If you stop pretending to be steady, you will really grow up.

Success does not mean learning to be satisfied. Of course, change is not easy.

When we are determined to move on to a new life, even if there is only the slightest sign, the ties of the past will intentionally or unintentionally hinder our steps in various ways.

We will be afraid, we will be reluctant to give up, we will not let go. In the end, we are likely to have too many worries, stay where we are, and comfort ourselves with "I have learned to be satisfied, this is a sign of maturity."

I talked about this topic with a brother before: will "learn to be satisfied" complete our lives or destroy our lives?

My brother is now the chief financial officer of a company. He has access to the core work of the company and holds the most important secrets. On the one hand, he is satisfied with the status quo, on the other hand, he feels vaguely bound: he has little room for improvement in this company, but he has no way to give up everything.

In fact, the older we are and the longer we work, the fewer choices we have. Because we have accumulated enough in our present position, it will be easy to do; at the same time, this position brings us a lot of resources, such as status, income, time, and so on, all of which make our life very comfortable. there is no incentive to take risks and change.

"Learning to be satisfied is a kind of wisdom for the middle-aged and old, and a kind of destruction for the young." Finally, he concluded, "I also came from a young man, and it was the best time I could remember, because I had experienced enough to leave no regrets." And it not only brings me peace of mind, but also gives me the capital of my present life. "

We are still in our twenties. If we do not make good use of our time and improve our qualities in all aspects, then time will in turn control us and deplete our foothold.

As time goes by, nothing grows but age.

Your physical strength will get worse and worse, your brain will become more and more slow, your mind will become narrower and narrower, your abilities will be weakened, your experience will be quickly lost, and in the end, you will have nothing but this weak body. Can resist the struggle of the world.

Let's go! Now! Now! Impulse is not the devil, fantasy is!

Success does not mean becoming utilitarian

True maturity is not to live a correct life, but to live one's own life; not to become more and more realistic, but to be more and more receptive to reality.

However, young people also have a tendency to pretend to be a mature person.

From nine to five every day, we stop studying and feel mature; we accept a blind date arrangement, we no longer hope for love, we feel mature; we no longer lose our temper, we no longer have impulses, we feel mature; we begin to care about firewood, rice, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea, stop doing useless things, and feel mature.

We pursue better material conditions, measure everything by interests, and feel mature; we listen to our parents and elders, choose a stable life, and feel mature. The more realistic and grounded we live, the more mature we feel.

The more sensible we act and the more considerate we are for others, the more mature we feel.

However, maturity does not mean giving up ourselves, still less does it mean being content with the status quo. Maturity means that we can tolerate hard in the softest way, handle differences in the most rational way, pursue our dreams in the most desirable way, and realize our life in the most effortless way.

Maturity is not obedience but discrimination to those noisy thoughts and voices. If it's good, listen; if it's useless, don't listen. We can tolerate any sound, but it is up to us to decide how it affects us and whether it affects us or not.

Maturity means knowing when and what to do. I have done my own thing, and others praise me, or even support me from all sides.

The premise of maturity is to be yourself and to realize yourself. "self" is the most important thing. Especially for young people, intransigence and dissatisfaction are the right gestures.

Yes, you are stable, you will no longer abandon all to learn for the sake of curiosity, you will no longer refute tit-for-tat for the sake of a little serious injury of others, and you will no longer be desperate to achieve something in order to prove it. We softened those fierce, presumptuous emotions, and it seemed that nothing could really defeat us. We think we are mature and low-key and introverted, but we never think that this is not maturity, but loss.

Success does not mean pretending to be steady

You said you were worried about losing everything? You said you were afraid you'd hit rock bottom?

But for young people, what do they really have? It's nothing but time and courage! What is there to lose?

What's more, your current achievements are so negligible that since you've never reached the peak, why worry about falling to the bottom?

Young people need ambition, and if we want to live forever, we must dare to pursue the ultimate.

Try to be the biggest light, stop hiding in the corner to do what you can, and try something beyond your scope.

We sometimes have to learn to forget the secular rules and let ourselves live in an environment full of youth, because it has enough vitality and vitality to infect everyone.

At the same time, be vigilant. Once there are no waves in life or mood like stagnant water, we should be careful. Have you gone astray and need to make a change?

The world is actually very small, but a plane ticket, only imagination and courage can bind us.