In the world, most people take "happiness" as their own pursuit of life. Although there may be differences in the understanding and pursuit of happiness, no one will refuse happiness.
But what is happiness? The French philosopher Moroya, who wrote on Happiness, also had to sigh that "A happy man can only observe the light of his happiness in many things, but it is extremely difficult to peep into happiness itself." So there is no clear standard for happiness, it is just a feeling, a state that exists in our hearts at some point.
There is no shortage of happy people in life. Farmers who have harvested their crops, whistling and appreciating their new works, finally get married and look at the mother of the baby in their arms. These happy people have a common characteristic, that is, they are full of passionate love for life. This strong belief inspires their courage and strength, so that they put all their emotions into the object they focus on, so that their own life is sublimated and his subjective value is realized. As a result, their hearts entered a state of quiet, peaceful, joyful and passionate.
There is a treasure at home. My grandmother is 95 years old. When she was young, she began to work happily. When she was old, she sewed and mended at home, washed and rinsed. She was so happy that she was reluctant to eat and keep it for her loved ones. The happiness in her heart is to take good care of a family, young and old, to eat and wear, and to selflessly dedicate their life's hard work-- happiness. Her feet are very small, and her big toes are crushed and crushed under her feet. Other toes are also trampled under the heels with half the broken foot. The whole foot looks as big as the heel. Walking and working are particularly inconvenient. At this time, she would always say, "son, you all have big feet and girls walk fast, and you seem to work as well as men." You are so happy to be born in this society.
The epitome of grandma's life reflects that different historical backgrounds have created different pursuits of life, and women have different abilities and standards to perceive happiness in different historical backgrounds.
Living in the reform and opening up today, the times have given us more roles for women. To be a happy woman is no longer to be satisfied with food and clothing, to take good care of a family, and to feel happy. Women in the new era should not only be able to go to the hall and kitchen, but also have to write codes, find out abnormalities, kill Trojans, climb over walls, afford to drive a good car, and have to beat hooligans if they can afford a new house.
As a girl born in the late 1980s, I seem to have liberated my mind and kept pace with the times, but in fact I am still in a semi-liberated and conservative stage. At that time, when I was at school, I obeyed my parents' demands. When they got a full score in the exam, my parents felt happy when they laughed; when they bought the things they liked, they felt happy; and when the teacher named and praised them at the opening meeting, they felt very happy.
In a twinkling of an eye, I have been working for nearly 4 years, during which I have been to three construction sites in Guangxi, Hubei and Xinjiang. At this time, I think happiness is to be able to settle down.
The ballastless track project in Xinjiang, where I am now working, is located in the Gobi desert far from home, with heavy wind and sand, bad natural climate, drought and water shortage. And the happiness that the place yearns for at this time is that the wind and sand can be smaller, the skin is not chapped and molted, the lips are not dry and bleeding, sleeping at night can not be woken up by cold, there is water to wash the dishes and wash the face, the work can be done with quality and quantity without being criticized, and you don't have to work overtime until late at night to lie down early to read your favorite books.
We live in hard conditions, we can't get home from work, we can't see relatives and loved ones, we don't have any recreational activities, we don't have the care and company of relatives, and we don't have humanized living facilities in cities and towns. this is a great test for the women on the front line of our construction, as women who blindly immerse themselves in meaningless and vulgar tastes of life. Use superfluous thoughts to care about other people's parents, in the intrigue between colleagues, forget what they should do to constantly learn scientific and theoretical knowledge and constantly improve their professional level and comprehensive ability, then happiness in life will not rub shoulders with us.
Happiness sometimes lies not only in the result we seek, but also in the process itself. Therefore, we need to open a closed heart, feel the beauty of life, experience the joy of work. Things in life and work, big or small, can provide us with happiness, especially in small things, this is a kind of ability, this is a kind of happiness.
As the new era of female independence is the most beautiful, independence is the most popular! We no longer do men's accessories, we have our own pursuit. When it comes to family, we are loyal but not rigid; for work, we work hard but not crazy; for entertainment, we love but not lose heart; for shopping, we measure but not compare; for money, we love but not for greed; for enjoyment, we pursue but not indulge; for men, we are docile but not humble; for love, we are faithful but not lost.
We work and live in the front-line construction site, and the roar of the mixer is a ballad that we were familiar with in our childhood. the lyrics flow all over the construction site in our dreams; on the high scaffolding, every posture of us is interpreting a good life, tamping and trumpet, which is our mother's exhortation; in the face of the lonely construction site, we chant the wind, grass and stone, and we decorate the originally barren scenery into lines of beautiful poems. We use iron picks as pens and sweat as ink to depict a beautiful blueprint for the construction of the motherland!
We live in the front line of construction and walk on the road of happiness-we are happy women!
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