we want to overcome the anxiety and depression of life, we must first learn to be our own masters.

Gorky once said: only people who are full of self-confidence can be confidently immersed in life anywhere and realize their will.

Can not see their own value, eyes are always fixed on others, such people always like to ask for trouble. Always jealous of how prosperous other people's lives, how rich assets, how attractive beauty, often dirty, slowly accumulate will rot.

There will not be two identical leaves in the world, let alone people. Dragons give birth to different sons, and even brothers and sisters will have differences.

There is no need to haggle, the rich have the troubles of the rich, the poor will have the happiness of the poor. Always compare, the mood will only get worse and worse, think too much and do too little, all you expect is vanity. Keep the original mind and remain the same.

Think of Zhang Guorong's song "I": I am who I am, a firework with different colors. A short life, like gorgeous fireworks, fleeting.

We were born as human beings, and this is the first time for everyone to walk in the world. If no one takes the road, it must be right, and no one is perfect, and everyone will make mistakes.

As long as you go your own way, do what you have to do, and make yourself special enough, you will be the most successful. There is no specific definition of success, only the heart.

You should always remember that you are you, the unique you. Parents and children, lovers and friends, everyone is an independent individual, this life only accompany you this journey, so when together, cherish, do not regret parting.

Life is short, be nice to yourself, face life with a smile, treat life positively, do what you want to do, and love the person you want to love. If you do as you please, you will not be upset, and everything will be at ease with fate.

03

The best arrangement

Tagore once said that if you shed tears when you miss the sun, you will also miss the stars. Upset is only one of the many emotions of human beings, not the whole life. If you just immerse yourself in this mood, you will miss more scenery around you.

When our hearts are small, the little things become bigger. And when our hearts get bigger, big things become smaller.

The general has a sword, don't cut flies, don't waste time on villains. Those who hurt you teach you to be strong, and those who deceive you teach you to wake up. The road to growth will not be flat, there are rugged in order to see different scenery.

Don't take your worries too seriously. maybe the difficulties and puzzles you encounter are difficult to accept at the moment, but at some point in the future, everything will make sense.

There is no impassable thing, only an impassable mood. Our biggest mistake is that we always give the worst temper and the worst to the people closest to us.

Upset, is reluctant to give up, can not let go, can not forget. Happiness is just the opposite. The difficulty is that it is difficult to be stuck at home; the way out is to go out for a walk.

Life will always give you the answer, and the reward may not appear immediately after you pay. As long as you are willing to wait, the beauty of life will always come when you least expect it.

If you wait, the breeze will come.

The greatest charm of a person is to have a self-regulating state of mind. Sophistication makes people old, simple will be happy, the heart is full of sunshine, talent will be more and more beautiful, life will be warm everywhere.

The most precious thing in life is not how much material you have, but the people who accompany you.

So remember these words when you are upset: bad things will pass, be yourself, if things go against your wishes, please wait patiently and believe that everything is the best arrangement.