What is the last thing a woman regrets? Read too little.

01

Is it true that it is often said that it is better to get married as soon as possible?

When a woman is not mentally mature and does not know enough about men, marriage or even herself, she marries in a hurry, and the result is mostly unsatisfactory.

You can see that he is handsome and talented, but you can't see that he is overbearing and unclean.

You see, when he is in love, he is considerate and obedient, but he does not know that after getting along with each other day and day, he will always return to the normal state.

You think that when you get married, the other person completely belongs to you and is your personal belongings, but you don't understand that he will always be an independent person with his privacy, taboo and need a lot of personal space.

Marriage is not a family, once it moves forward, it is bound to face many complex practical problems. If you are a child at all, it must be difficult to be the hostess of a new family.

02

I have a college classmate who has known her boyfriend since she was a freshman and has been together for four years. She is a model couple in everyone's eyes. After graduation, the two stayed in Guangzhou and got the marriage license when they met the parents of both sides.

Because they just graduated, the house they married was bought by their parents with a down payment of half, and all the expenses were paid by the family.

No one cooks after marriage, so they basically eat out or take out. Girls will buy daily necessities and cosmetics, while boys will play games and buy equipment.

They don't earn much money, but they spend a lot of money, and they can't afford to pay off their mortgage every month, thanks to the help of their parents.

Girls are upset that boys only play games and don't clean up their homes. Boys disrelish girls' nagging about useless things every day.

Later, when they quarreled, the boys said that they should go to Hainan for development after graduation, while the girls said that they should not give up the postgraduate entrance examination.

When there is a quarrel, there will be a second and a third, so the quarrel becomes daily. Both of them regret it and should not get married as soon as they graduate.

Without thinking clearly about his own way, he hurriedly stepped into the marriage life, and finally made a whole place of chicken feathers.

03

When people are young, there are always a lot of unrealistic fantasies. These fantasies will gradually dissipate as the mind grows and experience increases, turning into a more accurate understanding of the objective world.

A girl whose understanding of marriage is still in a perfect fairy tale enters marriage, just like a person who doesn't get a driver's license drives on the road impulsively, with bumps and dangers along the way.

Marriage is a big choice in life, so it's best not to make a decision when your eyes are not bright enough. You are still naive and blind, and no matter how thoughtful you are, you may not be objective.

The theory that we should get married as soon as possible cannot stand up to scrutiny.

Of course, the so-called sooner or later is based on the mind rather than age. It is appropriate to marry at the age of 23 or 32, depending on your mental maturity.

If you miss the party too much, you will lose enthusiasm. It is easy to be impulsive and blind if it is too early. It is ideal to get married when you happen to understand and are not very sophisticated.