30, 40, 50.

01

Thirty what?

Thirty-year-old people should be able to rely on their own ability to independently assume their own responsibilities, and have determined their own life goals and development direction.

Simply put, a thirty-year-old should be able to face everything calmly. It can be summarized in three aspects: establishment, career and family.

Stand up.

To establish oneself is to establish one's own character and cultivation, which should include three aspects: ideological cultivation, moral cultivation and ability cultivation.

Self-improvement is the foundation of the body, do not pin their own needs on the support of parents, pinned on the help of others, it is weak performance.

Standing is the minimum requirement for everyone to be based on society.

Establishment.

To establish a career is to establish one's own career. A man of thirty should have a relatively fixed occupation. To engage in every career, one must have ability. In modern words, one must have a skill.

This is necessary for survival. With the development of modern science and technology, the requirements for everyone in all aspects will become higher and higher. The surplus of labor force in China has aggravated this excessive requirement. This is only a special phenomenon in this special historical period.

Career is not only a means of survival, but also a necessary part of social responsibility.

Set up a home.

To establish a family is to have one's own family. In today's society, fierce competition has delayed the time for young people to establish a family, but I still think it is not too early to establish a family at the age of 30.

As for whether to establish a career first and then establish a family, or to establish a family first and then establish a career, everyone's situation is different, and there is no need to distinguish which is first and which is second.

Young people must take on social and family responsibilities, and it is better to do so early.

Thirty-something is the minimum requirement for young people, but reality is far from our expectations. Of course, this is related to the spoiling of children and employment pressure of Chinese people. This is also a Chinese characteristic!

02

40 and not confused, understand what?

Forty without doubt, forty without doubt.

At the age of forty, people chew the warmth and coldness of the situation, feel the ruthlessness of the years, the past is long, forty years flick, after experiencing many doubts, hesitation, excitement and joy, it is meditation and enlightenment.

Less passion, more calmness; less impulse, more calmness; less worry, more reason; less indulgence, more responsibility; less blind obedience, more ego

A man of forty years old is very rational and sober; externally, he understands society; internally, he understands himself; and to himself, he understands responsibility.

Externally, he understood society.

People live in society and cannot live without society. The more advanced society is, the higher people's dependence on society will be.

Forty-year-old people, no longer young, lack of social fantasy and eager to participate in the passion of society, the experience of life more or less wear away some passion, more calm.

Frustration made him understand that the relationship between people and society is the relationship between individuals and groups. Individuals are a member of groups. Individuals cannot control groups, so they must face it squarely.

Individual ideals and aspirations must be built on the basis of real society, otherwise they are utopian. He would have a calm inner strength to deal with the outside world.

Internally, he understood himself.

Therefore, the so-called growth is the gradual strengthening of the inner heart in the experience, and the so-called return of life is to turn the external things into inner energy.

Have ideals, not delusions; desire, not expectations; act, not acts.

There are ideals, think should be, but the key is in care, to practice; there is desire can also be, the key lies in practicality; there is action, the key lies in moderation.

Forty-year-old people, is the most practical age group of people, half of life, fewer opportunities and opportunities, should not make mistakes and take a roundabout way.

To himself, he understood responsibility.

The greatest characteristic of a man of forty is that he understands his responsibilities. He must assume social, family and child-rearing responsibilities.

First of all, he must do his own work well. This is not only a need for survival, but also a contribution to society. It is a social responsibility that must be fulfilled. Only the hard work of every member of society can bring progress to the whole society.

Secondly, a forty-year-old person, whose parents are older, as a forty-year-old person, must assume the family responsibility of supporting the elderly and do his best to fulfill filial piety as soon as possible;

Also, forty-year-olds, children are in the learning stage, training and educating their children, that is, parents 'responsibility, but also for the continuation and development of society due social responsibility.

Forty-year-old people, is the brilliant period of life, but also for society and family contribution to the greatest period.

03

50 years old, what do you know?

50 to know destiny. Destiny, divine will or command, extended, refers to necessity or fate.

More than half of his life had passed, and the basic outline could be vaguely seen. Whether it was knowledge, experience, or self-control, they had reached the highest level. The basic direction should have remained unchanged.

At fifty years old, he knew his destiny trajectory and did not complain; he knew his own life orientation, not especially people; he knew his unfinished responsibilities and did not slack off.

Know your destiny trajectory, do not complain about heaven.

At the age of 30, most people's life trajectory is tortuous, jumping upward, 40-year-old life trajectory to the peak, 50-year-old life trajectory is relatively stable.

Without special circumstances, it is difficult to have large fluctuations again.

Fifty-year-old people, through most of their lives, they are in the most sober stage of life, he will never complain about God's injustice, but silently accept the existing reality.

But also very clearly predict their own future, will be very calm work and life.

Know their own life positioning, not especially people.

After more than 20 years of hard work, he has a career. No matter what occupation he is engaged in, after more than 20 years of hard work, he has reached a fairly high level in his life in terms of professional level, technical level, experience, decision-making ability and personal cultivation. It can be said that he has certain strength.

Economically, after more than 20 years of accumulation, it also has a certain amount of financial resources; moreover, after more than 20 years of tempering, it has rich experience and improved its ability in all aspects.

Although everyone's strength, financial resources and ability are different, and their influence on society is different, when everyone compares himself and himself vertically, at fifty years old, these aspects should be said to be at a high level.

A fifty-year-old man will never complain about others. He knows his own position in life and is used to the role he should play.

Know your unfulfilled responsibilities and don't slack off.

Fifty-year-olds are not yet of retirement age, but they are not out of reach. At this time, they will think of continuing to work for ten years and fulfilling their social responsibilities.

The fifty-year-old man, whose parents are old, often runs for the complicated and trivial life chores of the old man, because they have to fulfill their family responsibilities;

Fifty-year-old people, children are at a critical time of study and employment, children's future, often their most concerned and things, they must fulfill their responsibilities as good parents.

Fifty-year-old people, every time they think of their unfinished responsibilities, they will have a feeling that time is waiting for no one, dare not have any slack, and persevere in their efforts to complete their due responsibilities.

Fifty-year-old people, to the most mature stage of life, success and glory bring happiness at the same time, but also often accompanied by some pressure, but they can face very calmly, because they understand the society, but they know themselves better!

04

60 ears, see through what?

At the age of sixty, despite the good words and bad words of others, I can listen to them without being moved or angry, and my heart is still calm.

At this age, no matter what remarks you hear or what twists and turns you encounter, you can think calmly, adapt your emotions to the objective environment, conform to the laws of things, learn not to be irritable, not discouraged, not sad, not flinching, and achieve a consistent situation of neither favor nor disgrace.

A man of sixty sees through life; a man of sixty sees through life; a man of sixty sees through fame and fortune.

A 60-year-old man sees through life.

Life is three periods: from birth to society before, is to learn all kinds of knowledge, learning skills, learn to be a person, this is about 20 years old for a stage, I call it the growth period;

From work to retirement at about the age of 20, these 40 years or so are the working stage, making contributions to society, contributing to the family, supporting the elderly and raising children. I call it the contribution period.

From retirement, from a predominantly social role to a predominantly family role, with pensions and child-rearing, I call it the harvest period.

Sixty-year-olds understand this and are happy to accept this reality. They clearly know that people of every age should have a life that people of that age should have.

A 60-year-old man sees life.

Life, life is life, life determines and affects life, so 60-year-old people, a good life is the most important.

Healthy and happy life, not only can reduce the burden of children, but also a contribution to society, at least can reduce the consumption of medical resources.

The meaning of life lies in their contribution to society and others than to society and others for, you did, there will be no regrets.

A man of sixty years old sees through fame and fortune.

At work, the role in the career determines one's social status.

After retirement, the corresponding roles have also changed, from social roles to family roles, and the original roles have been returned to society accordingly.

For example, what kind of section chief, section chief, director, engineer, teacher, doctor were you when you worked

Retired, just one name: retiree.

As for profit, your pension after retirement must be less than the salary when you were in your post. Just arrange your life according to your income. No matter how much property you have, when you die, you will leave it to your children.

Only the body is your own, you are sick, others can not replace, you are healthy and happy, others can not control.

Sixty-year-old people, experienced years of polishing, experienced twists and turns and setbacks, leaving only life footprints, achievements are their own rich experience, self-cultivation.

Sixty-year-old people, is the late autumn of life, his pace of life is slow, but can carefully taste life, enjoy the journey of life in various scenery, enjoy to provide their own hard work to the community after the sense of achievement, enjoy the carefree relaxed life, enjoy the taste of sweet and bitter memories brought about by a unique feeling.

A man of sixty is late autumn in his life, but only late autumn has its distinctive style.

05

70 years old, what should I do?

Seventy from the heart, very simple, is to obey their own ideas, want to do what they do.

But what's important is the last three words: no more than the moment. Just don't break the rules.

So, how do you do that? It should be: follow nature; follow circumstances; do not overstep boundaries.

Let nature take its course.

To the outside world, there is nothing to complain about, pension does not care how much, children often do not care.

There is no high requirement for material life, just eat well, the house is not large, enough to live, do what you are interested in, do not care about other people's views, do not panic about physical aging, do not fear death, everything goes with the flow.

Do whatever you want and be happy.

In the face of all kinds of life encounters are calm face, encounter happy things, not excessive excitement, encounter sad things, to get rid of sadness as soon as possible, encounter frustrated things, do not care, even the pain of disease can also calmly face, silently bear.

In short, no matter what happened, they kept calm and stable.

Do what you want without exceeding the rules.

Following one's heart does not mean not caring about anything. One should not exceed the rules. One should be in line with the rules. What should one be in line with the rules?

I think it's three words: reason.

Generally speaking, no one will do anything illegal. We should pay attention to how to be reasonable. We should be more reasonable with old comrades, old classmates and old friends, and within the family. Even in the family, we should only be reasonable and not reasonable.

There is nothing wrong with who, the old couple spend the rest of their lives together healthily, that is, happiness.

As long as it is reasonable, it is to do whatever you want, as long as you are interested, as long as you are happy, as long as you are happy.

Some people say: 60-year-old people, officials are not officials the same; Seventy-year-old people, rich and poor the same.

There is some truth to this.

After 70 years old, everyone is the same, is the pursuit of good health. Good health is a basic condition for ensuring quality of life.

Do not pursue longevity, to pursue high quality of life, high quality of life, is the perfect life.

People in the middle, seventy years old is also a part of the journey of life, for the first seventy years have passed, for seventy years later, it is a new starting point.

Always put yourself on the journey of life, you will feel that the future is long, you will not sigh that your old age is too short, you will be happy every day.

Look ahead, a new day, there will always be new content of life, there will always be new happiness, you will see a hope and thoughts of life, remember the beauty of life in the future.