Hold your tongue.

Destructive language can lead to destructive results, and besides causing unnecessary pain to those around us, every negative word we say complicates the problem.

A friend of mine, whose parents finally chose to divorce for many reasons, ended this unsatisfactory marriage. Under the agreement, he lived with his father. Because his father worked outside for a long time, he could not accompany him. Without good education, he fought and fought. What he was tired of learning and capable of was all dry. Because he hates those children who have happy parents, his heart is extremely inferior. This made him critical, and you couldn't hear a good word from him.

One day, when I couldn't stand his harsh words, I said, Don't think too pitifully of yourself. There are many poor people in the world, and you are not lacking. Even if you feel bad, you can't impose your anger on others, which will not only hurt yourself, but also hurt others. If you have nothing good in your mouth, don't speak.

I thought he would beat me up. He did not expect that he would just kick the table and leave angrily. I thought I'd never talk to you again, but gradually I realized it was different. When he spoke, he would become more rigorous. Those who did not think through their brains would learn to suppress them slowly. Perhaps he understood that he was not the only one in the family, and there were many poor people. Slowly open up, but also gradually learn to accept the open-minded.

In fact, at that time I still think will not say extreme, but there is no regret medicine in the world. We're still the same.

Therefore, whether in life or study, learn to decompress when things happen, don't blame others blindly, maybe we will think that I am not good, then you don't want to be good. If you have such an idea, then you are very wrong.

If you can't put a good word in your mouth when someone else is upset, shut up. Because your words will only backfire and make things worse. Not only does it put others in jail, it also exacerbates the problem.

Just like when we encounter a little unpleasantness in life, we may think that it is reasonable to say something rude and hurtful. But once you find that changing language, through polite, understanding words, you will find that it makes more sense than belittling. Not only will you be happy, but you will also have a friendship.

If you are unhappy, you can talk to friends, talk to teachers, but remember not to hurt others because of your own selfish desires. Always be wary of what you say. Remember that unpleasant times will pass sooner or later, and if our tongue does not cause trouble, it will leave no wounds to heal.