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Many people feel that they live in suffering and want too much, but they are incompetent and unable to change.
But that's the way life is.
People live, to experience a lot, good and bad, sweet and bitter, sometimes suffering, sometimes laughter, life is always full of ups and downs.
People look aside in the ups and downs and grow up in the ups and downs.
Perhaps in this world, people need to learn three things in life: accept, change, and leave.
These three things are the three golden keys on the road of life, opening the road to happiness.
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Number one: accept.
Once, I was a perfectionist.
Now, I still am, but will accept the imperfection with a smile.
A doctor told me that when a patient learns that he has cancer, there will be a gradual process, which will be divided into five stages.
Whether or not to recognize the first stage, when they begin to learn that they have cancer, most patients will reject this fact, deny the truth and refuse all cooperation.
The second stage is the period of anger, when patients deny the facts, they still have some hope in their hearts, and when the facts cannot be changed, they become angry.
The third stage is the consultation period, the patient will slowly calm down after venting, and he will have a dialogue with himself for a period of time.
The fourth stage is the period of depression, when reason is slowly restored, the heart is still very painful in the face of cruel facts, the mood will become very depressed.
The fifth stage is the acceptance period, after a long period of melancholy, patients will understand a truth, that is to enjoy the last life.
In fact, life is like the five stages of cancer, each of us needs to go through this process slowly.
Accept your own imperfections, accept the imperfections of others, and accept the imperfections of this event.
But when we learn to accept, we will find that life seems to add a lot of color.
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Second: change.
Game of Thrones can be called one of the most shocking TV epics.
In this play, there is a character called the Imp, and the actor who plays this role is a dwarf.
Before the age of 29, his life was ordinary. He chose a job he didn't like and lived a life he didn't like.
But one day he made a decision to become an actor.
How many handsome men and girls are buried in places like Hollywood, but he wants to die.
Living in the basement year after year, performing some unfashionable characters and drifting around.
In the end, he won an Emmy for best supporting actor for his stubbornness.
Don't stick to the status quo, learn to change and show a new self. Don't ask others why, ask yourself why.
The distance is terrible, because it is impossible to know whether the other person will miss you or forget you.
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Number three: leave.
Cut off the things you never need, give up the superfluous waste, and get rid of the obsession with things.
This is the meaning of separation, and this is the last golden key of life.
Our brains are often obsessed with past successes, past experiences, past sorrows and pains.
There is always something we can do, but there is nothing we can do about it. But letting go is a relief.
Life is so short a few decades, there is really no need to let yourself live too tired.
Can't accept, then change, can't change, then leave.
When we get the last golden key in life, we will find that life is suddenly clear.
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