When the elevator came down to the 12th floor, a rich middle-aged man came up, holding a mobile phone in his right hand to his ear. He was quite excited. If it were not for the pleated flesh on his face, it was changing into various joyful shapes. I would have thought he was fighting a war against Lao Wang next door.
The people in the elevator showed an expression of disgust. Not only did he not realize it, he talked about the excitement, and even leisurely pulled out a cigarette. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
After getting off the elevator, he was another man who stepped past the front, took the lead out of the elevator, took out the key around his waist and gently pressed it, and a crimson Cayenne on the ecological parking space opposite the door was unlocked. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Companion Xiao K disdain way, rich still so uncultivated, mountain cannon. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
I smiled and asked casually, "does self-cultivation have anything to do with his money?" Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Xiao K said, of course, the granary knows the etiquette, food and clothing and honor and disgrace. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
I suddenly found this question quite interesting, so I continued to ask, "if a poor man has no self-cultivation, it should be?" Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
He obviously found the question a little awkward and didn't know how to answer it for the moment.
My tentative guidance, assuming that the man just came out and drove away not a Porsche, but only a dilapidated bike, can you forgive him for what he just did? Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Xiao K thought about it and said that although it was also unforgivable, it was at least understandable. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
I understand his so-called understanding that because the poor are at the bottom of society, they need more to run for material things, so they do not have more time and energy to pursue the so-called spiritual wealth, and the neighbors who intersect with their daily life, the spiritual level is also relatively at the same level, and the cheap way of labor is doomed to the spiritual lack of his working environment. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
In this way, it seems that self-cultivation really has a lot to do with the rich and the poor. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
First of all, let's take a look at what self-cultivation is. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Personal cultivation is the realm reached by people in the depths of the individual mind after the process of self-understanding, self-dissection, self-education and self-improvement, which mainly includes 20 words, namely: benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trust, gentleness, courtesy and frugality, loyalty, filial piety, fraternity, honesty, diligence and courage. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Obviously, self-cultivation is different from self-cultivation, which focuses on congenital family education, while self-cultivation emphasizes acquired self-improvement. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
It can be said that upbringing can be used to evaluate the words and deeds of a minor. Adults have a sense of independent behavior both physically and legally, so it is more appropriate to use self-cultivation when measuring his code of conduct. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
From the definition of self-cultivation, we can see that the family environment is not the absolute factor that determines personal self-cultivation, or even very little. In adulthood, even if you are still in a state of poverty, there is no conflict with the pursuit of self-cultivation, because it does not take up any of your time, let alone consume any material or money. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
For example, if you are just a small street vendor, it is self-cultivation to tell the customer to walk slowly before leaving; you are only the cashier of the convenience store, so when you are not busy, it is self-cultivation to help others put the goods into the shopping bag after checking out; even if you are only a shoeshine, after receiving the money with both hands, it is also self-cultivation to say that you have a happy life.
And after people feel your good personal cultivation, they will naturally show respect for you, and will regard you as the first choice for consumption in the future. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Therefore, good personal cultivation will not consume your energy and financial resources, but may bring you the joy of life, the respect of others, and even invisible material feedback. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
And from another point of view, the situation of poverty is not so much a negative impact on personal self-cultivation, but rather a necessary sharpening and test of the formation process of self-cultivation. In the poor situation of poverty, in the face of vulgar surrounding environment, we must have a strong ability to be cautious at this time.
This is also in line with the definition of self-cultivation, that is, the realm reached by people in the depths of the individual mind after the process of self-knowledge, self-anatomy, self-education and self-improvement. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Therefore, whether a person has good self-cultivation or not first depends on whether he has the subjective consciousness to improve himself, and the executive ability to put this subjective consciousness into action is the key to determine the degree of his personal accomplishment. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
To sum up, self-cultivation has something to do with self-awareness, public prudence and executive ability. But it has nothing to do with academic qualifications, circumstances, or rich or poor. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
He slept with his buddies in college and went to work in an African country after graduation. he managed a large number of local workers, and what he described most to those people was shallow thinking and low quality. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
However, one person is an exception. Although he is also local, his performance is completely different from that of others. His buddies once thought that he should have a higher education or a better living environment than others.
But in the later deliberate communication, I learned that he was no different from others, the same low-level educational experience, the same chaotic living environment, the same poor living conditions. In spite of this, he has a different noble quality, that is, self-cultivation. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
For example, every time he enters the office, he knocks at the door first, even if the door is already open; he does not rush with the crowd when eating; he does not communicate and play loudly when eating; and even when they visit the construction site, even if the translator is not in a language barrier, he will smile and respond, so as not to embarrass them. "
Of course, that man has now become the general manager of the local workers, and his salary has been greatly improved. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
Therefore, I can sympathize with a person's bad situation and poor living conditions, because it is not only related to personal ability and diligence, but also related to many factors, but I can never understand or even forgive uncultured behavior. Self-cultivation is a quality that exists objectively in a person, which will never change because of the change of the subjective will of others, let alone the rise and fall of standards because of different class positions. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
From a material point of view, self-cultivation has never been a luxury, still less can it be regarded as a specific label, but hit on some specific classes or people.
If you can think carefully, self-cultivation is really a lowest-cost means of self-improvement, it basically has nothing to do with rich and poor, but can get the best quality feedback. Phellodendron mandshurica (Thunb.)
It can even be said that in the era of material scarcity, personal self-cultivation becomes more and more important. The more people are trapped in poverty, the more they should regard it as a valuable way to improve themselves.
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