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I saw an interview with Huang Lei.
In marriage, love must be the foundation, and it must always be the foundation, he said.
I am very opposed to husband and wife becoming relatives. My parents are relatives, and my daughter is relatives.
But my wife will always be my lover, my wife and I are still lovers, and we should be lovers all our lives.
Huang Lei doesn't like to go on business trips, so he will go home to accompany his wife after filming. All these years, he didn't want his wife to cook, but cooked for his family himself.
In September 2015, Huang Lei and his wife held a wedding party that had been in love for 20 years.
The smile on his wife Sun Li's face, the upbringing of his two daughters, and the praise in everyone's mouth all show the excellence of this man.
Huang Lei feels that his wife is always the lover in his eyes and should be taken care of.
Also said that marriage should hug and kiss, nothing must be able to eat, pot, sleep in a bed.
People were ashamed to hear it and ate a handful of dog food.
However, the couple in the real fireworks need this kind of love nourishment.
Love is passion, intimacy and commitment, all of which have nothing to do with family affection.
We all have relatives, and what we really need in our marriage is a lover who can spend the rest of our lives together.
After getting married, many men regard their wives as relatives and think that marriage is a guarantee, and there is no need for love and romance.
When you are no longer willing to pay feelings, the wife has been neglected for a long time, over time, will she still be infatuated with you?
The obvious answer is no.
Only good love interaction can make the relationship between husband and wife more intimate and lasting.
In a healthy family, the relationship between husband and wife must come first.
Please be kind to your wife, she is the one who loves you all your life.
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In the neighborhood, there is an old couple.
The figure of jogging and exercising happily in the park throughout the year often makes us envy.
They are nearly eighty years old, still radiant and smiling.
Their children work abroad, and the couple walk with silver hair and brisk steps every morning and evening, much younger than their age.
I often see the old man coming home with a vegetable basket, buying carefully selected fresh vegetables and cooking for his wife himself.
The flowers and plants that his wife likes are also placed at home.
Once, when I saw them returning from a trip to Malaysia, I said with envy, "Old man, you are so kind to your aunt."
While helping his wife put on his overcoat, he laughed and said, "it's not easy for your aunt to accompany me all my life. I have her in the palm of my hand."
To love and to be loved are happy.
There are three meals for two people in one room for four seasons, and the immortal couple, isn't it?
People don't know until they are old that the only one who can really walk through life hand in hand with you is his wife.
She is the sustenance of your feelings, the nurse in your life, and the listener of your heart.
Only she can be in the same boat with you, share joys and sorrows, love each other, never give up.
Please be kind to your wife, she is the one who will accompany you all your life.
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What impressed me very much was a cartoon by Zhu Deyong:
The two couples met arm in arm, and the two women walked forward without squinting eyes, while the two men secretly looked back at each other's beautiful wife.
On the one hand, this cartoon shows that men turn a blind eye to the beauty of their wives; on the other hand, men tend to like the new and hate the old.
There are some men around them, Valentine's Day or Qixi Festival, who will not give gifts to their wives at all.
Old husband and wife, like the left hand touching the right hand, passion attributed to insipid, what festival?
Some men simply say: Valentine's Day is a holiday with a lover, and the wife is a relative, so there is no need for a holiday.
They only care about eating, drinking and merrymaking outside, regardless of their wives' feelings.
It can only be said that a man like that is too selfish to consider his wife's feelings at all.
Your wife used to be a beautiful girl, and you did everything you could to get the beauty back.
Wash the lead for you, have children, do housework, respect the old and raise the young. Poor food does not dislike you poor, smelly foot disease does not dislike you dirty.
Is it because she is married that she doesn't deserve Valentine's Day?
Don't forget that in the eyes of other men, your wife is also a beautiful flower.
Give your wife a bouquet of flowers and she will happily return a box of chocolates; give her a hug and she will happily give you a kiss.
You protect her from the wind and rain, she dispels your troubles.
There is a saying: if you treat your wife as a princess, you are a prince; if you treat your wife as a maidservant, you are a servant.
The way you treat your wife will also become the way your wife treats you.
Please be kind to your wife, she is the one who takes care of you to the end.
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Neighbor D is grumpy and often yells at his wife, which is difficult to respect.
He had no wife in his relationship, but as expected, he had an affair, and the husband and wife were at odds with each other and divorced.
Mr. D finally got what he wanted and married that beautiful little lover.
More than a decade later, his wife disliked him for being old and sick, lost power and power, and partnered with her lover to throw him out of the house.
The son born to his ex-wife is also unwilling to support his irresponsible father.
At this point, he was repentant and unhappy.
But no one sympathized with his experience, saying that he did not cherish his wife's efforts and deserved such a desolate end.
There is a joke that: the wife is other people's good, the child is own good.
There are some men who only care about being an uncle in their marriage and turn a deaf ear to the big and small things in the family.
Because men who have no sense of responsibility do not know how to love their wives and children at all.
They do not cherish the hard work their wives have done for their families, but only see the brilliance of other wives.
They are not grateful for the children's eating, drinking, sleeping and mischief. They are all cleaned up by their wives, but they just think that the children will grow up obediently.
Guan Hanqing, a famous litterateur in the Yuan Dynasty, said: flowers bloom again, and people are no longer young.
When a man is in his prime, he gets carried away, regardless of his wife and children, and he is happy.
Even feel that making money is an uncle, disrelish his wife is aged woman, divorce and marry a young new lover.
He thought he had made a profit, but in fact he lost a lot.
The result of family separation is often the loss of the wife's life, but also makes the children in psychological and life difficulties, difficult to become talented and happy.
What's more, I never thought that when I was old and weak, and when I was thrown out by my new lover, remorse was of no use, and it was impossible for me to start over.
Only when your wife enters the marriage for love and endures humiliation for the family will she be willing to accompany you all your life.
It is better to treat a lover as a lover than a wife.
Bill Gates, founder of Microsoft, said that the smartest decision in his life was to marry his wife.
Bill Gates is the richest man in the world, of course, there is no shortage of beauties around him, but he is smart, he still loves his wife.
The wife's face hides the temperature of her husband's love.
Wives who are well-treated and nurtured by love tend to be happy and full, have a beautiful smile, and are younger and prettier than their actual age.
If your wife is healthy and happy, take good care of your children and family, you will be able to concentrate on your career without worries.
A wife is not a relative, but a lover who will accompany you all your life. If you treat your wife kindly, she can also be your most beautiful lover.
Please be kind to your wife, she is the lover of your life.
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