Don't be a fortune teller. Fortune has been counting on you.

Some time ago, I managed a project and caught up with the deadline.

To sum up, it is a cultural tourism project, which follows the popular study of length and length. Nowadays, domestic thinking is relatively inclusive, and similar vertical and horizontal, length and short categories have also been incorporated into the Sinology system, which can be regarded as a kind of progress. After all, since Confucianism has become orthodox, ideas such as vertical and horizontal, length, and so on, are a bit chaotic and have been suppressed.

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The masters are all in the folk, and occasionally some friends pass by and give some suggestions. A friend looked at it that day and said, "Why don't you build a temple in it?"

Build a temple?

Yes, how to say, Ghost Valley is also the true god of Taoism, the ancestor of Wang Zen is not in vain. Besides, if there is no temple in a scenic spot, who will come? Chinese people, one temple, two tombs, three temples, four relics, five museums. This is the virtue of our culture. We have to worship, to ask, to change our luck, to make a wish, to count our lives, and to ask for a God. It is necessary to go everywhere.

Is that what you mean?!

What does that mean? You are half a man of culture! Also do projects, the first is people, the second is money, the third is fengshui, and the fourth is the situation, which together is your life. If you have a rebellious heart and courage, you must also have rebellious dicks.

Piss off. I'm a cultural man.

I told you you were short of hooliganism, but I still don't believe it. It's just that the Chinese always talk about fate first, and they want to count their fate, when they go out today, what clothes they wear, what they eat, which direction they face, and what they do. It is fate that things are done, and it is fate that things cannot be done. If you don't comply with the situation, the loss outweighs the gain.

What are you trying to say?!

I don't want to say anything, I don't want to say anything. You think you can calculate your fate, but in fact, fate is always counting on you. When the situation is good, you think you deserve it. When the situation is bad, it is either someone else's fault or bad luck. One blames fate, then blames the situation, three complains about fengshui, four blames no money, and five blames others. Complaining, that is the necessary process. Days do not bother you, you are looking for people, fengshui is a simple collection of wind, see mountains and water, the unity of heaven and man, you do not care, why count your life?!

Oh? Then whether I am a fortune teller or not, please do it! Ah, ha!

Oh?! Yeah, yeah. You can count your life clearly, but you don't like to do it yourself. What you choose is your life, what you work hard is your calculation, and what you change for it is your luck. If you really change and arrive at your destination, it's time to change your destiny. As for, whatever you like, I am me, different running monkeys, the most, that is a whoosh up, a slap to pieces.

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Perhaps this era, gives people too many different destinies, but also gives people too many unpredictable. When the world becomes unimaginable, people become paranoid or fickle. When I am not sure why I am like this and end up like this, I naturally pull my fate out and have nothing to do with it.

What can be more irresistible than fate? What is more attractive than figuring out the future? The future is changing, isn't it our greatest respect for life? Why do you expect that it is best for someone to calculate my life clearly and have rules to follow?

Come to think of it, we will not describe our past success as luck, but we will certainly describe the present predicament as fate, and we will leave the future to luck. As long as you enter this cycle, your life is easy to calculate, and it is of little use to worship any god, Buddha and Bodhisattva.

With the gossip of the five elements, the eight characters of birth, and the constellation blood type, there are Taro signs, feng shui yin and yang, yang houses and yin houses, which can not be counted as a river of spring water flowing eastward. After all, it's not enough. Anyway, we still have to pray to God and worship the Buddha and make a wish. The most unbearable thing is that the whole body is cut into pieces, which is better than the sky and half an eye.

In short, fate is the best comfort when you are unhappy, and you can't remember it at all when you are successful. And fortune tellers, people who believe in fortune do not count, those who do not believe in it, and those who do not believe in it, it is estimated that they are not living well now.

I have a sideline. I choose names for my children, earn some pocket money and accumulate great virtues. It is said that girls are named to read the Book of songs, boys are named to read the Book of changes, to be a man of culture, metaphysics should also be understood. Hong Ru studies Yi, and the literati reads the classics. Friends always ask me, is it really that important to have a name? I said it is very important, the child is unique, and no matter what your expectations are, there should be some words and blessings in it.

He / she is unique, so you don't want all cats and dogs to have the same name. You place so many expectations on him / her, why not show it in the name and make the interpretation of the name interesting? He / she will be called for the rest of his or her life, and you still hope that there is no ambiguity in the meaning.

But no one can expect a name to change fate. That's what I always say when I'm off duty. You don't have to make your fate clear, because either you are psychologically hinted to go the way others say, or you give up your choice, forget to change, and make no effort at all.

Come to think of it, life is a name, expected to be very good, unique, this thing is at least prepared to do. Then, the fate of you do not have to count, luck your own choice, effort, change.

Otherwise, stop telling fortune and let it count on you.

Perception: psychological research reveals that it is easy to believe that a general, general personality description is particularly suitable for him. Even if this description is very empty, he still thinks it reflects his personality, which is psychologically called the Barnum effect. The Barnum effect is very common in life. Take a fortune teller as an example. After consulting a fortune teller, many people think that the fortune teller is right. In fact, people who turn to fortune-tellers are easily hinted. When people are depressed and frustrated, they lose control of life, so sense of security is also affected. A person who lacks sense of security will be much more psychologically dependent and more suggestive than usual. In addition, the fortune-teller is good at figuring out people's inner feelings and can slightly understand the feelings of those who ask for help, who will immediately feel a kind of spiritual comfort. The fortune-teller will then make a general, innocuous remark that will convince the person seeking help. We also have the feeling that when we are anxious to know the answer to something, when the other person only says a little, we nod hard, and by the time they say it, we have fully admired each other.