If you don't meet someone you like, do what you like first.

I had a girl I liked very much in high school. She was white and clean, and she had big eyes. Speak softly and softly, with a nice ending.

When I went back during the holiday, I heard that she was in love with an upperclassman of the military academy. I thought they were alumni, but they came all the way across the mountains and rivers. If you fly to see him, you have to cross more than half of China. "it doesn't matter," she said. "Let's talk at a fixed time every day. We each have our own lives." It doesn't matter. I'll wait for him. I can continue to do what I like the rest of the time. Her daily life is very full, giving people freedom, but also giving herself freedom.

Many people feel that in love, the lengthening of the distance means that it is not safe, just like the sheep running out of the shepherd's field of vision, panicked, thinking that the sky will collapse as soon as the other person leaves. In fact, I think two people in love really need a "distance", there is no distance, no personal space, we will not be rational, can not breathe, can not really be ourselves. Many times the failure of love is not because we lose each other, but because we lose ourselves first.

The other girl I know is my college classmate. At first, I was not very impressed with her, but from one thing, I was impressed by her. At that time, Wuzhen's Muxin gallery was in the stage of preparation. One day I saw her in the moments helping to decorate the venue and doing preliminary planning. she studied pottery, wrote copywriting, and prepared a special memorial with a group of people who loved Muxin. A 20-year-old girl can love a feeling, and will pursue, she is really a very good person. She is too busy because there are so many interesting things waiting for her to meet.

There is an unspeakable boldness and freedom in her. She really has many lovers: the colorful flags of Seda, the morning light by the seaside of Vietnam, the Pacific Ocean near Kenting and all the foreign moons. I like this state of life, with my young life to get close to this vast world. She wrote on her signature: "May we always know and act as one and be as comfortable as the wind." She enjoys more real freedom than many people around me, not because she has been to a lot of places, but because she always tries her best to realize her thoughts and let herself derive endless happiness from the things she likes. Although her freedom is like the wind, it carries a lot of weight.

The movie "Food, Prayer and Love" uses three cities to explain three things in a person's life. Delicious food can be full, prayer and hope can make the soul self-sufficient, and love is like something outside the body. Love should not be bread, but seasoning. It's not no, it's just that his shoulder can rest and stop, but it won't be a lifesaver. The above is my understanding of three things. I never think that love is the whole of life, on the contrary, it is a very interesting part of life, which can be adjusted, but not necessary.

If you are in a sweet relationship, remember to leave some distance between yourself and the other person. The relationship of tenacity is the most wear-resistant in the face of time. If you haven't met someone you like or have a crush on someone, all you have to do is enjoy what you like and try to make yourself better. Not deliberately waiting is a period of value-added of your own.

One day when you really meet that person, I hope you are at your best. If it is right, of course you are lucky. If not, at least you always have a better self.