In the second half of life, it is rare to let go.

Recently, Fei Yuqing wrote a farewell letter to announce his retirement in such a dignified manner.

There is a passage in the letter that has pierced many people's hearts.

For so many years, in order to reach a higher level, I have been moving forward quickly, but I have neglected to enjoy the scenery along the way.

When my parents died, I suddenly lost my place in life. Without their attention and sharing, the gorgeous stage made me feel more lonely, and applause could not make up for my loss. I was touched by the scene when I went to any place of the performance. I knew it was time for me to stop so that I could learn to savor life calmly.

The departure of her parents gave Fei Yuqing an epiphany. She had been on the stage for 46 years. Although she had no regrets, she did not understand the beauty of life.

Looking back, there was a faint light on the stage, but the rest was endless loneliness and unease.

So he resolutely decided to put down fame and fortune, live a light life, unattached, sow flowers and grass, and fall in love with nature.

The regret of life is often not because you can't get it, but because you don't know how to put down your obsession, so you miss all kinds of beauty.

Drop it

There are many opportunities, but the body is the only one.

The greatest misfortune in life is not that you can't get it after hard work, but that you lose your health when you have the right to fight.

Some time ago, photos of Jet Li going to Xizang for an event went viral on the Internet. The 55-year-old looks like an old man of more than 80 in the picture.

Netizens are lamenting that youth is fleeting, and the former kung fu emperor has grown old by time. Some people even said that he was dying.

So the agent had to confirm that Jet Li had been tortured by hyperthyroidism for more than a decade, and that long-term medication led to physical weakness and heart problems, so he looked old and haggard.

When he was young, Jet Li was a desperate Saburo, once exerted too hard, seriously damaged his spine, and received a national third-class disability certificate. Now he is in a lot of pain, not to mention flying eaves and walls, he can't even bear ordinary exercise.

Recently, when I saw him on the screen, he played a floor-sweeping monk in "Gong Shou Tao", and Jack Ma disdained to fight him.

Jet Li laid down his work and struggled because he had to.

The greatest sorrow in life is not failure, but willfulness but incompetence. This kind of forced to let go, leaving behind is the real regret, leaving only reluctance and helplessness in the rest of life.

Make a big bet on your health and you are doomed to be a loser. Do not forget to care about the body, do not reverse the order, health is always the first choice, other clouds should be put down.

Drop it

Only to find that the world used to be so big.

There are always unsatisfiable desires in the heart, and life is full of things that cannot be pursued.

Wind and rain clear sky, flowers bloom and fall, life is never about how much to have. It is better to let go of those futility and muster up the courage to pursue what you want in your heart.

This teacher's Day, 54-year-old Ma Yuncheng fulfilled himself, resigned as chairman of the board of directors of Alibaba Group, returned to the pulpit and happily became a teacher.

I've never touched money. I'm not interested in money. The biggest mistake in my life was that I founded Alibaba.

Now looking back at these two golden sentences of Jack Ma, I suddenly realized that he was not joking.

In fact, everyone in the company has long changed his name from Mr. Ma to Mr. Ma, and he prefers to be called Mr. Ma. He also specially changed the name of Weibo to Jack Ma, the spokesman of rural teachers.

After the ups and downs of the world, it is the most beautiful practice to be able to talk to yourself in the depths of your heart.

Jack Ma said: because I was happiest when I got 91 yuan a month, when I was a teacher. Education is what he loves most, and as a teacher, he feels extremely excited and happy.

Jiang Fang, one of Ali's eighteen Arhats, was a student of Jack Ma. In Jiang Fang's heart, the teacher Ma who stood on the pulpit was like a fire, always lighting the classroom warm at once.

Feng Tang said: the experience of the past has become knowledge, and the illusion of the future disappears. The heroic dream of the past is awake, and being able to be alone is already the greatest contribution to society.

The way to get rid of yourself is to put your restless heart on the cause you love.

The real meaning of life can only be found in the things you love.

To do what you love is to prune your past life inward. Cut off the complicated branches and leaves and get a true pursuit is enough.

Drop it

Life can live so elegantly.

We are always taught how to succeed, so we leave a lot of persistence in our hearts. Which way is the meaningful end?

I was lost and disappointed and lost all directions, until I saw the ordinary is the only answer. This sentence is the answer that Park Shu got after the struggle between Pu Shu and the world.

Park Shu has been popular all over the country when he was very young and has become the benchmark of youth for a generation.

When the first album "I go 2000" was released, 300000 copies were sold within a year, with fame and fortune at the same time.

Later, when Chinese records were at their worst, it was great for others to sell 100,000 records. He can also rush to the 500000 mark at once.

Park Shu enjoyed those days, and he felt very satisfied at that stage.

But it never occurred to him that such satisfaction was very short-lived. In the twinkling of an eye, anxiety and confusion eroded his body and mind.

This disgust haunted him for many years and made it harder and harder for him to live.

Park Shu chose to put down and live in a cottage in the suburbs. Except for sports news, the outside world turned a deaf ear.

He read Wang Xiaobo and the Catcher in the Rye, paying attention to his heart and finding a way to make peace with the world.

After the inner struggle and entanglement, Park Shu found a kind of reconciliation and relieved wisdom, which is an ordinary road.

I don't think I'm that good, and then I'm not that bad. I just went through an ordinary and complicated life like everyone else.

He used to care about what others asked of him, but forgot what his original self really needed.

To pursue what you can't get is a waste of life. The more futile things you do, the more you inflate your desires.

Put aside the meaningless pursuit, really accept their own ordinary, in order to seriously strive to live a good present life.

Zhou Guoping said: greatness, splendor and success are nothing. Only by living an ordinary life really well can life be complete. Mediocrity is not mediocrity, but a kind of elegance of life.

It's easier to teach people to pick it up than to let it go. Letting go is not a negative attitude, but a choice full of wisdom and courage to face life.

Buddha said that forgetting does not mean that it has never existed, and that all freedom comes from selection. Instead of deliberately, it is better to let go. The more you put down, the more you have.

People come to earth naked, go around in circles, and finally leave naked alone. The only thing I really had was the original self.

Clench your fist, your hand is empty, stretch out your hand, you have the world.

The backpack in your heart is full, the clinging grip in your hand is too tight, and there are too many desires in your eyes, so let it go. Find a quiet place and ask yourself what you really need.