How to establish correct and complete values

People usually refer to the three values: world outlook, outlook on life and values. The three values are independent and complement each other, and none of them is sound. These three values have an order: world outlook first, outlook on life second, values last. Why? Some people may say, I have not even seen the world, where does the world view come from? What outlook on life and values are we talking about? This sentence is absolutely true.

After careful consideration, we will find that there is indeed a certain logical relationship between the three. The outlook on life and values must be established in their original world outlook. For example: if you are only within 100 kilometers, your outlook on life is basically within this range; if you have traveled around 10 countries, then your outlook on life has been established in at least 10 countries. Similarly, a newborn baby, even if the scope is very small, the recognition is very limited, the outlook on life is in the small world of TA (even if the baby does not know what the outlook on life is). It can be seen that one's outlook on life and values are gradually established in one's world outlook.

In this way, among the three values, the most important one is the world outlook, because it affects the establishment of the other two values. As a matter of fact, the problem of the three values is more metaphysical, unlike matter that can be seen and touched, and belongs to the spiritual level. But as a human being, if he has no spirit, he is like a walking corpse, waiting to die slowly, just like an animal. No matter how rich, prestigious and talented you are. The end result can not escape: death.

Like Alexander the Great, King of Macedonia, he United almost the entire European empire and had everything. Before he died, he knew the vanity of life, the shortness of time, and the fragility of life. He fought for more than ten years and was invincible, but he could not defeat death, and ordered his subordinates to leave holes on both sides of his coffin and let his hands reach out after his death. To show future generations: "although he fought all his life and boundless scenery, he died empty-handed." How to come naked from the mother's belly, and how to return naked. So that the people of the world can see and awaken their sleeping hearts. "

In the face of difficult problems in life, there are usually three attitudes: 1, positive attitude; 2, negative treatment; 3, it doesn't matter. How to effectively establish correct and complete values? First of all, it must be correct, and secondly, it must be complete. For a person who is responsible for himself, it is particularly important and urgent. Solving essential problems will make people live a more valuable and meaningful life, and face life calmly and calmly. The following are effective ways to establish correct and complete values (for reference only): 1. Have a belief in your heart; 2. Read more classic books across the border; 3. Go out and see the beautiful world more.

Have a faith in your heart

This is a person's core value, the basis of right and wrong judgment.

True faith, in essence, can change your life, change your temperament, and your habits will change. Superficial or hereditary beliefs do not count. Only when they have a direct and profound relationship with your individual life can they have real meaning. You are responsible for any decision, and no one can bear the responsibility and consequences for your decision, including faith. The ultimate choice of everything is yours. Therefore, it is critical and particularly important to look at a problem comprehensively and essentially.

The longer you live, the more you will find that there is always a window in your heart that cannot be satisfied with worldly things, including not only money, status, honor, etc., but even the happiness that everyone pursues. Only the religious attribute represented by faith can fill that gap. This is real. Maybe you haven't thought about it or noticed it now. It doesn't matter, for people who pursue and think a lot, one day, time and wisdom will make you realize.

There is good and evil in the world. Some people will choose good, others will turn to evil. Anything is possible. God gives people full free will to choose good or evil. If God restricts your freedom, it is like building a robot, without free will, it is meaningless. No one will be willing to accept any compulsory belief.

Any belief in the world is worthy of respect. As for myself, what I believe is based on the Christian faith represented by the Bible. You may ask, why choose Christianity? With regard to religion and belief, as well as the judgment of wisdom and truth, the previous article: "there are many wisdoms in the world, but only one truth" has been explained in detail (no more nagging here, interested friends can check it by typing 'truth' in the background). For individuals, Christian faith is what they believe in all their lives, and as the criterion of their own life, the judgment of right and wrong, and the measure of all values.

With the changes of the times, it will lead to the spread and emergence of various theories and value theories in the world. I never reject contact and understanding, at least as a consideration of rich knowledge. However, in the end, all thoughts and values will be measured and judged by the core values established by the Bible. In this way, you will not wobble and drift with the current. This is why the first step is to have the importance of faith.

Although there are many folk beliefs in China, it is still a country with a serious crisis of belief. How can we see it? Mr. Lin Yutang saw this question more thoroughly before his death (this passage is about to be quoted by me, but I still hope you will realize it). He said, "Chinese people believe in Confucianism when they are prosperous, and Taoism and Buddhism when they are down. When the doctrine is at odds with what has already been, the Chinese will say, 'Man will prevail over Heaven'. The belief crisis of the Chinese people is that they often change their beliefs or have no beliefs at all. "

Mr. Lin's words are worth pondering and studying deeply. I believe that his life journey is richer and deeper than that of ordinary people. Because as a famous scholar and master of Chinese and Western culture, he has also been nominated for the Nobel Prize for Literature twice. He changed from being a Christian to Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, and finally believed in Christ. This is a very interesting change, behind which there must be ideas and logic worthy of consideration. Interested friends can follow his books and his mental journey.

Read more classic books across the border.

This can enrich your knowledge and think in multiple dimensions.

In fact, compared with "going out to see the beautiful world" later, this is the most economical and affordable way to broaden your world outlook. Because not many people have the opportunity and conditions to go out often, most of them are trapped in the busy workplace or all kinds of chores.

When everyone enters the university, they have already chosen science or liberal arts. Even so, there are different biased phenomena in their respective fields, and everything is normal and logical. Because no one is good at everything, and it's impossible to be omnipotent. If you want to break through the tight encirclement, you can only break through with a single point, that is, specializing in one or two subjects that you are good at and like best, so that you will not feel pain, can easily face it, and can easily stick to it.

Usually, people are basically only interested in their favorite industries and content. Naturally, those who do not like will not touch and understand. As we all know, the complexity of society is far beyond the campus, and we will meet all kinds of people. The collision of various values and different ideas is sometimes extremely intense. In the communication and contact between people, if you can not fully understand each other's thoughts and ideas, it will be very difficult to communicate.

In order to effectively establish and develop a personal worldview, in addition to enriching your knowledge, logical thinking will also be gradually opened. Most importantly, the Cross-border Classic Book allows people to look at problems from a single point of view to multiple dimensions. A person who looks at things from multiple dimensions is destined to be more mature, objective, comprehensive and considerate than those who look at things from a single point of view. Classic books will help you save time, and cross-border books will help you build multiple dimensions.

Since then in society, we will have a better understanding of the logical thinking and concerns of people in different industries. Will not feel speechless to talk about, it is natural to have a pleasant exchange with them, the topic will be more and more talk. At the same time, you will be able to think of others in an instant, consider problems from each other's point of view, and it is relatively easier to communicate and understand, let alone feel that there is something wrong with your values.

Maybe it will be difficult to read non-professional books at the beginning, and it will be difficult to read them and stick to them. You can try to start with some books that you like but are not professional, and when you slowly come to a stage, it is relatively easy to accept other cross-disciplinary and cross-disciplinary books.

There is a house of gold in the book, and Yan Ruyu in the book. Any knowledge and wisdom can be found in books. A good classic book will open your eyes, enrich your thoughts and edify your sentiment. Reading it is not only a kind of fun, but also a kind of enjoyment.

Go out to see the beautiful world more often

This allows you to experience different lives and broaden your horizons.

We cannot grasp the length of life, but we can pursue the breadth and depth of life so that it will not be wasted. In reality, many people go to many places, life is also rich, can represent a breadth, but not much depth. Others may have depth, but lack breadth, and tolerance will be relatively lacking, because TA does not fully understand the world beyond what TA understands, including people and things.

There is no shortage of people with both breadth and depth in life, and it is a pleasure to communicate with such people. Their thoughts are usually unfixed, life has meaning, life has pursuit, they are naturally unaffected, and their wisdom is calm. If you have such a mentor, you should be lucky. Here are some ways to increase your knowledge and "go out and see the beautiful world" (for reference only):

1. Volunteer tours: this is a relatively economical way. It is common to go to non-profit organizations in neighboring countries to assist and volunteer, such as the Teresa Monastery in India. Some non-profit organizations also offer very preferential accommodation, and some are even free of charge, but they need to volunteer to participate in their daily work to help them. In this way, there are at least three benefits: A. The experience of volunteers enriches life; B. The experience of a foreign country broadens our horizons; C. Make friends from other countries, learn the exchange of different cultures, learn to transposition, learn to respect.

2. Part-time travel: a rising way of travel in recent years. Some countries around the world support traveling while working. New Zealand is the most famous one. It seems that Australia has also opened up recently. They can send you WorkingVisa directly, and they can work wherever they go. Many young friends who have the courage, time and ideas have embarked on a work tour in many countries. Working and traveling around the world at a time is also a feature and will be a very good experience. GapYear, which is popular in recent years, can be counted as one of them.

3. Travel and study: in general, study trips are mostly concentrated in winter and summer vacations. It is basically a short-term project, which now covers junior high school, senior high school and college students. The main purpose is to broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, and learn some new knowledge. To lay the groundwork for the direction of learning in the future. In addition, business travel programs in various countries have also begun to become more and more popular in recent years.

4. Travel: travel is different from tourism. Traveling is more about visiting here and taking pictures as souvenirs. Travel is to learn more about the local culture, cuisine, all Local things and so on. Nowadays, more and more people hate to go with groups, and it is popular to travel individually or in groups. Travel is a test of people's ability, from the simplest processing of various visa documents and other preparation materials, to arranging travel plans in advance before departure, as well as a variety of problems encountered during travel, including language exchanges, cultural differences and so on. In this process, it is bound to increase people's knowledge and ability to overcome difficulties.

5. Studying abroad: this is the most expensive way. Of course, you need to prepare in advance, including economics and various overseas exams. Studying abroad is also the biggest way to have the greatest impact on a person, because of the long period of time and contact with people from various countries. Being able to fully understand and integrate into the local culture is of great help to establish one's own world outlook. The influence of life and thought is also the greatest. If there is a chance, studying abroad is a good choice. The premise is to be fully prepared (including various hardships, overcoming language barriers, enduring loneliness, learning to take care of yourself, the ability to deal with emergencies, etc.).

6. Business travel: this kind of relatively business people. Not all companies have the opportunity to send abroad. If possible, in a busy international business trip, you can apply for an extra day or two and take a simple trip (it is also worthwhile to take a day or two vacation). In addition to relaxing yourself, it is also a way to learn about the local country quickly. This approach is becoming more and more popular in the workplace and business world.

The above is just a simple and rough comb. The most essential meaning of travel is that it can enrich one's own world outlook and make one's life more broad and deep. At the same time, we can understand different human history, ethnic customs, customs and so on. When you have been to those places in the field, the feelings are completely different and the stories you tell will be more vivid. In addition, travel can not only make people stay at the level of books, but also establish a relatively more comprehensive, three-dimensional and real world outlook.

Everyone who is growing up tries to become a person with correct values and noble moral character, rather than destroying his outlook on life, outlook on the world, values and bad conduct. The more you grow up, the more you find that your ability is limited, your heart is filled with a lot of disgrace, your appearance is full of hypocrisy, you are far away from integrity and kindness, and you lack tolerance and patience.

People need to constantly reflect on themselves, actively improve themselves, and strive to establish correct and complete values in a country with disordered values, so as to become a truly noble person. We can't control others, but at least we can manage ourselves. Just as we can't decide when the sun rises, but we can decide when we get up.

Truly noble people: adherence to faith, belief in values, respect for civilization, love for talent, protection for fairness and justice, calm to adversity, attachment to ideals, forgiveness for enemies, support for friends, friendship to others, care for the weak, honesty to human nature, awe of human dignity, filial piety to parents, loyalty to lovers, love for children, curiosity to the unknown, The tolerance of diversity and so on.

Whenever I see the above characteristics reflected in a person, I have a good impression, and I love life a little more.