The greatest enemy of life is these three words!

Extravagance

There is an old Chinese saying that there are no more than three generations of poverty and no more than three generations of wealth.

The meaning of this sentence is: poor families can rely on diligence and thrift to get rich, while rich families will perish if they are extravagant and wasteful for not three generations.

Just like in the movie "alive", the rich used to be the landlord of the rich.

The rich father owned four mansions by inheriting the family business, but when the rich father gave the family property to the rich, there were only two houses of residence left in the family.

Fugui is a gambler who likes to gamble. He spends his time in the casino every morning and evening, and every time he gives the ledger credit.

Because the rich and noble spend a lot of money and spend a lot of money, they have gambled away their wealth of both houses.

In this way, the family business that the rich grandfather had worked hard to get in his life had already been squandered before the end of his grandson's life.

In fact, there is no clear line between rich and poor. In modern life, I have seen many people live a life of fake wealth.

On the other hand, those who are obviously very rich live a frugal life.

So, ah, the phrase "poor for no more than three generations and rich for no more than three generations" is about the gap between the rich and the poor, and this gap is only one word extravagant.

Luxury words represent two kinds of thinking, the thinking of the poor and the thinking of the rich.

In the public impression, the rich must be lavish spenders, but in fact, this is a kind of poor thinking.

When such a person makes a little money, he is bound to show off and squander the principal he has just owned, a typical nouveau riche behavior.

And the real thinking of the rich will not spend money casually, because every sum of money is a kind of investment and should have a long-term vision.

So ah, family failure can not be separated from a luxury word, this sentence is said to everyone, not just for the rich.

Arrogance

As the saying goes, pride leads to defeat.

The reason why the ancient motto can last for a long time is that it says a lot of truth.

Modest benefit, full of losses, proud people are bound to become the target of public criticism. Failure begins with pride.

As the saying goes: the sky is self-exalted, the earth is self-righteous. The more sunken millet is, the more he bows his head.

In Chinese history, the kings of all dynasties, whenever there was a period of peace and prosperity, were the kings who knew how to benefit modestly and attract losses.

After Tang Guogong Li Yuan established the Tang Dynasty, Tang Taizong Li Shimin inherited the throne. Far from being proud, he was the most adept at remonstrating the monarch.

He said: the wise Lord thinks short and good, while the dark Lord protects the short and is foolish forever.

He not only accepted remonstrance with an open mind, but also asked his officials to have the courage to ask for remonstration. it was precisely because his sages were enlightened that he created the rule of Zhenguan.

His modesty and respect for others not only set a moral example for people, but also increase the well-being of the people.

High-profile work, low-key life, a kind of breadth of mind, wisdom, strategy, but also the best attitude to be a person.

Yi

Yi, as the name implies, means comfort.

Everyone has a circle of life in which he is used to, in which everything is comfortable and comfortable.

But one's laziness begins with getting used to a comfortable life.

This comfortable life is the comfort circle for each of us. It means that all people live in an invisible circle.

In the circle, we have a familiar environment, get along with people we know, and do what we can do, so we feel very relaxed and comfortable.

But when we are used to living in such a comfortable and comfortable circle, we lose the ability to face changes and challenges.

Once we step out of this life, we will immediately face unknown changes and fears. When we do something wrong, we immediately return to our comfortable life.

This comfortable life is like boiling frogs in warm water. If we use boiling hot water, we will jump out immediately.

But with the slow heating up of the comfortable life, but let us die unconsciously. Comfort will only numb people's fighting spirit, so that people are slowly unwilling to change.

We should be vigilant and always remind ourselves that we should make continuous progress. Only in this way can we have our own place in society!

Extravagance, elegance, arrogance, three seemingly simple words, but contain profound wisdom, I hope everyone can understand the philosophy of life.