Stay away from these three

A few years ago, I went shopping with my friend Xiaomei and took a taxi.

While chatting, a muffled bell rang in the car, and I found a brand new iPhone on the seat, probably left by a passenger who had just got off the bus.

The phone was called by the owner. I gave my phone to the driver and asked the owner to contact him.

After getting out of the car, Xiao Mei's face sank and complained, are you stupid? If you don't want the new apple, I still want it.

I froze, and since then I have been estranged from her.

Fan Ye said: if the good people are together, they will hear about Jiaoxun every day; if the wicked travel, they will have evil feelings every day.

If you talk too much with a mean woman, you can't help but talk aggressively; if you have a close relationship with a depraved woman, you are easy to be brought into the abyss.

If you make friends with a woman with a poor heart, the pattern of your life will be limited. A woman whose heart is as poor as Xiaomei can't make a deep acquaintance.

The performance of poor heart is different, we must stay away from the following three kinds of women.

A woman who loves to be cheap.

A cheap woman, there is no big pattern, her life is spent in chicken and dog pieces, a place of chicken feathers.

Or in order to snap up free eggs, they can get up at 5 o'clock and wait in line, but their time is precious.

Or believe in the myth of getting rich overnight with an investment of 99% and an income of 9.99 million, and they are so caught up in pyramid schemes that they don't know it.

Or firmly believe that there are shortcuts in the world, they betray themselves and trade their youth for the first half of their lives and the miserable second half of their lives.

When I get old, I will understand that behind all the cheapness is a deep pit.

A woman who is greedy for petty gains, she is short-sighted, racks her brains for the petty gain in front of her, and will never make a big or far-reaching plan.

When you deal with such a poor woman, you will be imperceptibly influenced and turned into an appearance that you once despised.

A woman who loves to gossip

With a woman who loves gossip, your privacy will have nowhere to hide.

You ate a leek box in the morning, you had your period at noon, and there was a lot of buzz about dating men on Singles Day.

There are always a few women in the company, known as eight women: xx earns 3000 yuan a month to carry 30000 of her bag, which is definitely not bought by herself.

They are narrow-minded and get too close to them by snooping into other people's privacy, so that sooner or later you will be involved in the whirlpool of disaster and be betrayed into even your underpants.

What's even more frightening is that you unwittingly become a big mouth, disagreeable, unable to pay attention to your own growth, and lose the trust of the people around you.

If this kind of woman with a poor heart is not far away, one day she will fall into oblivion.

A complaining woman

Master Xu Beihong was 22 when he met 18-year-old Jiang Biwei.

She put down a farewell letter in her mother's embroidery basket and eloped with Xu to Japan. For the sake of love, the young girl suffered a lot and turned her back on the marriage she had bought from her family, but she could not compete with trivialities.

"Qin lessons" written by Xu Beihong for Jiang Biwei

Tired of complaining and aggressive words, Xu looked for warmth in the eyes of the introverted and quiet Sun Duoci.

Jiang was dissatisfied with her husband's unconcern and infidelity, and was intoxicated in the considerate arms of Zhang Daofan.

He renounced her in the newspaper, and she resented him and hated him very much. As soon as he carried his bag home, she immediately yelled at it and threw it out

He tried to get back together six times, but she was angry and flatly refused; even when her father died, his gift was returned.

The love that eloped bravely in the first half of life was annihilated by vengeance and complaints.

She asked for a huge amount of property and a hundred paintings as divorce alimony. Xu felt guilty and could not bear to refuse and stay away. She painted day and night and broke down.

While she indulged in complaining, the talented girl lost the motivation to move forward and made a living by selling her ex-husband's paintings.

After Xu Beihong died, she wailed, written from the biography "me and Beihong". In the 20 years since Chen and Beihong married, I have never received a trace of comfort from him. My words are full of complaints, resentment of his betrayal and hatred of his abandonment.

But she does not know self-reflection, how much tenderness she has given him?

All her tenderness was given to her lover, leaving him only tough and resentful.

Jiang Biwei and himself by Xu Beihong

A woman who complains all the time is like a conductor full of negative energy. whoever comes near will be possessed by negative energy.

Complaining will destroy self-improvement, let people around you avoid it, let love turn into continuous hate, women who complain all the time, people are poor, their hearts are poorer.

Stay away from complaining women, you can untie the fetters of moving forward, around these three poor women, they will pull you into the abyss and trap you in a desperate situation.

Get rid of it, stay away from it, so that your life is possible.