Death is not terrible, the terrible thing is that there are too many regrets

Each of us has yearning and thoughts of one kind or another, but they are postponed indefinitely for various reasons and excuses.

I am an undertaker. I once encoffined a girl who died young. That day, after the encoffined, one of her friends told me that she was a friend he had known for a long time. When he heard the news that she had gone in a car accident, he was surprised for a long time, his fingertips were cold and his heart hurt. He said that the last time he saw her, everyone had dinner together and made an appointment to see each other again, but he didn't expect to hear such misfortune in a few months.

He told me that she once told him that she wanted to be able to go for a walk like him, but it was always like the song: no money when you have time, no time when you are rich.

He smiled and said to her, "do you have no money, no time or no determination?" Going out is actually a very simple thing, the key is to see if you want to. She smiled sheepishly and said, knowing that the weather was warm, she went out for a walk to see the places she had been longing for for a long time. But she suddenly left this world and never had a chance. Death is not terrible, the terrible thing is to leave too much regret.

Another not-so-distant story came to mind: they were about to get married, but the girl suffering from depression fell to her death from the eighteenth floor. The wedding turned into a funeral, and it all happened so suddenly.

The boy told me that because they were going to get married soon, he bought a good quality and expensive dress for his fiancee. The fiancee was very happy, but blamed him for spending money for himself. Because they are a poor couple, the simple and accustomed fiancee has been reluctant to wear it, hanging in the best place of the wardrobe, brushing the dust on it every day, saying that they will wear it only on their wedding day. Unexpectedly, less than three days later, the fiancee fell to her death. The dress that I had never been reluctant to wear became a funerary object.

The boy burst into tears and said why he didn't do something for her earlier. He smoked and drank and squandered so much money that he could buy his fiancee a lot of clothes she liked. Why not even wear a piece of clothes? even if the salary is more than 100,000, you can't share it. But I have to prepare a fast meal for you to taste.

Each of us has yearning and thoughts of one kind or another, but they are postponed indefinitely for various reasons and excuses. Time and life will not love a person because of waiting, it will only leave you with all kinds of regrets. Don't wait to achieve regret. I often hear people say that I love her very much, but I am very poor now. I want her to have a good life. When I have money, I will marry her. As everyone knows, she can be with you, not because you are rich. If it's for money, she can choose someone else.

I often hear people say that I like to travel. When I have time and money, I will go to all the places I want to go and visit the mountains and rivers of the motherland. But he waited until he had white hair and didn't take a step out of the house.

Some people often say that when I have time, I will go home to see my parents; when I am rich, I will send my parents to the city for a few days to have a good life; and so on, all kinds of good things are delayed indefinitely, and some can never wait. Some, even if you wait, are there still the original mood and the original people?

Most regrets come from waiting. Everyone has a lot of plans and wishes, either come true, or regret, this is now I, an undertaker understand the life. May there be less regret and more realization in the world.