If you want to lose all your life, please waste all your previous efforts.

In the spring, a reader left me a message, which probably means:

"Sister Lu Lu, I am a college student. I've been reading your article. With your encouragement, now I have also opened an official account. I have been holding on for 43 days, but no one pays attention to the article I wrote.

I think I always fail in my life. I didn't get any grades no matter what I did in college in the past few years. I feel very distressed that my life is a mistake at all. "

Who doesn't have the confusion of youth? I can also read her anxiety through the screen.

We added Wechat and I asked her to send me the official account. On the official account, there are a total of more than a dozen articles, the most of which is about his lovelorn, which breaks his heart and has a hit rate of more than 200.

It took me an hour to tell her the way I summed up the operation of the official account.

Finally, I said: "although the official account is a very effective industry, but no matter how fast there must be a process of accumulation." Everything must be done with quantity before quality. As a top priority, you should first accumulate content, have high-quality content, and then consider operational matters. "

She said happily, "Sister Lu, what you said is so reasonable." I'll go back and write hard. Thank you. "

After talking about Wechat, I squinted and made a pot of chrysanthemum tea. I talked too much and my mouth was too dry. But it's beautiful to be able to help others. It's worth it. it took me an hour of my life.

Two weeks later, she came to me again. There is an article to whitelist. I asked her, "Don't you write original anymore?"

"I think my current life experience is still inexperienced and my writing still needs to be honed," she said. I first start to reprint some of my favorite articles, and then slowly temper it. "

The rarest thing in life is self-knowledge. It is rare that she is so picky when she is so young. I gave her a whitelist and encouraged her to say, "High-quality content is what distinguishes you from others. Keep writing. Don't give up."

She sent me a lovely expression and said, "Sister Lu, every time I chat with you, I gain a lot." I'll try. "

Another month later, she said on Wechat: "Sister Lu, do you accept paid promotion?" I'd like you to push my number. "

I went to check her account. In addition to reprinting, I have written no more than five new articles, and two articles have obviously come to an end and ended hastily.

So I said: "according to the situation of your official account, even if others pay more attention, you will get through it by flipping through it." If you give the money to push, isn't the money paid for nothing? "

"I studied the operation of Weibo and Wechat, a lot of new media, and found that the most important thing is to have the first batch of 'original fans'," she said. This is like a snowball, as long as there is an initial small ball, it will easily roll into a big ball. All I need now is this little ball. "

She added that she was about to graduate, and she didn't want to use her surplus value to fatten others. This year is the hottest year for self-media, and it is also the last boat. If you don't jump on it, you won't be able to catch up.

My goal is not too big, as long as I can achieve 100,000 fans. Then you can advertise, do group buying, and conduct training. There are so many interesting things to make money in the world. I don't want to be trapped in an office and look at the ugly face of the boss.

Today's young people are not what they used to be. When I was young, my parents' interest classes in astronomy, geography and the logic of Mathematical Olympiad did not pay in vain. She said that she was so emotional and eloquent that even I was desperately calculating: "so, how many tens of thousands should I do with my number?"

But I always thought something was wrong, but I couldn't tell.

We talked for a long time, but I also turned down her request to pay for promotion. Morality makes me self-discipline. I can't take other people's parents' hard-earned money against my conscience.

She hung up the phone and was not happy. A few days later, I saw her share a link to recommend her on her main account in moments. Maybe I was wrong. Where there is a will, there is a way. I am not qualified to judge.

For a few months, a string of days flowed down, and I was too busy to breathe.

Last week, I suddenly received a mass message from her: "Please like and comment on the first message in my moments." I went to have a look. It was an advertisement for cosmetics.

She obviously started to work as a WeChat businessman, sending several posts a day, each with nine pictures, all of which were awl network celebrity faces without recognition rate, and were pretending to sell cosmetics. I thought of her official account and went to look it up. It hasn't been updated since the early autumn.

Today, when human feelings are as thin as water, WeChat business is really a hard and bitter industry, and if you don't agree with each other, you have to hit your face.

I can only wish her, little girl, all the best in your life and go further and further.

Zhang ailing said, "it is better to be famous as soon as possible", which poked everyone's pain point.

This is a crazy era, and everything is changing too fast. People are impetuous to the extreme, anxious to be utilitarian, no longer have patience to wait, wish everyone tied a rocket on their buttocks, puffed up to heaven.

The number of fans can rise by 200000 for an article, 5 million for an official account venture capital, and 10 million for a pigeon cage. Within a few years, the RMB must surpass the NDP, ah, with a calculation of 100 million!

We live in an age of personal heroism, and everyone is anxious. We always hear how many billions other people have made, and we always feel that we have missed the whole hundred million.

We are anxious, we are nervous, we are excited, we are afraid, we are angry, we have high vision and low skill.

A boy with feelings, dreams and down-to-earth feet plans his life like this:

Graduate from university, enter the company, monthly salary is 3000; job-hopping in June, monthly salary is 6000; jump again in September, monthly salary is 10,000.

The following days, job-hopping promotion, promotion, job-hopping, 25-year-old, can be in a well-known listed company monthly salary of 30,000; 30-year-old management, an annual salary of one million. When he resigned at the age of 32 and started his business, the VC heard the news and squeezed his head to give him money. After several rounds of financing, the company went public in the United States and Hong Kong within three years, wearing a 35-year-old Armani bespoke suit and driving a private jet to Wall Street to ring the bell.

His wisdom is: the most precious thing in the world is time. You can't pick up dollars when they fall on the ground, because the time I bend over is worth more than the dollars I lost.

Wait a minute. Isn't this Li Ka-shing? But he's almost 90?!

Yes, Li Ka-shing's current height of life is ideal. Unfortunately, if he could have reached 30 years earlier...

Don't laugh when you read this. It's not a dream. This is a dream, such a young man with a dream, there is a big pile of Wuyang here.

Those children who have been encouraged to grow up will not understand until they are covered in silt that it is not a normal thing to take for granted. Many times, I try my best, but I still have to give up after all.

Life is like an hourglass, from the minute you are born, the hourglass is upside down and the clock begins.

So the most precious thing in life is not money, but time. After the money has been spent, you can still earn back thousands of dollars, but you will not have time, energy or morale.

Each of us has only one non-round-trip life, and each of us has only one opportunity to seize. How to spend our lives is an important issue that we really have to consider.

Everyone's path cannot be replicated, nor can everyone's success be compared. Instead of spending time blindly learning from others and how to imitate others quickly and efficiently, spend some time on yourself.

Slowly calm your heart down, find something you want to do, and then start when you are ready. Once you start, do it and don't give up.

You know, the biggest waste in the world is giving up halfway.

If you want to lose all your life, please waste all your previous efforts. This is a maxim shortcut that you can keep in mind.