If you figure it out, you'll never be angry again.

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No one's life is plain sailing. When people live in this world, they always get angry about all kinds of things.

Angry for the bus that missed in the morning, angry for the quarrel between lovers, angry for the unsatisfactory work.

But when you calm down, think about it, people in this life, happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not let yourself happy?

Don't be angry for others, those who say you are generally inferior to you, because they are jealous, they will point the finger at you. In that case, why should they be angry with such people?

Don't get angry about trifles, think about it carefully. If you look back at it in a month, a year, or ten years, it's just a speck of time. Is it worth your anger?

Do not be angry for money, do not ask for more money, enough to spend, for money to make their own body angry, but the loss outweighs the gain, the body is the greatest capital, to maintain their own body, more important than anything else!

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I once heard a story like this:

In ancient times, there was a woman who especially liked to get angry about trivial things. She also knew that she was so bad, so she asked an eminent monk to talk about Zen for herself and open her mind.

After listening to her story, the eminent monk led her to a Zen room without saying a word and left behind.

The woman jumped to her feet and scolded with anger. After scolding for a long time, the eminent monk ignored it. The woman began to plead again, but the eminent monk still turned a deaf ear. The woman was silent at last. The eminent monk came to the door and asked her, are you still angry?

The woman said, "I am only angry for myself. How could I come to this place to suffer?"

How can a man who doesn't forgive himself feel at ease? The eminent monk left in a huff.

After a while, the eminent monk asked her: are you still angry?

I'm not angry. The woman said.

Why?

There's nothing I can do to get angry.

Your anger has not gone away, it is still in your heart, and it will be more intense after the outbreak. The eminent monk left again.

When the eminent monk came to the door for the third time, the woman told him: I am no longer angry, because it is not worth it.

Also know whether it is worth it, it can be seen that there is still a measure in the heart, or a gas root. The eminent monk laughed.

When the figure of the eminent monk stood outside the door facing the setting sun, the woman asked the eminent monk: master, what is Qi?

The eminent monk spilled his tea on the ground. The woman looked at it for a long time and had an epiphany. Thank you and go.

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People want to live well in this life, the heart should be simple, people should be confused.

Would rather be a sugar cane, very straight, will not beat around the bush, although such a character, in the face of those who have too many minds always suffer, but I still like this kind of myself, at least with a clear conscience.

It doesn't matter if people are alive, stupid, stupid, simple, it doesn't matter, just be worthy of your conscience, be simple, don't bend around so much.

You are too shrewd, too clear, too clear, the more you know, the more tired you will be, and only you will suffer.

Don't think too much of yourself, because no one is much smarter and no one is more stupid than the other. You play with me, I will not be serious with you, you deceive me, I will let you go away! Sometimes you think I don't know anything, but I just don't want to argue with you.

Sometimes, calculate, calculate, calculate away relatives, calculate away friends, and finally cross the hill, only to find that there is no one waiting. That kind of loneliness can not be filled with how many things outside the body.

In the final analysis, life is a passing, passing mountains, passing through the sea, passing by joy, passing by sad, naked come, naked go. Everything we pursue now is that life does not bring death with us, so why bother to worry about them?

If your heart is tired, you will grow old. There are some things that really don't need to be taken seriously. In the end, no amount of money and power can buy a healthy body.

What do you want all your life? Picture a happy and comfortable, worthy of their own, but also very good!

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When you cry because you can't afford expensive new shoes, think of people in the world who don't have feet; when you're upset because you're in a bad situation, think of people in the world who do their best to survive.

Compared with many people, you are already very happy. As long as you know how to be content and grateful, everything is the best arrangement.

If you knew that this was the last day of your life, would you still waste your time on meaningless things? Do you still lose your temper for unimportant people? You will cherish every minute and try to pass by without regret.

Life is like this, one day less, some people are like this, meet one less. Live each day as if it were your last, and your state of mind will be calm and peaceful.

Leave your troubles to yesterday and give yourself free and easy. This is the best way to live your life.

Be the most authentic yourself, be simple, not hypocritical, be sincere to your friends and ignore your enemies. Just live a good life with those who cherish you, and the rest don't matter.

We came into this world, no one intends to go back alive, since alive, let's live a good life! Take a walk in the world, have a good time, it's worth it!