People who are afraid of trouble can't live a good life.

Are you a troublesome person?

If you feel tired enough at work, you will be afraid of trouble in your life, which has almost become a common problem for most people.

We only choose the easiest options and only do things that are readily available. Let go as soon as there is a little trouble or a little price to pay.

In fact, in life, can not be called do not demand, can be done but do not do, is perfunctory.

However, how you perfunctory life, how will be perfunctory life back.

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If you want to live a good life, don't bother.

When my cousin came to my house on the weekend, I made tea for her. It took me nearly ten minutes to prepare tea table, warm ware, buy tea, brew tea and pour tea.

I saw that she was a little impatient. I asked, "I remember you have a habit of drinking tea?"

She nodded and said, "Yes, but I usually don't touch the whole tea set." I take a big cup, put some tea in it, pour it into a full cup and drink it.

I handed the tea to her and said: you can try this way of drinking, drink slowly, to feel the fragrance of the tea sweet.

She took a sip of tea and was a little surprised: is this the kind of tea you gave me before? The taste of soaking in this way is much better! She paused and added that there was a bit of trouble.

In fact, the arrangement of tea banquets is to meditate first. A piece of cotton and linen cloth, a set of carefully selected tea sets, and a newly picked flower is a plain and clean field.

Warming, pinching time to control water temperature and brewing time, is a good health to serve the tea, which can make the tea reach the ultimate taste. It is these troubles that make this tea different.

After all, if you perfunctory tea, tea will also use mediocre taste to tease you.

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My cousin and I are usually busy with each other, and we don't have many opportunities to sit together and drink tea and chat like this. When it comes to lunchtime, I asked her what she wanted to eat. She probably felt sorry for me: I'm usually tired from work, so let's have a rest today. Let's order takeout. It's easier.

I laughed: don't you usually eat enough takeout in the company? I saw that there were some ingredients in the kitchen, so I said, "I'll cook it."

Although I usually work a lot of overtime, if I go home early, or on weekends, I will choose to go into the kitchen for a while. Cooking is like manual work, but it is full of creativity, and there are not many pleasures in the world.

My cousin and I felt a sense of satisfaction when the aroma of the food pervaded the whole room. My cousin also ate a lot of this meal.

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If we are perfunctory with food, food is nothing but food and nothing else.

However, when we cook by ourselves, people who love life can always feel happy. Hearing the sound of the oil pan under the dish, the apron seemed to be transformed into armor, and we commanded thousands of troops in the kitchen, with a serious expression, but not in a hurry.

When the work is done, we will have a sense of achievement by sharing the food with the people around us and watching them have a good time.

We must all love the sense of ritual in the kitchen. For a mouthful of happiness, for the people around you.

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If you want to live a good life, you must learn to stick to it.

When it comes to ritual, I think of Wang Han. Wang Han has high requirements for life, his high requirements do not lie in the pursuit of material, but in the high requirements of himself.

As a gold medal host, Wang Han is very busy in his work, sometimes serving as the host of several programs at the same time, and sometimes working more than ten hours a day. But no matter how busy he is, he keeps on setting aside two hours to study every day.

Wang Han said: reading is a thing full of rituals.

When he was reading, he would pick out the three books he most wanted to read, then wash his hands, order a piece of sandalwood, play a piece of guqin music, and make a good cup of tea.

The so-called sense of etiquette is full of seriousness. Nowadays, when people read books, there are few people who can be as meticulous as Wang Han, and even fewer people pay attention to the sense of etiquette, and there are even fewer people who insist on reading every day.

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Everyone knows the benefits that reading can bring to people, but many people are so tired that they choose to let go. And the people who can persevere are all great people.

Wang Han said that reading in this way brings him not only knowledge, but also a sense of happiness.

From Wang Han, we can see that the quality of life has nothing to do with whether he is busy or tired. What I fear most is that I am busy and lazy.

To be sure, people like Wang Han are not afraid of trouble. They will use small and persistent persistence, little by little to form their own sense of ritual, strengthen their inner calmness.

This persistence can be reading, it can also be other. For example, eat breakfast every day, buy flowers once a week, or even just kiss your lover once a day and meditate for ten minutes.

In such persistence, in fact, your busyness and tiredness will be replaced by happiness. If your work is already very tired and your life is still very decadent, your heart is even more tired!

A good life, like a job, takes time and energy to manage.

We all know that if you perfunctory work, work will not give you a good face, but always forget that if you always perfunctory life, then life will also perfunctory you.

If you want to live a good life, don't be afraid of trouble.

My colleague Xiao Fei recently moved, because not long after graduation and not much money, she chose the house in the village in the city.

The location of the house she rented is a little narrow, the sun can only come in on one side, the furniture is very old, and the house is still a little messy.

It was definitely a big trouble to clean up, and we all advised her to find another place to move.

But she thinks it's okay, thinking about how to make the house look more comfortable every day, and has read a lot of cases of overhauling rental houses online.

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Apply new paint to the old furniture and rearrange the furniture. Spread a soft carpet in the living room, put a single sofa and reading lights, change the room with plain sheets, put colorful geometric pillows, hang pictures on the walls of the room with hemp rope, and plant flowers on the balcony

A dilapidated house was transformed by her into a refreshing literary style.

When we go to be a guest again, sitting in the sun drinking tea, flipping through a few pages of books, and feeling the aroma of flowers and plants in the house, happiness becomes particularly specific.

Xiao Fei really likes the saying: the house is rented, but life is not.

A good life can never be afraid of trouble. Only in this way can we have a good life.

In fact, the trouble is not that terrible. Its existence is to let you face life and let you learn to grow.

When you learn to overcome the trivialities of life, you are the master of life. May you and I both win in life.