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The other day, I saw a married woman on Weibo, talking about what she had to do when she got home from work.
After reading it, I immediately felt that it was really difficult for a woman in marriage.
Imagine waiting on clients for a day, picking up your children from school after work, and listening to parents in the class group discuss education and make-up lessons on the way, she wrote on Weibo.
Go home to wash clothes for the children and prepare ingredients for dinner. When her husband comes home, he should cook immediately, and the two men are crying for food at the dinner table.
During this period, we should also constantly urge children to learn, not to be affected by television. After dinner, you have to wash the dishes immediately.
My husband will only watch TV and won't help you wash the dishes. While you do the housework, you have to supervise your children's study to see if they are deserting.
Ask the children to do their homework at the same time, start to wash her husband's clothes and wash his underwear by hand.
Take a bath while there is still time, and then hang all the clothes out of the washing machine.
Ask the husband who watches TV for help, but the husband hangs the clothes so badly that you have to do it all over again.
Because the child does not perform well in school, take advantage of the time to blow his hair and listen to the school teacher talk about the child's study.
Finally, it was time to go to bed and put the child to sleep before he could go to bed.
Then the snoring in your ear began to remember that you closed your eyes and sighed.
What a real and heart-piercing picture, this is the daily life of all women in marriage.
Not to mention the contradictions between husband and wife, as well as the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, just to maintain a family's daily life is already exhausted.
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The state of women's daily life in this marriage reminds me of the two female stars' different views on marriage and love.
Zhang Yuqi, who has experienced the storm of divorce, was caught shopping with her ex-husband Yuan Bayuan a few days ago.
For Zhang Yuqi, her view of marriage is: I am not afraid of losing you.
Zhang Yuqi, whose family was poor since childhood, material is extremely important to her. I am not afraid of losing you in marriage, but I can't do without bread.
In a relationship, she will never let herself be aggrieved. If she feels particularly aggrieved in a relationship, she will leave immediately.
Of course, she will never devote herself to a man, because she is not afraid of losing.
This concept of marriage sounds cool, and Zhang Yuqi seems to live a more free and easy life than the married woman mentioned above.
Of course, everyone's personality is different, like is not the same, but the cold and warm marriage, but also can only know, and you make a choice, as long as you feel happy.
On the other hand, Yu Feihong's concept of marriage is even more moving. She has been asked by reporters why she did not get married. Is it the doctrine of non-marriage?
Yu Feihong said that she is not a non-marriage activist at all, and she does not reject or desire marriage.
Just feel that what kind of life they live more comfortable, will choose which one.
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For Zhang Yuqi, although she yearns for love, she will never devote herself to love. Material is the most important thing.
For Yu Feihong, marriage and material matters are not extremely important, happiness is the most important.
There is no difference between the two views of marriage, it is just that women choose how they want to live.
Life comes and goes, but not for long.
How to live our own splendor in our limited life is a lifelong event for each of us, which is not enough for outsiders.
Therefore, I appreciate women living like this.
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