How much sweetness does it take to fill the bitter heart?

01

In a certain issue of "Strange work", Bonnie Bo said, "how much sweetness does a person with a bitter heart need to fill?"

Ma Dong replied that people who are very bitter can be filled with a trace of sweetness.

Forrest Gump says: life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get.

But life is not all chocolate. I think it's bitter. It's more like Pandora's box.

You never know what will come out when you open it.

It is also like a pot of good tea, it tastes bitter, but when you learn to taste it, you will find it sweet.

It is because of this that there are more possibilities in our lives.

I can't help it. Life is hard.

You can't expect everyone to understand you, because there are a lot of things you can't empathize with. Everyone has a different understanding of the right amount of salt in cooking and eating 7% full.

Many things still have to be carried by themselves, and everyone has bitterness in their hearts.

You are an unhappy adult, you have reasons, but you have to pretend to be a sensible adult and say with a smile, it's all right.

But your unhappiness, your bitterness, as long as a little sweet, can all be made up for.

02

Xiao Jie has been suffering from postpartum depression since she gave birth to a child.

She lives in fear of denying herself every day, and doesn't even dare to look at her child again.

Listen to the sound of people amusing their children in another room, as if in a different time and space.

Obviously so close to each other, but never seem to touch the edge.

Xiao Jie had a caesarean section. After giving birth to the baby, the wound on her stomach often hurts. But spiritually, it is invisible to the naked eye.

Xiao Jie's husband and family didn't notice it.

Xiao Jie thought that the disease would be cured after a long time, but she did not expect that the longer the time, the deeper the injury.

With the passage of time, Xiao Jie's children grow up slowly.

One day, when Xiaojie was changing clothes, the child suddenly rushed in to find his mother and inadvertently saw Xiaojie's wound.

For so many years, Xiao Jie won't let anyone see this wound, not even her husband.

Because Xiao Jie is worried about scaring them.

But unexpectedly, Xiaojie's child stroked Xiaojie's wound and asked, "how did this smiling face come from?" Mom.

Xiaojie was unable to answer for a moment. She replied after a while: it was left when you were born.

The child continued to ask, "are you in pain?"

Looking at the child's guilty eyes, Xiao Jie felt for the first time that her postpartum depression had been cured.

Xiao Jie shook her head and said: it doesn't hurt.

I thought this was the case in my life, but I didn't expect to usher in an angel.

03

It is said that the world is really bitter, but it is sweet to have you.

Our life is doomed to encounter a lot of wind and rain, but there is always a very sweet thing to let you live with chicken feathers, you can still appreciate the sweet side of life.

Mourning, there are wax gourd spareribs soup, decadent, there are braised chicken legs, difficult to return, and sweet potato balls.

No one can guarantee that the bitterness will come. The trouble is to cut one crop of leek after another, to cut scrambled eggs, to cut fried shrimp, and to make a box of leeks.

Even if life is a balsam pear, it is worth letting the egg put it down.

I hope everyone can continue to get a trace of sweetness in life.