No matter how well you do, there will be people who can't stand it and point fingers at you; even if you feel happy, there will always be people spitting sour water at you behind your back.
You don't have to worry, it's normal.
Life is like this, as long as others open their mouths, there will be opinions and criticisms.
There are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people.
You never know what role you are in the eyes of others, but it doesn't matter, just recognize yourself.
What if other people gossip too much?
Stand upright, upright, magnanimous, who is afraid of who.
Say in a loud voice: I go my own way with a clear conscience, so don't interfere. Get out of the way!
Does he dare to answer?
If you should, you have to give it back to him.
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Make your own decisions in your life.
It is not easy to be a man, all kinds of complicated things need to be faced and dealt with, and you are already very tired; if you still have to worry about other people's mouths and be good people in other people's mouths, it is even more difficult.
Life is no more than a hundred years, in detail, life is very short, only a few decades, except for the time to sleep at night is even shorter, do not feel bad with yourself.
Do what you have to do and live whatever you want.
People can say what they want. No matter how much they care, they are not the same people and don't go the same way.
Your time is precious. Don't get mad at boring things. Don't do things that are not worth doing because they are not worth it.
What you should eat, what you should drink, and what you should have a good time is the most important.
Don't let yourself live too hard.
We are all our own protagonists and are responsible for our own lives.
Some things, feel right, stick to it, even if you fail, it's okay, at least try.
Some people, worth cherishing, go on for the rest of their lives, even if someone gets lost midway, they also leave good memories.
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As the old saying goes: a ruler is short and an inch is strong.
No one is perfect, there are always deficiencies or defects.
We are no exception.
Do not want others to look at themselves with critical eyes, do not measure others by their own standards, be kind to others, leave some leeway to do things, and be kind to others.
You respect me, I also respect you; do not create something out of nothing, do not confuse right and wrong, do not utter nonsense, you do not disturb me, I do not disturb you, their peace is enough.
Other people's mouths, their own way.
Properly learn to untie the mind and let go of the ego.
Don't care too much about what others think of you, and you don't have to be eager to make others like you. On the contrary, you should pay more attention to other people's strengths, pay attention to their needs, and be considerate of other people's feelings.
Everything will be all right slowly. Don't worry, life will be what you want it to be.
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