Behind the fierce, it is full of bitterness

Amy shared her personal entrepreneurial experience on the podium, mainly about how she went from being an ordinary advertising worker to becoming the CEO of an event planner. At present, the company is very popular in Shanghai, hosting major activities, and senior leaders in the city have also visited it. Amy appeared on the news network because the company did a great job.

At the end of the speech, I heard a man and a woman talking next to me. The man whispered, "this kind of company is very easy to handle. To do an activity is to hire a few people and set up a few tables." Pigs can fly in the tuyere.

Hearing this, I really feel blocked by a stone, because simple and rude comments can make people's efforts worthless in an instant. As Amy's former colleague, I know she almost exhausted her efforts to get the company to this point.

The initial business of the company began with holding small offline activities. Book club, social ball, yoga class, flower art, tea ceremony. . Pick up all kinds of activities. Amy has been doing everything on her own since then, and the partners are all on their own. In the early, middle and later stages, every link should be checked and every detail should be done well.

When I got back to the office in the early hours of the morning, I found that Amy was still changing her plan, surrounded by bags of instant coffee. What's even more exaggerated is that she doesn't even have time to brew coffee, so she just eats instant coffee. Later, I bought a sleeping bag directly from the Internet and slept in the company every day.

The drinks in the event should be confirmed to the supplier one by one. In order to improve the details of the service, she works as a waitress, serving tea and water unequivocally. The on-site projector broke down and read the manual to fix it. When the light bulb broke, I ran outside for 3 hours to find a suitable wick.

Then she naturally broke down, had a serious stomach problem, and had some problems with her eyes. I don't think it's necessary for her to do this. She told me that startups don't work hard or die, otherwise only 1% of startups survive, and success takes hard work.

I have nothing to say to her. She knows what she wants too well.

In spite of this, Amy never mentioned her hard work and hard work on any occasion. People in front of the goddess step on high heels, people behind is a strong girl, always lift up the sleeves to rush in the front, minor injuries can not get off the line of fire.

At this second, she stood on the podium and spoke eloquently, and everything in front of her was so beautiful. But no one thought that she had just finished a gastroscope from the hospital and took a taxi to the scene.

Many people remember Amy's brilliance, but I only remember her working at her desk in the dark. I can't even imagine how a person can get through the early stages of starting a business and get here.

The men and women who talk on the sidelines may not know these stories for the rest of their lives. They always stubbornly believe that other people's achievements are easy or have bad luck.

They will never understand that those who are powerful and shining are all people who climb out of the darkness.

A lot of people just work hard where you can't see it, and you don't know it.

Those bitter past events that are not enough for outsiders are the real reasons for their success.

Three months before the college entrance examination, the grade group leader invited an upperclassman who was admitted to the Chinese Department of Peking University last year to hold a mobilization meeting for the students. As soon as he heard that he was a god-man who was admitted to Peking University, people around him tried their best to squeeze into the lecture hall. The upperclassman's expression was indifferent, his smile was friendly, and he was very confident. He calmly narrated the struggle history of the whole high school.

About how to get into Peking University from 200 in the original grade to the first in the grade. After listening to the beginning, I knew that this may be an inspirational story that most people like to hear and hear. From lagging behind the grade level to overtaking, it only took him half a year. Many people off the stage are listening carefully, like devout believers.

I am a staff member, and I can feel the excitement of the crowd under the stage.

The upperclassman's story is like giving them a dose of stimulant, which is the purpose of this mobilization meeting.

I was the only boy in the student team. after the speech, the head of the grade group sent me to take the senior to the station. Because of this, we had the opportunity to communicate on the way. I didn't listen to the speech at all, because the fanatical atmosphere and crowd were difficult to make people meditate.

Unexpectedly, during the chat with the seniors on the way, he unexpectedly told me a lot of words that he did not say on the podium.

He said that he only said 1/3 of the content on the podium, and there was another 2/3 left unsaid about how to counterattack and be admitted to Peking University. He said that 184 days before the college entrance examination, his father died of a cerebral hemorrhage, leaving him and his mother alone. Mother was ill from head to toe and lost her ability to work. If he fails in the college entrance examination again, he really doesn't know how to live. At that time, he had only one idea in his mind that he must be admitted to the best university in China. He spent half a year in pain, even with a tendency to be mildly depressed. In addition to the regular school hours during the day, he had to study until 03:30 in the morning at night. He didn't get enough sleep, so he picked the time the next day to make up for his sleep with fragmented time. When I study at home, I put a fruit knife on the edge of the writing desk.

I was startled to hear this. He said that every time he felt tired, he would make a shallow cut in his right arm with a knife so that he could cheer up and study again.

Only a tingling can wake a person up.

The leader of the grade group invited him to share his experience, but clearly told him that because it was a mobilization meeting, it was necessary to show the brightest and most confident side. So he had to put away all his dark experiences and only show the warmest side.

But ironically, all this confidence and sunshine on the table are false. The anxious, dark, morbid efforts hiding in the corner are the reasons for his real success.

What impressed me most was what the senior said:

You go to see people who share successful experiences, and what they share is not the real reason for their success. Like the iceberg theory, you can only see the corner of the iceberg, but not most of its truth. Winners will not tell the whole process of those efforts, because those things are too dark and painful. At that time, I was the only one who knew the hardship best.

After being admitted to graduate school, many brothers and sisters added me Wechat. I hope I can share some successful experiences. It was only at that time that I realized that what the senior told me was absolutely correct.

As an experienced person, there is a limit to what he can share with others. I can teach them fish, or I can teach them to fish, but I can't show them all the process of my efforts. It is impossible for me to preach my pain and perseverance everywhere.

Many people smiled at me, saying I was good and saying I was good, but they didn't know the price I had paid for the exam. That kind of empathy and understanding is weak, and they can't empathize.

One of the things that impressed me most was that I got chicken pox during the 20-day countdown to the exam.

Anyone who knows about this disease should know that it is a very excruciating and contagious disease. I've been working hard for a year, and I'm going to play, and I'm going to play like this. Fortunately, one of my buddies in college accompanied me to the hospital to see a doctor, otherwise I really couldn't bear it, and I would fall down in a minute.

When I went to the hospital and entered the consultation room, as soon as the doctor saw my illness, he immediately pulled out a red book that read: register of sources of infection of the people's Republic of China.

The doctor told me that chicken pox is very contagious. Go home early and lie down and sleep for a week before you come out.

In order not to affect my college roommates and my family, I took some review materials and stayed in a negative-star hotel off campus for a week. Chicken pox, gastritis, high fever like an appointment, in a short period of time at the same time.

When I went to bed in the middle of the night, I had a burning forehead and an uncomfortable stomach, so I had to roll in bed from 1: 00 a.m. to 4: 00 a.m. Followed by endless vomiting, quickly ran into the toilet, hands on the edge of the toilet, face to the toilet, vomiting endlessly.

I really felt like I was spitting out the whole world and all my organs. I threw up until 6 o'clock in the morning, sleeping soundly with my head directly on the toilet.

If in reality, this kind of story will not be told, because it is hypocritical, you can only write an article to recall this bitter past.

In front of my younger brothers and sisters, I smiled and told them to refuel. But after laughing, I couldn't go any further. Because of this kind of thing, such as drinking water, people know whether they are warm or cold.

Those endless and long pains have faded, and they have long been turned into smiles in front of everyone.

It is precisely because powerful people work hard in places out of sight, so others will say: you see, he is just lucky, he is just in good condition at home, he may have opened the back door. To put it bluntly, he is just a pig in the tuyere, that's all.

They do not understand that the so-called greatness is all bought by hard work.

The reason why they are still intoxicated in mediocrity is only because they do not dare to exchange it with bitterness. They are afraid to lose, they are afraid to choose the only way, they are afraid to try their best to find out that they are nothing.

Even when the wind comes, they won't take a step forward.

They have killed all possibilities before they try.

I applauded Amy when she saw the screenshot of the news broadcast on the company's news broadcast in her moments.

Because I know she deserves it.

Because she knows one of the basic rules of success: barter. What do you want? OK, please exchange it with something.

You want to succeed? You want to be good? Very good, with hard work to exchange, with a bitter determination to change.

Strange said that at the end of the third season, the last one-on-one debate was whether laziness is the light of mankind.

When Jiang Sida and Huang Zhizhong finished their argument, Guo Degang made such a concluding statement: if the actors work hard, they will become Hou Baolin. But the seven sections of crosstalk and the seven Hou Baolin, how do we arrange who comes first and who comes last? This is how God designed it, some are the opening life, some are in the middle, and some are saving the bottom. Those who are diligent are diligent, and those who are lazy have a good rest. This is the way of heaven.

The number of good people will always account for 2, and the number of non-strong people will always account for 8.

I have to admit, it's too hard to become fierce or succeed. But there are always 20% of people, willing to go against human nature, willing to work against human nature, willing to trade the price for a wreath of success.

There are always 80% of people who conform to human nature and live a life without accident. This is really a very natural thing, this is the real state of us ordinary people.

With the passage of time, the distance between these two kinds of people will become bigger and bigger.

The cause may be that at that time, the lazy man did some ordinary things step by step.

And the fierce man of the future, he began to become patient and began to accept to do some painful things.

He began to understand that the glittering gold had to be replaced with cold, painful, less respectable bitterness.

He began to understand that good things were born on some kind of sacrifice.

Because those amazing things exist, they are not accidental.