As the old saying goes, people are afraid of the Mid-Autumn Festival moon.
Travelers are afraid of reunion, autumn is the harvest season, they are still on the road, naturally is very afraid of the Mid-Autumn Festival. As for the fear of half this month, it is really worth thinking about.
About all people are middle-aged, and the years of their lives are almost half over. The friends around us are all in a hurry to take stock of their own success or failure, people all over the world who are prematurely aging. This is a wonderful era, the world is changing with each passing day in the Internet to create miracles, but everyone seems to be class solidified, clearly see their own future.
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A friend, who is just on his way to the fourth day, is depressed recently.
You say, why am I so afraid of change and start? When one thing comes out, the first thing I think about is whether it's safe or not, I can take it down, no, I haven't done it. How big is this? I don't even have the ability and power to fantasize.
Are you afraid of failure or are you afraid of starting?
I? In fact, it's not scared, there's nothing to fail, nothing to start.
I see, you feel that no matter whether it is failure, success, start or change, it doesn't really matter to you. You always beat around the bush and eventually return to the starting point.
Yes, that's what it feels like!
You are not satisfied with who you are now, on the other hand, you feel that this is the best result of your efforts. So you not only hate yourself, but also narcissistic.
What do you mean? What else can I do?
Only what you want, not what you can do. Sound like chicken soup? NO, that is, as long as you accept your fate, as long as you feel that now is the best result of your efforts, you will not be satisfied with which direction you are going, and you will feel sad. It's not what else you can do, but what you want to say is & lsquo;, then that's it & rsquo;.
There seems to be a hint of truth.
We often say that our efforts are in vain in the wrong direction, and we are also doomed in circles like donkeys; we are most afraid of falling on the same road, but we stumble on the same stone for 70 or 80 times. Like Xianglin's sister-in-law, we complain about the beginning, but like masochism, we start all over again with a new vest.
It's not that you can't change, it's not that you can't act, it's that you suspect that change and action won't make you better.
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Another friend, a combination of impetuosity and passion. Quarrelling and burning themselves, blooming life.
Brother de, you know, in this life, the heart will not stop, the breathing will not stop, and the brain will even sleep on its own. We have to do the same as a human being. You meditate every day, just like a vegetable.
Please show some respect for a spiritual practitioner.
How can it be disrespectful? that's what it means. Anyway, you can't stop, why don't you toss about it yourself, and get high and innocent.
All right, you try hard. Hey, come back to me before you die.
This is not high boring, just ask you, you said that I toss about is not right, not toss is also wrong. So what am I supposed to do?
In this world, if you don't toss about the world, there is no room for you, and if you go too far, you will die. If you don't tell me what to do, it's always what I'm supposed to do. You are more resigned to fate than those who accept it.
It's only because I don't accept my fate that it's already quiet.
You were so quiet that day that you learned not to accept your fate.
We describe this era as impetuous, but forget that it is always the individual who is impetuous. No matter how clearly we know that our hearts are restless and lose cleanly, we must feel that we can overcome impetuosity only by more impetuosity. Peace of mind is always an escape trick and activity for us.
You are never afraid of failure, because you also know that your so-called success is unspeakable, but you are afraid of being uneasy, so you are always ready to run away at any time.
When meditation is a way for you to escape, there is never a place in the world where you feel safe.
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We always ask ourselves what I should be, what else I can do, what else I can do if I don't. At the end, there is a question mark, which can also bring a little thinking and action; at the end, there is an exclamation mark, which is a little impetuous and fatalistic at most; when it comes to the end, there is only an ellipsis mark, leaving only chicken feathers and a pair of white eyes.
Adapting to the situation is the thing of the Book of changes, which basically dominates and permeates Chinese culture. The three religions of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism can be traced back to the origin of the Book of changes. When it comes to daily life, homeopathy becomes the pursuit of good fortune to avoid disaster. Cause trouble, cause trouble, the Chinese people's thinking, the disaster is there, it is you to provoke.
As long as you think you are working hard, but do not walk through your life according to the most basic common sense, basically your efforts are similar to turning around in place, and you may even go backwards; as long as you do not regard silence as a force, and only when you do not get an answer, you are doomed to collapse if you regard meditation as a spiritual practice and a safe haven.
So we can say in the simplest terms, generally speaking, your troubles are all made by yourself.
Left Bank: most of the troubles are caused by ourselves. by admitting this, we will seriously look for the root of the problem.
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