What happened to people who can do things they don't like well?

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I often hear people around me complain that the work I do now is not what I like, and some people say that life is boring and everything I do is not in line with my interests.

They all have the same question, that is, how to change the status quo, how to completely extricate themselves, to do what they really want to do and live the life they like.

In fact, each of us will be more or less dissatisfied with our own living conditions, and always imagine the ideal life too beautiful.

But the poems and distances you yearn for cannot be reached in one step, and in this way, all persistence is inevitable.

Gao Xiaosong said that life is not only the present, but also poetry and distance.

Therefore, in recent years, more and more people have resigned or premeditated to resign.

Often talk with friends about what kind of life is called happiness.

People have different opinions. Some people want to be successful, while others like to live a quiet life.

But after some experience, we will find that people who can do all the things they don't like well can really live the life they like.

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I have a friend named Brother, who runs his own pipa training class. He not only teaches by himself, but also brings in many teachers with different musical instruments.

Can sleep every morning to wake up naturally, early realization of financial freedom and freedom of life.

Many people envy that a post-90s generation can have such a state of life.

But only the friends around her know that she has everything she has today is due to her own efforts.

She began to learn the pipa at the age of four, despite the cold and heat, without a break.

People who have learned musical instruments know that the practice of basic skills is boring, and many people end up without getting through it.

To learn the pipa, you need to press the strings, and the brother's left and right hands are covered with calluses.

As a result of a long time of practice, both wrists got tendon inflammation, but because of the risk of the operation, I have been putting up with it.

In order to accumulate performance experience, she has been taken by her parents to participate in various competitions since childhood. After graduating from high school, she also went to work in western restaurants and piano shops.

At the age when we were all chasing puppy love, she was practicing the piano all the time.

When it comes to love, it is certainly not true when she was a child, and most of the time she was forced to learn by her parents. She also thought about her childhood like everyone else, but she still chose to stick to things she didn't like at that time.

She said she knew from an early age that her parents did this in order to give her the ability to choose to do what she likes when she grows up.

So it took her such a long time to do something she didn't like to be perfect.

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Do not envy the ease and comfort of others, in their hardest time, do not choose to complain, but try to live well now.

Therefore, now they have the right to choose the poems and distances in their hearts.

It's like a work, you're the creator, the designer, and that's how you create yourself.

Gradually do the things you are most unwilling to do, and you are already very skilled at what you are willing to do. What else in the world can stumble you?

A real dreamer is not a dreamer, but a person who grows up step by step.

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