After all, we have to learn to make peace with ourselves.

01

Everyone is living hard, although not everyone can live the life they want.

We struggle in reality, sometimes we are bumped into our heads, and sometimes we get some treasure, but more often we all live a dull life.

We have complained about the injustice of fate and avoided the difficulties in life, but in the end we learned to live in life.

From a blank piece of paper at birth to a story in old age.

Along the way, through the thorny path, but also through the road full of warm sun, every moment in the stream of life, has been flowing with endless hope.

Have been stubborn, have given up, but also have been disappointed, in the relationship with the world, from the original edges and corners hard and soft gradually.

Is an experience, groping in the wind and rain, frustrated anxiety, these originally belong to bad things, but finally achieved the wonderful life.

Like the lyrics in the ordinary Road: I was lost and disappointed, lost all directions, until I saw the ordinary is the only answer.

02

I met a college classmate not long ago.

When she was in college, she was the goddess in the eyes of all the boys in the class. Singing and dancing, all kinds of literary performances would certainly not lose her figure. Finally, she was sent to graduate school, and we had less contact.

Later, someone said that she must be ready to be a blockbuster.

But three years later, until I saw her again, she said: unexpectedly, I am going to be a mother.

I asked her if she still danced, and she said not anymore.

After graduating from graduate school, she went to many dance troupes for interviews, but all of them were brushed off, and she suffered from anxiety because of great stress, so that as long as she changed into dance clothes, she would become restless.

In the end, she gave up dancing and focused her life on her family.

I asked her if she would feel unreconciled, and her answer made me sigh.

She said that at first she would not be reconciled, but later found that there are many ways to live in life, not blindly working hard.

To go all out and fight to the end represents only part of the truth of life.

There are two sides to everything. If you forge ahead, you will retreat in the face of difficulties, and if you gain, you will lose. Learn to fight with yourself, but also learn to reconcile with yourself.

If you try hard, even if you can't live the way you want, it's not shameful.

There is always a time in life that goes against your wishes, in the face of the gap between ideal and reality, in the face of a life that is far from what you imagined, and when there is nothing you can do about it, you should learn to reconcile with yourself. instead of continuing to indulge and entanglement, meaninglessly wasting time.

It is not enough to feel sorry for yourself, let alone to blame and despise yourself.

If you work hard and think you're really not good enough, take a break. It doesn't matter.

Stop to rest, in order to better sprint to build up strength, whispered to yourself: have a rest, I do not have to be so perfect, just try my best.

If you are tired, try to make peace with yourself.