We don't have to understand, we just need to respect each other.

01

A few days ago, several famous older leftover women in the community were attacked by others.

He is 34 years old, and he is not married yet.

The parents and relatives in the family were all worried, but the emperor was not anxious and was worried to death by the eunuch.

The girl said to her parents:

I'm doing fine by myself, and I don't want to get married.

Before saying this sentence, she was at most criticized as a matter of character, but it became a matter of attitude after she said it.

When the elders in the community heard this, they all scoffed.

Frowned, shook his head and said:

Today's young people really don't understand. I don't know what to think.

The matter is not over either.

Later, the community held a drama competition for the elderly.

Many old people get up early in the morning to practice their voice, seven days a week without a holiday.

Several of my best young friends broke down and complained to me:

The community is really too noisy, it's just a friendly match, like how much money I get, I can't understand it.

Since the development of the Internet, all the information in the world has poured into people's minds in an instant.

Gays and lesbians are really hard to understand.

How come boys are becoming more and more feminine and proud day by day? what do you think?

So you're getting married? No house, no car, even can't afford to eat, is it so easy for people to get married?

In an instant, I don't know what's going on in this world, and there are more and more things that I can't understand.

02

Listening to people complain a lot, I find that there is almost nothing to understand others except that I can understand myself very well.

Others can't understand him, and he can't understand others.

When people say that they do not understand others, they actually hide another meaning.

I can't understand what other people are doing, but I think what I'm doing is right.

In fact, when you think about it, when people say that I can't understand others, most of them are subconscious of this kind of Iamright.

Without such a subconscious, there would not be such a strong desire to express words that are incomprehensible.

The reason why you say this is because you want to find a sense of identity. I want to hear more people agree with their views.

Yeah, I don't understand either.

Once this sentence is said in response, it represents the formation of a United front.

However, there are really too many things in the world that people cannot understand.

No one asks us to understand, it's just our own willingness.

03

In the animated film Adventure time, the film tells the story of an adventure between a little boy Finn and a dog Jack.

Defeating all kinds of monsters and experiencing all kinds of adventures are the key points for Finn and Jack to grow up.

Finn and Jack need courage and wisdom to face all kinds of unknown monsters and dangerous places.

The dialogue between them and the emotional connection between others shape a better process of growing up.

In the process of growing up, Finn and Jack met too many people and things that they could not understand.

They wonder all the time:

Why? Why do you do this? why is there such a place in the world?

But with the passage of time, someone answered the question they thought: everyone is born different, we don't have to understand, we just need to respect each other.

The beauty of the world lies in its complexity and diversity.

There are no two leaves with the same pattern in the world, and there will be no one who is just like you.

Everyone is an individual.

We don't have to force ourselves to understand others, we just need to respect each other.

But this kind of mutual respect is not a joke on your face, as long as you are happy.

True respect comes from the heart. If you are happy, it will be fine.

I hope the world can have more respect instead of cynicism.