Greetings go far, solitude flies high

Some people are naturally outgoing, sociable and gregarious.

Some people are naturally introverted, like to be alone, relatively quiet.

Hu Shi is an exception. He has both in his life.

He explained it well: gregarious goes far, alone flies high.

Going far means that this person has a wide way of life and is able to eat well.

Flying high means that he has a high achievement in a certain aspect (academic) and can eat everything in one move.

Hu Shi lost his father when he was young. He studied under his mother's guidance since childhood and was more eccentric.

His friends like to call him Mr.

Because of his introverted temperament and his dedication to reading, Hu Shi in his early years had rich academic achievements and high achievements. He became a professor at Peking University at a young age.

But later, in times of national disaster, Hu Shi gave up his study life and became a social activist instead.

There is a popular saying in Beijing, my friend Hu Shizhi, which shows his wide communication.

He later became Minister of Culture, inseparable from his extensive social activities.

Therefore, a person introverted, outgoing, gregarious alone, do not need to be surprised, let alone praise.

Every living method has its own value.

Solitary people focus, gregarious people are active.

The angler is never in the middle of a busy market, because he cannot concentrate and he cannot catch fish.

Solitude is the way to focus.

Focus, on the other hand, makes it easier for a person to complete deep exploration.

So they're often top professionals.

Hu Shi spent most of his early years confined to his study, so he made rapid progress in his academic career.

His textual research "Dream of Red Mansions", in a very short time, overthrew the old red school, and established a new red school.

If today's people want to study the Red Mansion, no one can bypass Hu Shi.

Later, Hu Shi began to participate in social activities.

In order to keep his hands fresh, he presided over social activities outside during the day and wrote articles at home at night.

However, at this time, his articles are no longer academic articles, but articles criticizing society, which are more social problems and suggestions.

He was active on the big stage of society, mingling with celebrities and pawns.

During his tenure as ambassador to the United States, he often received guests in the middle of the night. The quiet study life of the past has since bid farewell to him.

At this time Hu Shi has become more of a social activist than a scholar.

Solitary people are good at planning, social people are suitable for leadership

Modern psychology suggests that collaboration is more likely to stifle creativity.

Creative insights come from individual thinking, not from discussion.

We often think that group discussions stimulate creativity, but in fact they stifle creativity.

Zhuge Liang lived alone in the thatched cottage. Except for making friends with celebrities occasionally, he spent most of his time thinking by himself.

The place of residence is also more remote and wild. Therefore, there is a thousand years who can compete with each other between the apprenticeship table.

On the contrary, Liu Bei, as a leader, spent most of his time with his subordinates.

Because they are gregarious, they have stronger empathy and can balance the conflicts and interests of the team.

They know everyone's strengths and weaknesses, so they can often know people and make good use of them.

Moreover, they are not stage shy and can complete the work of command and dispatch.

Solitary people are indifferent, social people are enthusiastic

People who are alone are relatively introverted, sensitive and powerful.

They can live well on their own and do not need to rely on anyone.

But gregarious people are different. They live in a network of social relationships and gain self-validation through constant interaction with others.

People who are good at solitude tend to be more indifferent because they don't take most things to heart.

And gregarious people, often more enthusiastic, daily parties, they warmly take care of each visitor, try to make them not dissatisfied.

Hu Shi was a loner when he was a child. The little friends around him couldn't play with him, and he also entertained himself and was self-sufficient.

When he grew up, celebrities, peddlers, everyone who came to their home as guests, he was warm hospitality, never let people down.

These two personalities, one inward and one outward. One is the inner cultivation, and the other is the practice of this world.

People who prefer solitude choose solitude, and people who prefer gregariousness choose gregariousness.

Everyone has a different talent disposition, parents do not have to worry about children introverted, do not have to worry about children too lively.

Everyone has their own way of living, no matter which one, as long as it is suitable, it is the best way of living.