Man's greatest enemy is often himself.
I didn't quite understand this sentence when I was young, but I didn't realize the meaning of it until I worked for a few years.
A large part of what a person becomes in the end is caused by himself. Whether he is mediocre or achieves something depends on what he does when he is confused.
A lot of people say, I don't know what I'm going to do or how to do it.
Then, I suggest you first be yourself, manage yourself, and develop these top ten habits of self-management.
01
Deal with your emotions before you deal with things.
Napoleon said that the man who can control his emotions is greater than the general who can take down a city.
Deal with emotions first, and then deal with things. People tend to regret what they do when their emotions are out of control.
When you encounter unpleasant things at work, don't complain to your colleagues, which will not solve the problem, but also cause more trouble, and don't conflict with the leader face to face, because the result will often make you more painful.
I'm not asking you to be submissive and have no temper, but to be able to weigh the pros and cons, and don't magnify things that are already so bad that you can't bear it and regret it.
90% of the misfortune in life is because you can't control your emotions well, as it is at work, and so is life.
02
Manage your time well and don't waste it recklessly
Liang Shiqiu said that no one does not cherish his life, but few people cherish his time.
The gap between people is widened, which largely depends on how they use their time.
Excellent people are always investing in themselves and accumulating their lives, while mediocre people are often used to eat, drink, play and enjoy life.
Please always bear in mind that the young days are not long, and the days you wasted today will be lost forever and will never come back.
Advice: uninstall applications that may waste your time, such as games; don't be "Mr. step" or "Miss just right" ten minutes in advance.
03
Adjust your mindset and always have hope
When people are at a low ebb, it is often accompanied by anxiety and despair, a feeling I have experienced and believe that there will be in the future.
Because life is never a straight line, there will always be ups and downs, there are many unsatisfactory.
The secret of life is that the more desperate you are, the more it bullies you; the more optimistic you are, the kinder it treats you!
We always say that attitude can often determine the success or failure of a thing, it's because if you give up, it's really over.
I like the words of Oscar Wilde: even in the sewer, some people are looking up at the starry sky.
04
Watch your mouth and talk well.
Luo Zhenyu said that in the workplace or in contemporary society, the most important ability is the ability to express!
As the saying goes, illness comes in from the mouth, and disaster comes out from the mouth. A person's first impression often begins at the moment he opens his mouth. Some people talk like a spring breeze, while others make people feel unhappy when they open their mouth.
Those who can talk tend to have a better life.
Advice: watch your mouth, speak less and listen more; think about other people's feelings before you speak.
05
No procrastination: what is done today is done today.
Many people are used to putting off today's work until tomorrow, anxious about the current predicament but unable to act.
What you default today will become a debt in the future, and what you procrastinate will often come to nothing in the end.
Suggestion: make a list of important things to do for the day every morning, not to strive for it, but to do what you do today and get it done today.
If one day you stop procrastinating, confusion will leave you.
06
Investment ability to maintain competitiveness
In this era, you want to get out of confusion, only rely on talent and ability, this is also the most reliable key to break the game.
It's time to step out of your comfort zone, invest in your abilities, recharge your studies, and keep yourself competitive.
Some people ask, I am just confused, just do not know what to learn?
If you don't know how to speak, learn to speak; if you don't speak English well, learn English; if you don't do your job well and are inefficient, then improve your work skills and look for efficient methods.
When you are good enough, the road in front of you will become wider and wider.
07
Invest in your body and keep exercising.
As you get older, you become more and more aware of the importance of health. I always encourage you to work hard, but also pay attention to your health at the same time.
Exchanging health for wealth is a very bad deal in the long run, and your savings that you have worked so hard for years may be left to the hospital overnight.
If you can't make money for the time being, then I hope you can at least have a good health.
There is no conflict between working hard and investing in your body. You just don't know how to weigh and arrange it.
It is recommended that you set aside an hour for exercise every day and stay up late less!
08
List your goals and be a wise man
I find that many good people are clear-cut people who know what they need and what they are doing it for.
A friend gave up the preferential treatment of a large company and turned to a small company with a mediocre salary, because he knew what he needed at this stage. What he wanted was a rapid improvement in his ability to do things, and small companies had more opportunities.
I hope you can make a list of your goals on a sleepless night, so that big goals can be subdivided into small ones.
Running in a good direction is often more efficient and meaningful.
09
Wealth management, don't waste money
When you are poor, you need to do a good job in wealth management, every penny has to be calculated and spent, do not waste the limited money.
When you have a certain economic base, you also need to do a good job in wealth management and use money to make yourself more valuable, such as renting a house closer to the company, signing up for an English cram school, buying yourself two sets of social clothes, and buying gifts for your loved ones and parents.
When your economy is better off, you also need to do a good job in wealth management, so as not to let the money lie there and lose its value.
The more people make use of wealth, the faster they tend to rise!
ten
Reading every day has nothing to do with success.
Finally, I suggest you set aside an hour every day to read a book.
I know that many people don't like reading and can't read it, but I still have to tell you: people who read books and those who don't read books are always at two levels.
It has nothing to do with success. It has something to do with temperament, speech, self-cultivation, knowledge and state of mind. You may not earn much money after reading books all your life, but your heart will be rich and rich.
Success is not only measured by money and power, but also by soul.
At the end of your life, you may not be so successful, but you should be a person who knows how to work hard, a person with a rich heart, and a happy person.
These ten habits of self-management determine what a person's life will be like in the end.
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