Why complain?

Life, there is too much melancholy, too much helplessness. This is called life, this is called authenticity, should not be entangled, why complain.

Complaining is like a corrosive, once injected into the human body, it will mercilessly extinguish your fiery enthusiasm, engulf your hope, and fill the clear sky of your mind with wisps of sadness and sorrow. It will virtually torture you, beat you, and finally, hold your nose and twist your ears, forcing you to walk restless, upset, and at a loss as to what to do. What's more, it makes you lose confidence and hope for what you are going to do in the future.

Pushkin, the great Russian poet and novelist, once said: if life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be impatient, melancholy days need to be calm, believe it, the happy days are coming. Blessing or misfortune, the world, the universe, this is what it looks like. Even if you have the power to turn back to heaven, it is difficult to change this loving and annoying, but inseparable, helpless world full of contradictions.

Complaining can only make you lose your dignity, lose your manners, and don't see the value and meaning of your own existence. As a result, you will unconsciously increase a little bit of trouble, add a lot of sorrow, all day like a frost-beaten eggplant, drooping head, lost, depressed, without any spirit.

I don't complain. Because I am afraid that my ideal sky, which is not ambitious, will be inexplicably covered with a layer of gray color. At a glance, all I see is thick haze, and my mood will be more self-blaming and confused, and I feel uncertain about my future. What I want to see and yearn for is a few snow-white clouds floating freely in the blue sky, making my life really full of poetic romance and color.

I don't complain. Because I have expected that the wind and rain in life, spicy and bitter, will meet unexpectedly at any time, suddenly in front of our eyes, will not give us room to think and choose. If you understand, you will be relieved; if you get used to it, you will obey it; if you see through it, you will accept it. There is no need for these needles, mother-in-law things, right and wrong, long and short, dead to the point. If you have a big belly, you should tolerate yourself, and everything is in nature.

I don't complain about life. Because I do not give up every day, every moment of efforts, even if paid but did not get a harvest, or even lost a lot, but also an experience and test of life. No matter what the fate in the future, I always feel that in this life, I want to live a dull life. It is in these ordinary days that I have a deep feeling and taste for life. I also know that it is these dull days that warm and inspire me to treat my life and my value seriously and to be a person who does not look up to heaven and earth and live up to my conscience.

With the passage of time, the once turbulent and unruly heart will eventually find the post station and has gradually rested quietly. Now, in the face of the troubles of the world, I often warn myself: life is not as expected, open the door to live, everyone will encounter stumbling things. However, whether you live a good life or at least, you should be patient and live slowly. Don't complain and blame yourself for your incompetence. People have their own strengths and weaknesses, and there is no one in the world who is perfect. Learn to stand high, see far, be open-minded, don't embarrass yourself everywhere, put shackles on yourself, put your feet in a cage, don't stretch your feet, don't give full play to your will, don't find the opportunity to display your talents, and become a loser in life.

Author: Wang Dinghai