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Mr. Yang Jiang said: the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.
So it really doesn't matter what other people say or do.
The important thing is that your life is up to you, follow your heart, and don't deviate from the right path of life.
Live neither in the words and deeds of others, nor in your own emotions.
Taizaizhi wrote in "disqualification in the World":
On the surface, I always greet people with a smile, but in my heart, I work hard and sweat to provide the most comprehensive service for mankind under the difficult situation of bad luck and close call.
A thousand people have a thousand versions of you in their mouths, and you are still you.
See heaven and earth, see sentient beings, see yourself.
You should learn to walk among people who know you and keep your distance from those who don't.
Birds of a feather flock together.
People who understand you will not misunderstand and misunderstand you because of what they do not have. People who understand you are like a mirror that can see the real you.
People who don't understand you don't need to explain.
All you have to do is to be yourself, not to be what you want, but to be worthy of your heart.
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Never argue or entangle with people at different levels, it's pointless.
There is no need to integrate different levels and respect each other. Reading and appreciation of American articles
Time is limited, energy is precious, can not be wasted, to spend time and energy on meaningful people and things.
What you have to do is not to change others, but to be yourself.
There are principles and bottom lines in doing things, and there are edges and corners and kindness in being a man.
Your attitude depends on the attitude of others towards you. Everything is mutual.
No matter what others say and do, you have your own opinions, your own rules, your discretion and direction.
Don't panic, don't get confused, don't fight.
Always keep a sober, rational, objective and optimistic attitude, behave yourself and be yourself in a down-to-earth manner.
Have your own life goals, life coordinates, put yourself in an appropriate position.
People are self-aware and do not elevate themselves or belittle themselves. They just know what they want and what they do not want.
Do not envy other people's achievements, others get because of other people's corresponding efforts.
I want to rely on myself to strive for, toward their own small goals, continue to study hard, even if only a little progress a day will not give up.
In this world, everyone is unique, and everyone has his or her place.
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No one is perfect. Everyone has their advantages and disadvantages. Acknowledge other people's strengths and ignore other people's weaknesses.
Also understand their own strengths and weaknesses, learn from others to make up for their weaknesses, learn from the best of others, and be the best of themselves.
Their own identified people, identified things, not affected by external factors.
Thoughts, thoughts, only follow their own heart, do the most authentic themselves, do not force, do not make do, do not regret.
Learn to cherish those who belong to yourself, and learn to give up those who don't belong to you.
On the road of life, learn to cherish to have, learn to let go can go further.
Your life is up to you, what kind of life you want to live, what kind of efforts you want to make, and all the roots lie in yourself.
Lin Yutang once said:
We must have the freedom to be ourselves and the courage to be ourselves.
Life is short, distinguish right from wrong, follow your heart, go the way you want to go, and live the life you want to live, rather than being what others say you are.
Always remember that life is your own, do not live in the words and deeds of others.
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