The so-called shortcut is just to take every step.

I have a friend who has been on the job for less than two years and has been successfully promoted to department manager through the relationship of his parents. In the eyes of others, it is really lucky to have such a shortcut. But in the years that followed, friends became more and more powerless at work.

Although as a manager, he has a certain prestige, but his staff only have superficial respect for him and do not accept him in private. After all, his friend is still young, his workplace experience is still inexperienced, his own ability needs to be improved, and his response to something is not very mature, and he often leads his team in the wrong direction.

For example, when it is time to increase publicity, he insists that the smell of wine is not afraid of the depth of the alley; when it is time to make products, he focuses on expanding the business; when it is time for fine management, he adheres to the extensive management model.

After realizing the seriousness of the problem, my friend decided to put on airs, follow the company's grass-roots employees, and start with the most basic work. From designing, making, and packaging products to how to find channels, do sales, and expand business, he took one step at a time to make up for all the homework he had left behind.

Friends say that when they have the ability, and then when the manager, the heart will be much more secure, much calmer, but also much more leisurely.

Many of us tend to be eager for a promotion and a raise when we are still incompetent. In fact, what we should do at this time is not to try our best to climb the branch, but to settle down and work hard. If the foundation is unstable and you want to skip the process of adding bricks and tiles to yourself, then even if you occupy a high position, you will be shaky, and you may even fall badly.

I remember that when I first started to learn to drive, I especially liked to increase gear in advance before the speed was raised. Sometimes, when the speed is still 20 yards, I increase it to fourth gear, and the result is that the car shakes violently and it is easy to stall.

Later, the coach taught me that we must first mention the corresponding speed, so that the power of the car is sufficient, and then step on the clutch, shift gear, refueling door. In this way, the car will connect smoothly and then move on.

In fact, people's growth is the same as driving. When you start, you move forward in first gear, so it's almost impossible to drive away in fifth gear. A little progress, and then use the second gear, third gear to move forward at a uniform speed. For example, when you are a young man, you can go to work only after you have studied, acquired knowledge and graduated. But it is impossible to rise to prominence in the first place and become famous immediately.

When you are mature enough, change to fourth and fifth gears to speed up. For example, when people reach middle age, they are often able to bear the burden and take responsibility. Only with certain skills can they climb to the top of life.

In fact, there are no shortcuts at every stage of life. If you want to grow, you need to experience and experience step by step, and slowly gain experience and experience in the process.

I read a story once.

A mother, thousands of miles away, trekking mountains and rivers, after several twists and turns, with her 8-year-old son, found the residence of a famous writer. The mother pleaded with the writer to teach her son to write shocking articles, and then made her son famous in a short time.

The writer was really helpless, so he wrote the secret on a piece of paper and put it in an envelope so that she could not read it until she took the child home.

As a result, when the mother got home and hurriedly opened it, she found that there were only three words written on it: read first.

That's not surprising. If everyone wants to succeed, he must lay a good foundation. If you want to write a good article, only when the foundation is laid, can you have smooth writing, clear thinking and ingenious layout. In this process, all the books you should read, the exercises you should do, the trial and error you should have and the trial and error you should have are indispensable.

When I was a child, I often asked adults when I could be like them, without reading or homework, and playing as long as I wanted.

At that time, adults always told me that you still have a long way to go. So, I waited, waited

Everything in the world has its own rules: spring planting, summer growing, autumn harvest, winter hiding, and doing things at any stage. When it's time for you to save your energy, don't rush to get ahead; when it's time for you to work hard, don't try to make a splash; when it's time for you to sharpen your mind, don't ask for sudden enlightenment.

The more solid your foundation, the more complete your process, and the longer your efforts persist, the more likely you will be to make a qualitative leap in your growth. In the end, you will understand that in this life, a lot of things are not urgent. If you want to have a harvest, you should eat bitterness, sweat and tiredness, not a little bit less.

Some setbacks cannot be avoided, some processes cannot be avoided, and some shortcuts cannot be taken. So, don't worry, don't panic, and don't be smart. Please believe that the quickest road to success is not overtaking at the bend. After living every day and every year in a down-to-earth manner, we can finally live a good life.

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