No matter how good a relationship is, it will die of course

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A few months ago, when my best friend went shopping, she told me that some time ago, a college friend asked her about her salary and house price here on WeChat.

After a friend informed her, her friend said she wanted to come to the city for development. She wanted to ask her friend if she knew a reliable intermediary.

It happened that I had just changed my house, and there were still a few good houses to wait for a while, so I had to miss it. I calculated the time, which was about the same as the day she came, so I gave her the information of these landlords.

So she explained the situation to the girl. The girl said,"It's inconvenient for me to answer the phone here. Why don't you help me take a look?"

My friend thought of the friendship in college, so he agreed. My friend looked at several houses, and the rent location was OK. Only to discuss the specific matters was determined. The landlord said, you don't live either. Let her discuss the rest with me.

Later things friends did not ask more, originally thought the other party came here to look good can live in, the result more than a week later, friends received a phone call from the landlord.

The landlord said that your friend had an appointment with me at 3 p.m. to see the house. I pushed the afternoon matter and waited here for more than two hours. In the end, the phone didn't answer.

If the rent of my house is posted online, someone will book it within an hour. Do your friends see it or not? At least they should have a reply. I haven't done anything all afternoon waiting for people.

So the friend hurriedly called each other, the result girl said his boyfriend came, want to accompany him shopping, said to call back friends at night.

Hung up the phone, friends angry enough, the results of the evening, the girl said he found a house, let friends tell the landlord.

We had to be embarrassed and the landlord aunt said that the other party did not rent.

One night half a month later, when we were having dinner, my friend received a phone call from the girl again, saying that she had no place to live.

The girl's voice sounded wrong on the phone, and her friend was worried about what happened to the other party, so she said,"Come and stay with me tonight."

As a result, this stay is more than two months, live together friends only found that this is a disaster, because friends have to get up early every day to go to work, so fold their own quilt and leave, just started to come back to find girls will collect ten rooms.

Later, my friend came home from work every day and found that her home was still the same as before she left. The washing water did not pour, the quilt was not folded, the curtains were not pulled, and the used tissue was still on the ground.

She told the girl about her obsession with cleanliness, but the other party said that she had cleaned up her own things. Those were yours, and I wasn't your nanny.

My friend was angry and complained to me. I went out early every day and came home at night. Didn't I know if I used it myself?

I take you in kindly, but I don't want you to wander. How can you be so shameless?

A month later, the girl finally left, the friend packed up for two days, finally she said, never do this again, I am kind to you, but you think this is taken for granted.

No matter how good their relationship was, they couldn't take it for granted.

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The most sad thing in love is not to love but not to cherish, but to care for being ignored.

Valentine's Day, when I was surfing the Internet on Weibo, I saw such a mood:

We agreed to go on a date today, but when I got off work, I sent a 520 red envelope to buy something myself. When I was shopping with my best friend at night, I accidentally saw him having dinner with others.

I can't remember how many times I've made and broken an appointment like this. Am I the one who lacks that money? Since she didn't want to meet him, she shouldn't see him again.

At the beginning of the relationship, a small cough from the other party will make you shocked, even if you have to send a handful of cold medicine for you.

I don't know when it started, there was no daily essential good morning and good night, there was no desire to tell her everything.

I do not know from which day, she is good to you, will not let your heart again waves, she always pay, you indifferent to accept.

Perhaps you think you are favored without fear, but do not know the feelings of the world, alone difficult to support, disappointment accumulated enough, some people will leave.

Therefore, no matter how long the days are, don't forget the original deep feelings; when love subsides, don't forget how carefully you care.

Only those who know how to respect others will be respected. Only those who know how to cherish deserve to be loved.

After all, no matter love or friendship, can not afford to take for granted, do not take others to your good, think it should be, after all, who leaves who, this world will not stop.

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