Whatever mindset you have, you have your life.

01

Feel free to spread your teeth and claws.

I am only responsible for the quiet years.

When I was at school, there was a female classmate in the class. She had a particularly obvious erythema on her face, which was very ugly.

Because her face is really ugly, even scary, I am also the first time to see a little girl with a red birthmark on her face.

All the students in the class call her ugly girl, or dinosaur girl.

But she didn't mind at all, and she didn't even feel sad about it. She always smiles and responds to everyone, and gradually becomes one with the rest of the class.

Not only did she have a good personality and better grades, but she was also chosen as a study committee to speak on behalf of the whole school.

On the stage, she said: my mother told me that I was a child kissed by God.

Make a mark so that he can remember me, love me wholeheartedly and care for me.

I can't decide what I look like, but I can decide what I want to be.

Because of this speech, I was deeply attracted by this girl.

From then on, I also understood a truth: what kind of mentality a person has, what kind of life he will have.

We can't change the world, but if we can change the way we look at the world, everything will be different. What your heart is, what the world is like.

So, although you open your teeth and claws, I am only responsible for the years.

02

Everything has two sides.

Sometimes, you have to admit that a good attitude can really make a person.

In this life, having a good state of mind is like having a magic weapon to win.

It can help you to subdue and dispel all kinds of demons and ghosts on the long road of life, so that you can walk on this road for a longer time and more smoothly.

Once at a morning meeting, the department manager shared the story of a water cup.

She was holding a glass with half a glass of water in it, and then asked everyone mysteriously, "what is the first thing that comes to mind when you see this half glass of water?"

Some people say: there is only half a glass of water left.

But some colleagues said: unexpectedly, there is still half a glass of water.

Just a few words have different meanings. The former is a negative personality, while the latter is a positive one.

It is also a cup with half a glass of water, and its dual character lies in how people view it.

Negative people always see what they don't have, while positive people, on the contrary, see what they already have and don't worry about what hasn't happened.

When people walk in the world, they will always encounter all kinds of things and meet all kinds of people. Only by setting the right state of mind can they get everything they want and make friends with loved ones.

The state of mind is right, life is like an open hang in general, good luck, happy events.

03

Come or go.

Some time ago, I saw a story:

In the summer, the son and his family come to their parents' house in New York for a holiday. When she first arrived, the old lady said happily, "how nice!" Grandchildren are here.

When her son and his family returned to Taipei two months later, the old lady said happily, "how wonderful!" Grandchildren are gone!

Some people laughed at her contradictory remarks, but the old lady smiled and said:

What's the contradiction? It's the truth! Grandchildren come and sing and dance every day. How funny it is! How happy it is!

Then the man said, "then why is it good to leave?"

The old lady said, "it's good to go!" Over the past two months, the kid has been banging around early in the morning, and the kitchen floor has to be scrubbed three times a day. It's really a mess, and now it's finally back in Taipei and quiet! How nice!

In fact, there is only a small difference between people, but this difference can make a huge difference.

The small difference is the mentality that people have, while the big difference is success and failure.

Whether a person's attitude is negative or positive often determines the fate of his life.