It is easy to fall in love, but difficult to keep each other; keep each other company, please cherish it

01

I have heard many people complain that marriage has turned us into affection, but the element of love can not be found. Why do two people who are in love with each other become more and more desolate after marriage?

When a vigorous love, from a romantic wedding ceremony, into the world of fuel and salt, love begins to accept the test of washing, cooking and raising children, and begins to experience the orchestra of pots and pans.

In fact, it is not because the feelings have faded, but because of the habit, both sides are used to taking but forget to pay, two people habitually choose to enjoy but ignore the return, over time, the relationship will appear cracks.

If the husband is making money outside, the wife should do housework and take care of the children at home. Has anyone ever wondered whether such a distribution is fair and reasonable?

02

I have read a story before, and I believe it is also a true portrayal of many families now:

Before going to work every morning, Mr. Zhu always shouted, "Honey, where's breakfast?" Hurry up!

Then after he and the children went out, Mrs. Zhu cleaned up the dishes, made the bed, cleaned up, and then went to work.

Every evening, when Mr. Zhu comes home from work, he always shouts, "Old woman, where's dinner?" Hurry up!

After dinner, Mrs. Zhu was busy washing dishes, washing and ironing.

Mr. Zhu and the children all sat on the sofa in a daze.

Then one day, Mrs. Zhu left a letter and left home, which read: you are pigs.

As the days went by, Mrs. Zhu never came back, because there was no one to clean up, and their house soon became like a pigsty.

After Mr. Zhu and the children had eaten all the existing food in the refrigerator, there was no food left and they had to go out and look for some leftovers. Mrs. Zhu came back, so they begged Mrs. Zhu, "Please, come back!"

Then Mrs. Zhu stayed, while Mr. Zhu began to wash the dishes and the children began to make the bed. They helped Mrs. Zhu cook a delicious dinner together and enjoyed the process.

Nothing is taken for granted, there must be a person working hard under everything.

So don't take other people's efforts for granted, because she doesn't have to do it.

03

Think of the classic line in Feng Xiaogang's "A sigh": I touch your hand, just like touching my own hand. I have no feeling, but sawing off your hand is as painful as sawing my hand.

In fact, whether it is family or responsibility, after all, lovers who have known each other for many years have unwittingly become a part of each other's lives. Even if the left hand touches the right hand without any feeling, it is really going to lose each other, and it hurts as much as cutting off one's own right hand.

Marriage needs to be managed, and only when both husband and wife make sincere efforts can they reap happiness. So people who enter into marriage must remember to cherish each other and don't let the itch of marriage become the pain of marriage!