Face life in a low-profile manner

From being born to being crushed into mud, no one is with whom, and the twins are also divided into before and after, not to mention the people who are not twins, life is destined to be a solo journey, with ups and downs to taste, instead of muddling along, why not live a magnificent and unrestrained life?

In the noisy world, those exhausted people in the streets force themselves to participate in all kinds of social activities and social activities in order to be promoted; in order to fall in love, there are plenty of people who follow their lovers wherever they go. As everyone knows, because of this, their body and mind are often on the verge of collapse, and when they ignore their body and mind and tire them to a certain extent, the two bodies will protest against their ignorance in their own way.

A year after graduation, the days of a group of students eating and walking together are near but far away, and now I am in a foreign land, eating and walking alone, and fall in love with this feeling. I am more adapted to and like myself now than to miss it. Become not only a relationship, but also a heart of your own. From the initial fear of being alone to the present habit of being alone and enjoying it, this is a process of growing up independently. I appreciate this change of myself, and I think no matter now or even someday in the future, I will be grateful to myself who once worked hard to grow up independently.

After being alone for a long time, I gradually found that I liked this feeling. When I was alone, I had more time to be myself. I didn't have to hide anything. I laughed when I was happy and cried when I was sad. When I was alone, I ate what I wanted. I don't have to worry about whether she or he likes it. Can I order it? When I am alone, when I am tired, I stop to hug myself and carefully appreciate the scenery around me. The rose can be so beautiful, and the humble grass is also opening. After a good rest, I can once again take my pace and work towards my goal. I can no longer worry about walking too slowly or too fast, and make people around me laugh or envy. When I am alone, I can have a deep conversation with my heart. Talk about your dreams and talk about your recent gains and losses. When I am alone, I don't have to worry too much about other people's eyes, envy, don't count the happiness of others, don't feel inferior to what I don't have, love what I have, be who I really am, think what I think, and do what I do.

Falling in love with being alone, now I enjoy my own space, like to be in a daze, pat off my dusty heart, chat with her, let my heart relax after a tight day, occasionally talk about myself, occasionally talk about life, occasionally laugh, occasionally close my eyes; like to sit quietly in the sunny afternoon with an elegant teacup to make a cup of scented tea I like, and read the books I want to read Like to listen to the radio in a peaceful and profound time and think of those who love themselves and their loved ones, relatives, friends or lost lovers.

Some people may wonder, is it so good for you to be alone? Don't you ever need company when you are sick, when you want to go shopping for dinner, or when you are aggrieved and want to talk to you? Of course, my answer is yes. after all, as a member of the community, I cannot get rid of the common problems faced by human beings, but when a similar situation happens, I will treat it in my own unique way. I will wrap up my coat at midnight when it is windy, put on clothes when I go out, and prevent heat when it is hot. When I want to find someone to go shopping with me for dinner, take a good book in advance and sit in a cafe to enjoy a warm afternoon of my own or sign up for a yoga fitness class to improve my internal and external performance. When I encounter difficult problems and setbacks, I will carefully analyze them according to my own situation and regard it as a springboard for me to know myself, improve myself, and let difficulties serve me instead of complaining to others. This is a good phenomenon for me who is very emotional. I used to like to complain and talk to others, but now I believe that as time goes by, I will slowly find a way to deal with it. I am more confident that I can handle this dilemma.

What I do is not to isolate others or myself, let alone to please anyone, but to accumulate enough strength for myself to face the troubles and worries of the world, and to prepare myself to face complex relationships with a superior heart. meet the best of yourself, let yourself enjoy the happiness you bring in your spare time at work With a high but not high-profile attitude to face life, face life.