As a man, there are three bowls of noodles that are the worst.

Life is not easy, sometimes I always wonder if there are one or two words of life wisdom to remind myself that I can stay firm for the rest of my life.

There are three bowls of noodles in life that are the worst, human faces, scenes and feelings.

A few days ago, when I read the quotations of du Yuesheng, the boss of the old Shanghai Bund gangster, I had to feel that he was really knowledgeable and sophisticated. No wonder the whole of Shanghai belonged to him at that time.

One of them, read several times, is concise and to the point, but he feels that he has really explained his whole life and the truth of his life.

The first bowl of noodles: human noodles

Human face is also said to be decent. To be a human being, you should have a good appearance, live a decent life and have a good posture.

Du Yuesheng was originally from a poor family and was born as a hooligan. In theory, he is at most the leader of bandits. How can he be all-powerful, black and white, and respected by the world in the future?

It starts with his own facade. At that time, the hooligans in Shanghai were all bunting in black silk, cardigan, often open-chested. The high-ranking one wears a gold pocket watch around his neck and wears a big diamond ring on his hand. In short, he felt afraid that others would not know that he was a rascal.

Du Yuesheng was dressed in the same way just after he gained a foothold. It is said that he once went to a social occasion and found that his clothes did not fit into the upper class.

After going back, du Yuesheng has a makeover. From now on, no matter how hot he is, he wears a long shirt, a button is not untied, his sleeves are not rolled up, and the tattoos on his hands are not easily exposed.

And he also asked the servants in and out of the house to be properly dressed, not to wear bunts, and not to be naked.

This set of rectification, du family house makes people feel refreshing, and du Yuesheng temperament also quietly changed, such as a scholar, but not angry self-prestige.

It is said that at that time, the three giant gangsters in Shanghai, Huang Jinrong, liked to be called Boss Huang, Zhang Xiaolin liked to be called Zhang Dashuai, du Yuesheng was the only one, and he liked to be called Mr. du most. It can be seen du Yuesheng's expectations and requirements for himself.

This bowl of noodles is really terrible. First, you should have self-knowledge, and second, you should be able to pursue yourself.

Du Yuesheng knows his identity: I am indeed a hooligan from a poor family. But I have higher demands on myself. So, get the facade done and start over.

But most people don't know enough about themselves, so what are their demands on themselves? This first bowl of noodles is really bad.

Human face is not only self-knowledge, but also self-knowledge.

The second bowl of noodles: scene

Scene, these two words seem to have a derogatory meaning.

In life, there are often people who pay attention to scenes and become a little bluffing and unpleasant. But here in du Yuesheng, really understand the scene, it is a pleasant thing for the owner.

For example, the inauguration ceremony of his ancestral temple of the du family. It was not only the biggest scene in du Yuesheng's life, but also the once-in-a-century scene in the old Shanghai Beach.

There are six honor guards alone, with tens of thousands of people starting from the du residence for miles. The French concession, which never allowed troops to enter, made an exception for him, allowing the navy, army and public security forces to be fully armed. It was also the first and only time that the four famous stars of Beijing Opera were on the same stage at that time.

Not to mention the size of the guests who sent the plaque: Chiang Kai-shek, Zhang Xueliang, Zhang Taiyan and Yu Youren all make up half of the history of the people's Republic of China.

It is said that at that time there were thousands of tables and three consecutive days of celebration. Ordinary people scrambled to watch the hustle and bustle, and dozens of people were squeezed into the river.

Isn't such a scene beautiful? There are very few times in the world. Only du Yuesheng can afford such a scene.

For du Yuesheng, his fame and prestige at that time were enough to build ancestral shrines and honor his ancestors. And as the number one gangster in Shanghai, if he doesn't do it with style, won't he lose face?

Therefore, this bowl of noodles tastes bad because many people think that it is a big scene, swollen face and fat people, not only failed to do well, but also got a bad reputation.

What kind of magnanimity and identity of people, can support what kind of scene.

Eating a good scene is not only a matter of understanding of the world, but also a sense of ritual of life.

The third bowl of noodles: love noodles

The last bowl of noodles was the worst, but perhaps du Yuesheng ate the best.

At that time, there was a saying in Shanghai: Huang Jinrong is greedy for money, Zhang Xiaolin is good at fighting, and du Yuesheng will be a man.

Du Yuesheng knows how to be a man, but he is more considerate. He said that he would not add icing on the cake, but only give charcoal in the snow. What's even more fatal is that he helped you, fell in love, and gave you enough face. It's really smart.

The most powerful story is his acquaintance with Zhang Taiyan, a master of Sinology.

At that time, Zhang Taiyan's nephew had a dispute in Shanghai and wanted to ask him for help. But Zhang Taiyan was in Suzhou and couldn't get involved, so he had to write to du Yuesheng for help.

This kind of thing was easy for du Yuesheng, and it convinced both sides in a couple of times.

But du Yuesheng can be a man. Others may send a horse to give a report, but he has to go to Suzhou from Shanghai to report the matter with Zhang Taiyan.

At that time, Zhang Taiyan was also old and his economy was not well-off. Du Yuesheng saw that he only talked to each other very happily. Only before leaving, he quietly pressed a silver ticket of two thousand yuan under the teacup, and from then on he helped Zhang Taiyan every month.

This move not only helped Zhang Taiyan to solve the urgent needs, but also quite took care of each other's face. Then, Zhang Taiyan also quite admired du Yuesheng and helped him change his name, repair the ancestral spectrum, and so on.

Some people may ask, is du Yuesheng only affectionate to those who are useful to him? If so, then the pattern of du Yuesheng is too small.

At that time, he and Huang Jinrong both did charity and gave porridge and money to beggars every month. Huang Jinrong's practice is that beggars who have received assistance should be taken to another place for special care, lest they should receive it a second time.

Du Yuesheng never cared about this side, to which he once said: beggars also have a face, even if I get one more, I can only lose a few money. But sending someone to take care of them, they lost face.

This is the same as the practice that he gave all his money to his younger brothers as soon as he became a small leader.

He doesn't care about the benefit of the moment, but more about the long-term love. The reason why this bowl of noodles tastes bad is that you have to have great feelings and righteousness, rather than win small profits.

People who eat good noodles may really have a big pattern like du Yuesheng.

It has been said that there are no more than two wisdoms in life: self-knowledge and propriety.

If you want to eat these three bowls of noodles well, it seems that you must have these two wisdoms.

You need to have self-knowledge in order to pursue yourself and to know what kind of human face you want. You need to know properly before you know how big a bowl you want to eat. In order to eat good noodles, one of the two wisdoms is indispensable, and there must be a big pattern.

The three bowls of noodles in life are the worst: human faces, scenes and feelings.

But the difficulty is not to eat, but when we eat noodles seriously and do our best, maybe we will live a wiser and clearer life.