You raise me, I'll grow old with you.

01

Recently, I saw an interview video in which the children were asked: do you think your parents are qualified?

The children are scrambling to say that there are all answers to whether they are qualified or not.

But the interviewer asked: do you feel qualified as children?

The children suddenly fell silent, wondering how to answer the question, for few people had ever thought about it.

As children, we often complain or examine whether our parents' actions are in line with our wishes from our own point of view.

However, few people really consider whether they have grown up and become qualified children from the perspective of their parents.

Long Yingtai said that the so-called fight between parents and children is to watch their children grow up and leave behind.

But I would like to say that the best way for parents and children is for their parents to grow up with you and you to grow old with them.

02

I heard such a speech in the previous program "I am an orator".

The girl said that just as parents do not miss the growth of their children when they are young, we should not miss their aging.

When one day, the girl was sitting at home and heard her father fiddling with flowers on the windowsill and said, "Dad has no mother."

The girl froze for a moment, what is this sentence expressing?

When she was a child, the girl's parents accompanied her to take care of her and never left her to feel lonely or helpless.

And this sentence father does not have a mother, the expression is not sad, nor weakness, but dependence.

The only thing a father can rely on for the rest of his life is his daughter.

The girl figured it out in an instant, pushed off a lot of work parties, squeezed time to go home, accompanied him to travel, to see the scenery.

The so-called support of parents, never means to give them money, let them face life alone. Instead, children participate in their lives and accompany them in their lives.

03

In fact, there are no rigid rules on how to be a qualified child.

In my opinion, when you miss your parents, you should get in touch with them when you make money, give it back in the way they like, try not to quarrel with them, make them less angry, take time to accompany your parents, eat and travel, and cherish it when you have time together.

In fact, the longer life is longer than the discovery is subtraction, we really see each other less than our parents. Trying to be better, better, kinder and filial is the right way to be a qualified child.

Because the most gratifying thing for parents is that their children live a good life and are healthy and safe.

The blood relationship in this life must be a blessing that has been cultivated for a long time in the last few lives. May I cherish it for the rest of my life.