Don't get tangled up in bad people and things.

01

In life, we often like to persuade others to be open-minded and cheerful, but when it comes to ourselves, we can't let go and can't figure it out. This kind of thing is also very normal, because a lot of problems, if not in person, it is difficult to understand the feelings.

It's just that life is short after all, so why always spend time entangling with bad people and bad things? Zhou Guoping said that life should have uncompetitive wisdom.

Be good at competing with each other, not with fools.

Some people say that when you stare at the abyss, the abyss is actually staring at you. If you dwell on bad things all your life, you will live in bad things all the time.

02

Li Xuelian in "I am not Pan Jinlian" is a typical example.

After a fake divorce turned into a real divorce, because of a sentence from her ex-husband, she said that she was Pan Jinlian. in order to wash away her injustice, she spent 20 years in litigation, from a young and beautiful 29-year-old woman to a sloppy middle-aged woman. How stubborn this woman is.

From the fake divorce to being betrayed by her husband, to running for 20 years in one breath, is it really worth it?

Countless possibilities in life, are wasted in unnecessary entanglement, more than 20 years of youth, could have given up scum man, looking for a new beginning, a better ending! But it's not worth it to waste your youth for a man like that.

The rest of life is not long, their own happiness is the most important, not because of other people's mistakes, drag down their own quality of life and standard, more importantly, affect their own mood of life.

03

There is a saying on the Internet that you should never reason with silly X. although the words are rough, they are not rough.

Because bad people and idiots come from another universe, their values and principles are completely different from ours. If you can't educate them, you will suffer from them.

As Haruki Murakami said: not all fish live in the same ocean.

You can't change the world, and you can't change the bad guy. Therefore, it is better to spend more precious time on friends and family, feel the most sincere feelings between people, and happiness will naturally emerge like a spring.

It's not a compromise to life, but because you know how to love yourself better.