Passers-by who don't understand amorous feelings.

One man peels a piece of candy from the paper that wraps it and feeds it into another person's mouth. If the other thinks the candy is sweet, the feelings between the two are naturally very deep. If the relationship between each other is not very good, the person who ate the candy will inevitably feel the smell of sweat on the candy peeler's hands and make him feel sick. If it is a little light, this person will feel that eating others is the shortest, and no matter what the taste is in his mouth, he will reluctantly swallow the whole candy into his stomach, with an embarrassing color on his face. If it were serious, the man would spit on the ground the sugar that had just been stuffed into his mouth and smash the sugar peeler's heart to pieces on the ground. Perhaps, there are many people who think this candy is very sweet, after all, for those who have a bad relationship with each other, they seldom peel off the candy for each other.

The feelings between people are probably like this. The relationship between a person and a place should probably be the same.

Every place I go, I can't wait to explore the things around me. In fact, the so-called exploration can not be called getting to the bottom of the matter, it can only be called a quick look at the flowers. What I walk under my feet is a road I have never set foot on, and what I see before is a scene I have never seen before. Along the way, most of the scenes I saw were hearsay, with others telling me which celebrity's former residence it was, and others telling me which celebrity's poem or word it was. Pretending to understand, with bewilderment, he nodded again and again and said, oh, he had to go by like a dream. Then I ate some local delicacies, took a few photos as a souvenir, turned around and went home. When I got back, I began to show off the delicious food in a certain place, showing others the photos of my trip and saying that I had been here. In fact, I know nothing about the places I have been to, have no knowledge of the local customs and customs, let alone the historical allusions of any local celebrities. This time, I only feel very tired, as if I have experienced the vicissitudes of life, but I am just a passer-by in a hurry.

Maybe a person should know more about his hometown, but in fact, it is not the case. You will retort to this: no! I am really familiar with everything in my hometown. However, all you know is that the children of the neighbor Zhang San family got good grades and were admitted to college; the life of the Li family was terrible and the couple divorced. Or you know where the road in front of your home leads to and what shops there are on the way. and so on. But you envied the news of the children of the Zhang San family once, and sighed once about the life of the Li family, which was more or less an after-dinner conversation. Their joys and sorrows can not really be experienced by themselves. We got what we needed from the store outside our house, and then we turned and left. The store is just a passer-by for itself and for the store.

We live in our own world, joys and sorrows, no one can stop being sad after joy, no one can no longer be happy after grief. We repeated the impermanent changes in our mood, but smiled many times and shed a lot of tears. Don't say that after something happens, everyone will be happy and sad because of it. We should ask why we are only happy because of it and sad because of it. Even when it comes to the twilight years of life, we are just bearish on such a problem. Not happy with things, not sad with yourself, this is just a wish, can not really come true, for those who can see the light of the road, those who have seen the road, heard or really experienced things will still emerge in their minds, completely forgotten, except amnesia, who can do it?

This may be life, we experience, recall, pain and happiness. As for all kinds of amorous feelings, we don't really understand.

Author: Mo Quan