Four sentences written by a mother to her child: don't complain about hard study, it will light your way in the future.

01

This year's "the first lesson of school" has been brushed on the screen again.

After watching the whole journey with the child, what impressed me most was the world abacus champion Wang Tongjing.

23-year-old Wang Tongjing has won the world championship three times in a row. I haven't seen what the dazzling numbers look like. She has worked out the sum with ease, which is really amazing.

Host he Jiong asked, what kind of secret is there to achieve such a lightning state?

'If there's a secret, it's two words: practice hard, 'she said.

She began to study abacus at the age of 6 and joined the national team at the age of 9 until she was 18.

She is training while others are watching TV and while others are playing on holiday. For more than ten years, the papers she has done can cover 100 classrooms.

It is only after ten years of training that we have today's world champion of abacus. Perseverance has made her unique.

Such children are convincing and worth learning.

However, at the beginning of school, I want to say to my children that parents don't want you to fly high, they just want you to go far.

These four words are what Mom and Dad most want to say to you in the first lesson of school.

02

Son, the purpose of reading is not to make money.

But not every child understands this.

A few days ago, I saw this piece of news:

The girl in the second year of junior high school is so addicted to short videos that her life is completely occupied by mobile phones except eating and sleeping. Parents really have no way to send her to psychological counseling.

But she asked the doctor: I can make money by short video, why do I have to study?

From the girl's point of view, even if she gets a college entrance examination and finds a job, she is just making money.

Since there are other ways to make money, why study hard?

But son, you must know that in a fast-paced age, what you are infatuated with will soon be eliminated, while the thinking, creativity and execution you develop through reading will never be out of date.

Moreover, we make money to make a living, but it is only a part of life. Reading can broaden your horizons, knowledge and thinking. it is the best way to the future.

Along the way, you overcome difficulties, face challenges, experience failures, defeat yourself, and learn how to face setbacks, how to fall and get up, and even how to resist temptation, and that's what reading is all about.

03

Son, I want you to insist on one thing.

Yu Minhong said in "the first lesson of the beginning of school" that the core of the struggle is two things, one is to set goals, the other is to work hard for it.

Yu Minhong, who was still a peasant at that time, set the local normal college as his goal. In order to achieve this goal, he worked hard for two years, but failed.

But he didn't give up. In the third year, he made more efforts than in the previous two years, and as a result, he overfulfilled his goal and entered Peking University, which everyone aspired to.

Zhang Meng, founder of LEAD Lide leadership, is also a gift of "persistence".

After being admitted to the university, she set herself a goal of becoming a diplomat.

But this profession is particularly strict in English. In order to make her English up to standard, she has made a 1000-day grove plan for herself. For three years, regardless of cold or heat, she spends three hours reading English in the grove every day.

It is very cold in winter in Beijing. When she enters the classroom after reading, she often recovers slowly after half an hour. But no matter how hard it was, she didn't give up.

Now, her goal has long been achieved, and her learning experience has become an inspirational story.

Perhaps many children do not have their own goals and do not know how to set them. In this regard, former US President Barack Obama suggested:

Your goals can be simple, such as finishing your homework, listening carefully or reading every day

Maybe you plan to take part in some extracurricular activities or do some volunteer work in the community.

Maybe you decide to defend the rights and interests of children who are ridiculed or bullied because of their appearance or origin.

Maybe you think you should learn to take better care of yourself and prepare for your future study.

Feuerbach said

A man without an aim is like a ship without a rudder, drifting forever and reaching a beach of disappointment, failure and frustration.

If you have a goal and stick to it, the flower of victory will blossom in the barren land.

04

Take your time, kid. I won't rush you to grow up.

In order not to lose at the starting line, many parents try their best to let their children devote themselves to their studies. It will be a sin for their children to play for a while, for fear of being left behind.

This past summer vacation seems to be the third semester for many children, and it may be a little easier for them to start school.

Some time ago, a mother called the police in the early hours of the morning because her husband forced her child to do his homework.

It turned out that the father was a top student in a famous school, and he was very excellent. In order to train his daughter to become high achiever, he forced his daughter to write four compositions every day, which had to be of high quality.

In order to finish her homework, the daughter had to write until one or two o'clock in the morning, while the father supervised it and beat and scolded the child if he could not finish it.

Mother really can not watch, in the case of ineffective persuasion, had no choice but to call the police.

There is no doubt that the father loves his children, and he also hopes to teach them better.

But he misunderstood the meaning of education. in his view, the ascetic monk training that races against the clock every day can put children ahead of others.

But what he doesn't know is that this is beyond the child's normal ability. His persecution and nurturing will not only overdraw the child's interest in learning, but also make the child more disgusted.

Hong Lan, a Taiwanese educator, said

Farmland must rest in rotation in order to grow good rice.

Children's brains and bodies also need time to catch their breath.

In order to solidify knowledge and grow better.

05

Son, your parents are always behind you.

Some time ago, the deeds of lip girl Jiang Mengnan made many people respect.

For ordinary people, a doctorate from Tsinghua University is extremely difficult, but Jiang Mengnan has realized this dream.

A fever at the age of half a year deafened her ears. Parents did not give up on her, in order to enable their daughter to study and live like a normal person, the parents paid unimaginable hardships.

But no matter how difficult it is, her parents always firmly support her, and she never wants to give up.

The persistence of her parents gave Jiang Mengnan a down-to-earth sense of security to support her all the way to Tsinghua University.

But for her, a doctorate is not the ultimate goal. Her goal is always on the way.

We were all children, and we all had moments when we wanted to give up. Now, as parents, we should stand firmly beside our children and give him support and strength.

Son, maybe your road to growing up is still bumpy, but with your parents around, you won't feel lonely.

Although this road is difficult and there are many temptations, you still have to go on firmly, because your future has nothing to do with whether you are rich or poor, but with yourself.

Do not complain about the hardship of life, do not complain about the difficulty of learning, everyone comes to this world, has their own responsibility, to make themselves better, you are always worth pursuing the goal.

Mom and Dad can't give you everything you want, but we can give you all the love.

On the way to growing up, we don't want you to run very fast.

Only wish you can walk steadily and go far!