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I do not know since when, there are more and more unhappy people around them, who always struggle and complain about the problem that their efforts are not rewarded.

Two days ago, a comrade-in-arms came to me and said that he had opened a small stove every night recently, adhering to three hundred (that is, 200 push-ups, 200 sit-ups, 200 squats), and even deliberately controlled his meal, but he still couldn't get on the equipment, and so on. During that time, he talked about how hard he was, but he never got negative words recognized by others. Finally, he complained that paying is equal to a false proposition. I don't want to spell like that anymore.

In my heart, I want to tell this comrade-in-arms who is full of negative energy: hard work is not for others to see.

Looking at him with bewildered eyes, I asked him: how many of the 200 push-ups you do every night are standard? He was stupefied for a moment, paused for a moment, changed his aggressive tone and replied: about forty or fifty.

I didn't answer him. I just stared into his eyes quietly. The silence of the sudden prohibition of the conversation made him feel that something was wrong. His head, which had just been held high, seemed to droop slightly, and I saw in his eyes a little embarrassment about the beginning of self-reflection. But the man's natural self-esteem prompted him not to bow so easily, so he pinched his neck and said, "I've done my best."

I shook my head and said: no, you didn't try your best, the real effort is & lsquo; do your best & rsquo;, instead of & lsquo; do your best & rsquo;. Do you open a small kitchen every night to improve yourself, or do you want others to know that you are working hard?

Hearing this, he was silent.

The accelerated pace of life makes us more and more impetuous, the most obvious manifestation is that, like this comrade-in-arms, we only pay attention to the face-saving project, so that we will put the cart before the horse and regard the form of the content as more important than the content itself. I only want to prove myself by show efforts rather than real achievements and be recognized by others.

We have been inculcated with the concept of effort = harvest, so we anaesthetize ourselves that effort equals harvest. In fact, there is no doubt that the process of effort does yield results, but the degree of effort also determines the size of your harvest. Why and hard work has already determined the direction of your growth.

As the saying goes, you can't expect your soybeans to produce watermelons. By the same token, you can't expect that kind of hypocritical and grandiose performance efforts to get the expected harvest.

The process of giving is hard, but sorry, people don't want to know how hard you are in the process. This process is more suitable for you to bear alone. It's worth sharing until you get real results. So, or down-to-earth efforts, one step at a time in the effort to polish yourself, instead of trying to prove the harvest, it is better to use the results you have got to prove that you have been diligent.

The efforts and efforts of soldiers should be real and practical, and should not be mixed with any falsehood and show in every pay and harvest, still less should they only care about form for the sake of face. Pompous pseudo-hard work is a great irresponsibility for one's own growth and progress, and it will also develop formalism that seeks only to look good but not to seek content, the surface is vigorous, but in fact it fundamentally affects combat effectiveness, distinguishes fake things, and retains real things. Please say NO to fake effort and YES to real diligence.