Life is always a choice.

A man feels that life is heavy, so he goes to see the wise man and seeks relief. The wise man gave him a basket on his back, pointed to a stone road and said, "pick up a stone and put it in every step you take, and see how you feel." The man said it was heavy. The wise man told him, "this is why I feel that life is getting heavier and heavier." In life, we constantly pick up things in our hearts, so we become more and more tired. " The man asked, "is there any way to lighten the weight?" The wise man asked him, "which would you like to throw away with your job, love, family, friendship, money, status and fame?" The man stopped talking.

From this point of view, there are only two easiest times in one's life: one is to come naked with an empty basket on his back when he is born, and the other is to pour out everything in the basket when he dies and then go away naked. In addition, it is the process of constantly putting things into the basket. Heart for the form of service, so will feel tired, but do not want to give up the things in the basket, because every give up something, the heart will bleed! (life is always a choice.

In life, most people always want to get something, thinking that the more things they have, the happier they will be, so they will follow the path of pursuit. However, one day, I suddenly found that melancholy, helplessness, confusion, sadness, boredom, and all unhappiness are closely related to our plans. The reason why we are unhappy is that we are eager to have too many things, or, too persistent, that we are already obsessed with something before we know it. In life, there are a lot of people know, know how to give up in order to get! However, the situation between personnel is often more reluctant than willing: because of the intervention and obstruction of the family, the two people who were genuinely in love cannot be combined, and they are reluctant to give up; because of the drive and temptation of interests, people who have already made mistakes are unable to turn back, and they are reluctant to give up; they are reluctant to give up their thriving career because of the encounter and changes of the environment.

When you are in pain and loss, crying, resentment and confusion will not help. You can only figure it out. Since some things can not give up the pursuit, we have to bear the pain that may be borne for the pursuit of ideals. In fact, giving up is easy and difficult to bear, and complaining is easy and difficult to understand. Life is short, we learn to be more open-minded, tolerant, know how to give up, not difficult for ourselves, maybe we can live a little easier.

As the ancients said, "sometimes you have to have it in your life, but don't force it all the time!" Although most of the time we don't believe in fate, in real life, sometimes we have to succumb to fate. Fate is often the most teasing thing, it can make you fall from the top of the sky into the abyss of hell, taste the joys and sorrows of the world. Whether you like it or not, such an experience must be experienced, sometimes even more.

In real life, fish and bear paws are often impossible to have at the same time, so it is always difficult to choose between taking and giving up. The reason why choices are so difficult is often because we are reluctant to give up and waver. Therefore, many times we must learn to understand that the road of life is always rugged, we can not limit our eyes to the things that are lost in front of us, we should always keep a grateful heart, be grateful for life, and be grateful for what others have given in life.

If we give up something we don't want to give up, we may feel heartache or even heartbreak, but that doesn't mean we'll never get it. A lot of the current situation is only temporary, since we do not have the ability to solve and cope with it, then it is useless to think too much, which only adds to the melancholy and sadness. "put up with the calm for a while and take a step back." the way of life is controlled and chosen by ourselves. Happiness or pain are actually in our hands. It is up to us to decide how to live.

I remember Carnegie once said, "the happiness we get in life does not lie in where we are, nor in what we have, nor in who we are, but in what our hearts achieve." So when we learn to lose from gain, to gain from loss, to abandon the deliberate ambition of excellence, to forget the unpleasant worries from time to time, and to simply enjoy life, we are happy. Although this is insipid, it is the true meaning of life.

We may be excited and even ecstatic to get what we want, but that doesn't mean we can have it forever. Sometimes we often wonder how good it would be if we could. But life is often alive, which requires us to experience and feel it personally, not just by imagination. What we need in life is not to think, but to do. What is practical is the most important thing.

Although the most beautiful scenery in life is always far away, not everyone has such good luck and opportunities. Personnel matters, there is always no absolute perfect, when it is time to give up, you should give up decisively. For what is over, it is always difficult to get it back, even if it can be undone. Detailed count of life, the most is no more than a hundred years, and only a few, most people only a few decades, so we should be content.

There are always choices and choices in life, do not blindly argue about the fairness of fate, even if life is not fair. There are times when there is nothing we can do, and we all have our own weaknesses, problems and difficulties, but our lives are still unique to us, so we can only try our best, no matter who you are and what you are doing. the important thing is to be the best you can be. For those who are realizing even insignificant wishes, we should not deliberately ridicule or give up.

Everyone is eager to succeed, everyone is eager to change their unsatisfactory status quo, everyone hopes to do something in this life, but some things in life are not as simple and easy as we think. After all, there are always a small number of people who can succeed, and most people tend to end up doing nothing. So even if we don't have any great achievements in this life, as long as we live happily, that is the greatest happiness.

True happiness can only be obtained by giving up, and everything is built from it.