Chai Jing wrote such a sentence in the book "Seeing": Behind every relaxed smile, there was once a soul with clenched teeth. I think this sentence is the best proof of effort and dedication.
Remember, there will be echoes, all your efforts, have meaning.
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Two days ago, I received a message from a reader backstage. She said that she was a little disappointed when she found out the results of the entrance examination. She felt that she could have done better. Now the score is not high or low. It is a little embarrassing. The school she wants to go to may be a little hanging. When choosing to adjust the school, she felt unwilling.
She said:
In fact, I really tried my best. I knew from childhood that I was not very smart. I had to do several times what others would do once, so I always tried very hard to do the stupid bird that flew first. However, I paid a lot, but I still couldn't get the result I wanted. I felt very frustrated and sad.
In fact, we all have such a time, in confusion and anxiety in the loss, even self-denial.
It must be admitted that there are many things in this world that are unfair in the present moment.
Many questions have no answers, many stories have no end, many efforts and gains are not proportional, but I still believe that sentence: never forget, there will be echoes.
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Last year, a friend failed the entrance examination, but also spent a very difficult period of time, insomnia, hair loss, rely on overeating to draw comfort.
However, after adjusting her state, she quickly found a job she liked and was suitable for, and she entered a new stage of her life.
My friend said to me: At first I felt that my efforts for so long were in vain, and my heart was particularly uncomfortable, but slowly I found that this period of hard work still made me grow up. After adjusting my mentality into work, I found that I benefited a lot from the persistence and self-discipline cultivated during the period of struggle for postgraduate entrance examination.
I didn't set foot on the road I originally wanted to take because of the entrance examination, but I also walked more smoothly on another road. I think this is also a reward. I am more and more certain that paying this matter will not be meaningless.
This is the case, every experience is a rare growth, every growth is a rare poem on the way forward, every effort you pay, will make you stronger yourself.
As the movie Little Miss Sunshine says, the real losers are not those who don't win, but those who are afraid to try.
Try hard, persevere, and you've won.
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I remember at the end of last year's college entrance examination, I saw a particularly impressive paragraph in the circle of friends, to the effect that no matter how many points you took, no matter which city you went to, don't worry too much, where you want to go, will certainly give you unexpected surprises, you will also meet some people, let you feel that life is worth it.
Looking back on what you have experienced, it is not difficult to find that there are always times when you think life has failed you, but in fact it just wants to give you more suitable.
Many of the fascinating things in life do not lie in getting what you want, but in coincidences. As long as you love life, your efforts will not be wasted. All your efforts will make sense.
You will suddenly understand at a certain moment, the original world happened, are inevitable;
You will find that the nights you have survived, the tears you have shed, have paved your way forward, the roads you have traveled, the books you have read, and the people you have loved have all made you a newer and better self.
Some pay, perhaps in the present can not give you what you want in return, but you have to believe that every difficulty on the road of life, is the foundation for the future.
Every effort makes you grow, every effort makes you strong, and they will one day make you stand on a bigger stage and shine.
May the clenched teeth once, finally let you have a relaxed smile, may you spend rough and difficult, and finally want to live, hit a full.
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