01
Do not know how to be steady
If one lives in a crowd, one must first understand the truth of steady development. Anyone who wants to rise to the top in one step is crazy.
When a man goes crazy, that's when he starts to self-destruct. Everything in the world has a gradual and steady growth process, and if you do not understand its regularity, you will dig your own grave. Therefore, whether it is to be an official, study, business, full-time or mixed up in rivers and lakes, you need to understand this truth: to keep a steady pace and not to stumble, to have a healthy mind and body in parallel, to do everything in a clear way, not to disturb your mind, not to be blind, not to be fooled easily.
02
Do not understand the cold
When one is emotionally impulsive, one often tries to do something regardless of the seriousness of the consequences.
At this time, what people need most is to control their temper, use normal thinking ability, think about the causes and consequences of the problem, and prioritize. Anyone can say this sentence, but when your temper comes up, don't indulge yourself, muddle along, brake immediately and put it into practice.
03
Do not know how to be modest
Officialdom pays attention to shooting birds in the head, and some people are easy to be strong if they have talent. in fact, they may not want to do that, but if others feel it, you may bring disaster, while modest and prudent people will bring good luck. Modest people who do not understand are like thorns, always stabbing others, they are sure to be cut off by others. To those who really love to brag, Tianma Xingtian nonsense, cowskin blown through their own will laugh at themselves.
04
I don't know how to calculate.
The so-called calculation, perhaps people will think that it is a conspiracy such as murder.
In fact, in real life, people often say that people are complicated and sinister; if they do not have some precautions, they are bound to suffer losses. It is to let people know how to think about things and relationships, to achieve innumerable things in mind, and to know how to distinguish between the good and the bad.
In business, you need to know how to do accounts. In war, you need to know how to plan and plan carefully. Even if you make a daily living, you should know how to calculate your income and expenditure and prevent accidents. A person who does not know how to calculate things in life is sorry to find the reason in himself, but it is not the fault of others.
05
Do not know how to focus
To do anything, you must have a special drive for your mind in order to achieve results.
Don't give yourself too many reasons and excuses, the most important thing is to do the task at hand. Capriciousness will only lead to futility and melancholy, and you should give yourself a clear goal. To have too many goals is to have no goals.
Realize what you should do first, what you should do, to what extent, and what you insist on doing. Those who are used to jumping around, there are actually cases in which they can not jump out, all of which are drifting away repeatedly, killing their youth. Looking from one mountain to the other, he has actually lost his most competitive capital, youth and ability.
06
Don't know how to give up.
People's personality is very difficult to change, this really can not be forced. Some people are always stubborn, but there is no way to release their energy.
When you encounter a lot of inextricable problems, you think that as long as you don't give up, there will be results. In fact, wrong, when some problems the more you compete with it, the more complicated it is, so that you go astray and can not extricate yourself. Promotion is sometimes like finding someone to fall in love with. When you fail to succeed for various reasons, you are very unconvinced, resolutely refuse to give up, or even extreme behavior, and finally destroy yourself.
If the burden on a person is too heavy and the psychological pressure is too great, many behaviors will be distorted. Learn to give up those unnecessary encumbrances. This is mainly a decision at the subconscious level, which is not put down by the subconscious mind, but not actually put down.
07
Do not know how to be industrious and thrifty
In fact, the economic situation has a lot to do with personal income, and so is the external environment of the whole society. Now some people sigh: it is not easy to earn money, there is not much extra income, and their own small industries are not allowed to do.
Those who are really rich rely on continued diligence and thrift. When the situation is good, impetuous and boastful, disdain to do small things, bent on making big money, even when big money has not yet been earned, they begin to spend lavishly; once the situation is bad, do not hesitate to borrow usury, gamble, play some risk business that can easily get money, squander it wantonly, and disrupt if disaster, disaster, chaos, illness and other emergencies.
Once you have to worry about the money in front of you, you can't talk about career design. Therefore, do not underestimate the word "diligence and thrift".
08
Do not understand health
When it comes to health, most people say it to others and post it on Wechat. I won't say much about this, you know.
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