How did you get through the most difficult time in your life?

Time flies so fast that we have slipped away for more than ten days in 2018 before we can remember the past.

How have you been this year? Is it a sigh that it has finally passed, or is it a little reluctant to part?

In the latest variety show "my Girl", Wu Xin asked her best friend Shen Ling to dinner and cried when she was in love.

My 2018 was really not going well, when the program booked on the station was cut and the workload was halved. I am 36 years old this year, and I have not met anyone suitable for marriage. What else can I do if I do not become an artist in the future?

Facing the bottlenecks of her career and the empty window of her relationship, Wu Xin lost her star's halo, and there were times as difficult as us.

In fact, compared with those particularly sweet moments, we tend to remember those particularly difficult moments more deeply, because we hit bottom and rebound, and only when there is pain can we grow.

As a result, there are six true stories.

I'm 23 years old this year, and I had a big operation.

At that time, I talked about a boyfriend who had already met my parents. I basically felt that he was my future husband.

At first, he knew that when I was in hospital, he said he would come to accompany me.

But after I was in the hospital, he disappeared and didn't answer his phone calls. I always thought he was busy at work.

Later, on the third day after the operation, when I was still covered with all kinds of tubes and didn't even have the strength to talk, there came a text message from my phone, which was a breakup message he sent me, and then I called and turned it off.

My mother burst into tears when she found out.

At that time, he was discouraged, but he did not cry. The reason for clenching his teeth was that he hoped to go out and slap him.

In June 2018, the product line that I have been with for 5 years is about to see an explosion of performance.

However, the group company removed our line at the annual meeting and lost its job at the age of 30, with a confused future.

After talking about my first love for ten years, I also left me when I was close to talking about marriage.

He walked very decisively, saying that I had been busy with my work and running around, not caring about his feelings and ignoring my home.

Overnight, there is nothing, ten years of feelings, five years of struggle, all become a joke.

When I broke up, I was angry to move alone. It was already very cold in Beijing at 10:00 on October night. I dragged my box to take a taxi, and it rained down in heaven.

At that time, I really felt like a complete loser, squatting on the ground and crying.

At this time, my father in Lanzhou called and told me: in the eyes of your mother and me, you have always been very good, too tired to go home, parents pay to open a small shop for you is also very good.

At that moment, I regained my armor.

Three years ago, I left the management position of the insurance company and went to Nanshan Village, Hewan Town, Nanling County as the village secretary.

At first, I was full of enthusiasm, but later I found that poverty alleviation was much more difficult than I thought. I walked from house to house on the country road every day to help poor villagers find a way to get rich.

What makes me feel most valuable is to help a family of three who are poor due to illness.

The head of the household, Master Wan, 52, was diagnosed with liver cirrhosis two years ago. He, who is in the aluminum alloy business, simply cannot afford to pay nearly 20,000 a year for medical expenses, not to mention that he can no longer do heavy work in the future.

I helped him find cheaper alternative medicines, introduced him to raise pigs and chickens, and taught him how to open up sales channels. Now, 16 poor families in Nanshan Village have been completely lifted out of poverty.

Looking back on these three years, it should be the greatest achievement of my life to be able to help so many people.

In early 2018, her 50-year-old mother was diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer.

My parents divorced when I was very young, and my mother raised me alone.

Therefore, I have always been very independent and strong, hoping that I can make more money and give my mother a better life.

I am 26 years old this year. I have worked in Shanghai for four years and worked in finance. I have earned more money among my peers.

However, my mother's illness gave me a first blow, let me understand the smallness of the white man, I can not resist the disease and fate no matter how strong I am.

What is even more ridiculous is that it only leaves me 3 months from diagnosis to death.

"what worries me most is that you haven't had a boyfriend and haven't seen you get married," she said.

This sentence has been in my mind so far, let me understand that I worked so hard just to satisfy myself, in fact, my mother does not want to come to a bigger city and live in a bigger house, but to see that I am happy and safe and taken care of.

Thank my mother, is you let me understand the higher meaning of love, to cherish the future, although not so sparkling, but insipid and happy days.

The Spring Festival in 2018 was the first year of our marriage, and we almost got divorced in order to go to whose house for the Spring Festival.

His family is in Hainan, the journey is too far, I am 6 months pregnant and I really want to go back to my mother's home for the Spring Festival.

On a winter night, I drove away from home alone with a big belly. I stayed in a hotel near my home for three hours, but he didn't make a phone call.

Lonely, desperate, with the little doll kicking in the stomach at that moment I felt that the rest of my life was over, how could I marry such a selfish person? What if the baby is born?

I survived because a phone call from a good friend told me that he was actually worried about me, and that his father had health problems and didn't want to get pregnant, so I hoped to accompany him back to my hometown.

Only to find that, in fact, I am also quite selfish, and now I will thank myself for thinking about it.

The hardest time in life is not that no one understands you, but that you can't understand yourself.

In June 2017, I actively responded to the country's call to invest in accurate poverty alleviation projects.

At that time, I came down from the management position of one of the world's top 500 enterprises and came to the provincial poverty-stricken village, Shangyou County, Ganzhou City, to be the first secretary of the village. Many people did not understand it.

I know that there are 141 poor families in Tong Kok Village. Their life is very difficult. I want to change it.

The first plan is to promote the construction of power stations, especially to help poor households achieve photovoltaic power generation.

But in fact, the difficulties in reality were completely unexpected to me, and the lack of understanding of the masses made me very depressed for a time.

In January 2018, there was a dramatic increase of 175 on Lao Lan's all-in-one card from poor households. For the revenue of 3 yuan from photovoltaic power generation, my wife, who was firmly opposed to it, smiled from ear to ear and said yes to everyone.

Since then, 13 poor households in Tangjiao Village have been installed with family photovoltaic power stations, which has become a sharp weapon for poor families to get rid of poverty.

Looking at the actual improvement in the lives of the villagers, I also found the meaning of life that I had pursued.

Sometimes to help others is to help yourself.

Said that at the end,

In the TV series "Great Rivers" which has just been broadcast, there is an episode that I like very much.

Song Yunhui, who had just experienced the death of his sister in childbirth, lived alone in a strange city and went to heal himself in a small room.

Yang Xuan, an old classmate who had been out of touch for a long time, came to see him, saying that he happened to be passing by but brought a lot of specialties and delicacies ordered by his family, and offered to help clean up the house.

In the face of the visit of his old classmates, he finally couldn't help crying.

In fact, many of the difficult times we have experienced and how we feel that we can't get through them, come here in silence.

Sometimes, it is rare to help a person, let alone a group of people!

And this is what Yin Jianghong and Hu Shangrong of the above six stories are doing. These true stories were recently adapted into micro-films, and they were deeply moved after watching them.

In the new 2019, may we all live better, work harder and luckier, and reap real growth and higher life value through giving and taking.