Before Zun, he planned to say that he would like to talk about the spring appearance and swallow miserably first.
Life has its own love obsession, this hate has nothing to do with the wind and the moon.
If you leave the song and don't renovate it, one song can teach you a knot.
It is easy to say goodbye to the spring breeze when you have to see all the flowers in Los Angeles.
This word is beautiful enough, and it is about the most affectionate and loving thing in the world.
But the author of this poem is a resounding man, and the friend who was given the word is also a man.
But don't get me wrong, the two are just good friends. If they are different from each other, they always have to express their reluctance in poetry.
But everyone is a respectable official, crying in the sentence, undignified.
So with the help of a female perspective, to wantonly express the sadness of good friends' parting hearts.
Ouyang Xiu has many friends and students all over the world. In fact, he is closely related to his three trump cards.
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The first card: study hard and keep improving
If the literary world of the Northern Song Dynasty is compared to a big school, the headmaster of it will be Ouyang Xiu.
Ouyang Xiu, who is he? After reading his student list, you may be surprised by his circle of friends:
Su Xi, Su Shi, Su Zhe, Zeng Gong and Wang Anshi from the eight families of the Tang and Song dynasties were all his students.
Bao Zheng, Sima Guang, Han Qi and Wen Yanbo were all carried by him in cloth clothes and became famous all over the world.
Huang Tingjian, Qin Guan, Luo Buzhi, Zhang Zai, Cheng Hao and so on have all been influenced by his literary views.
It is not easy for this teacher to teach so many outstanding students who go down in history.
But Ouyang Xiu is not from a family. His father died when he was three years old. The orphan and widowed mother went to his poor uncle and placed her house under others.
When there was no money to go to school, my mother took the Reed and wrote in the sand to teach Ouyang Xiu to read.
Having no money to buy books, Ouyang Xiu went to the neighborhood to borrow books and copy them.
Ouyang Xiu in his childhood had nothing but a heart of forgetting to eat and sleep to learn.
Gold will eventually shine. Ouyang Xiu is already a well-known child prodigy before he is ten years old.
When my uncle saw it, he said to Ouyang Xiu's mother:
Sister-in-law need not worry about the poor children, your children have wizards! Not only can you start a business and glorify your ancestors, but you will be famous in the future.
As a result, Ouyang Xiu failed in the college entrance examination twice. His family was still worried about whether he could bear the blow of failure, but Ouyang Xiu said nothing. He closed the door and studied hard for another six years.
Do not compromise in the face of fate, do not flinch in the face of difficulties, in order to be their own hero.
In this way, the civilian teenager Ouyang Xiu, relying on borrowing books and studying hard in cold and summer, finally shone his family in the college entrance examination and became the No. 1 liberal arts student in Hubei Province.
Ouyang Xiu has a superb literary level, which can be described as a generation of all-round talents. Su Shi described Ouyang Xiu as follows:
On Dao is like Han Yu, on things is like Lu Zhi, chronicle is like Sima Qian, poetry and Fu is like Li Bai.
But most of Ouyang Xiu's poems are the words of the wind and the moon.
The wind and moon in the word, whether it is romantic or the ever-changing Cui Kui, there are both kinds of life in Ouyang Xiu.
Write about the little girl: the swing catches Luo Yi and draws Liang Shuangyan Fei.
Write about the newlyweds: Xiaoxue first penetrates the east window and gets drunk.
Write about the young woman: I don't know how far or near you are after saying goodbye.
Ye Jiaying said in the famous ci Masters of the Tang and Song dynasties:
It is not the words of the game above the temple that can be seen to reveal a person's true temperament.
Ouyang Xiu wrote directly about the wind and moon, mildly sensational, but what we feel through poetry is his love and compassion for women.
Ouyang Xiu, a friend of women, not only studies the mentality of women, but also is responsible for men.
He wrote "the Chronicles of the Day" for Han Qi. After Han Qi got it, he was very happy:
Uncle Yongshu (Ouyang Xiu) is so elegant that he didn't build it!
Unexpectedly, two days later, there was another article. When Han Qi took a closer look, there were only two words changed:
Official to the prime minister, rich return to hometown changed into official to general, rich and return to hometown.
Not only the tone softened, the article also added a layer of causality. Han Qi clapped his hands and weighed the seconds.
Ouyang Xiu, an old man, is still serious and often revises articles from his youth.
When his wife saw that he worked too hard, she advised him: if you don't have a good look in your eyes, you will go blind. Are you still afraid of being scolded?
Ouyang Xiu said with a smile:
Not afraid of being scolded by my husband, but afraid of shame later.
Excelsior can be seen.
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Second card: be humorous and sincere to your friends
Ouyang Xiu's life is also quite interesting.
His official signature is Bingtang, which takes the meaning of ice and jade, and has developed a derivative: homemade Bingtang wine.
Ouyang Xiu did not hide these good private wines and took them out to share with his good friends.
Huang Tingjian wrote words of praise:
Ice hall wine is good, only hate silver cup small.
Lu you paid no attention to du Kang's shadow, and Lao Xuean's Notes pushed Bingtang wine to the extreme:
Huazhou Bingtang Liquor ranks first in the world.
It is inevitable that scholars are infatuated with paper.
Once, Liu Chang sent Ouyang Xiu ten pieces of white paper as delicate as lanolin. Ouyang Xiu took a look: Chengxintang paper! Does Lao Liu have any more?
Liu Chang looked at his legendary eyes of hungry wolves and fled.
Later, Liu Chang missed the bottom of his own poems:
At that time, Baijin sold a piece, Chengxin Hall in the tens of millions of axes.
There is nothing in the world, and I got a hundred from my hometown.
One hundred, only give me ten, isn't it brother Ouyang Xiu scolded Liu Chang for being stingy and sent two to Mei Yaochen.
When Mei Yaochen learned of the origin, he held a group with Ouyang Xiu and scolded Liu Chang: "if you have paper, you don't send it to me."
On the one hand, he was grateful to Ouyang Xiu, and he wrote down two pieces of paper sent by Uncle Yongshu to praise Ouyang Xiu for his kindness to him.
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The third card: ideal, never compromise
After all, life is not just about beautiful days and pleasures.
Ouyang Xiu, 30, has his own political ideal of virtue, meritorious service and speech, and he supports Fan Zhongyan's reform.
From then on, he went up and down at the gate of the court, going in and out, and stepped on an unknown number of thresholds.
Fan Zhongyan painted a "picture of all officials", satirizing the autocracy of the prime minister and cronyism, but was framed by the remonstrating officer.
Ouyang Xiu stepped forward and scolded the remonstrating official:
Instead of exposing corrupt officials, they envy the virtuous and envy them and frame Zhongliang. Do you know there is shame in the world?
Ouyang Xiu did not achieve these two virtues. He was demoted and reformed in Yiling for three years.
Not long after he returned to the court, Fan Zhongyan implemented the Qingli New deal. Ouyang Xiu, 36, was still the mainstay, and they were falsely accused of being friends.
Ouyang Xiu wrote a "Theory of Friendship" to fight back, and began with a sonorous and forceful opening:
A villain has no friends, but a gentleman has one.
Politics is never simple. When the emperor wavered in the reformist and conservative camp, Ouyang Xiu's personal style was fabricated.
It was revealed that Ouyang Xiu was having an affair with his eldest daughter-in-law Wu Chunyan, and the matter was reported to the emperor. The emperor didn't believe it and just gave up.
Later, Zhang, Ouyang Xiu's niece, had an affair with her servant and was arrested by Kaifeng Mansion. In court, Zhang confessed to having an affair with Ouyang Xiu.
Ouyang Xiu said:
Stupid enough to have a personal affair, why don't you ask me for help in private.
Although the incident ended without evidence, Ouyang Xiu's reputation was greatly affected and he was demoted from the imperial court.
Life has abused me thousands of times. I treat life like my first love. In the face of pots of dog blood, Ouyang Xiu still adheres to his ideal without the slightest relaxation.
As Wang Xiaobo said in the Bronze Age:
Never compromise is to reject the arrangement of fate until it changes its mind and comes up with what I can accept.
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Guanshan vaguely, green water all the way, 39-year-old Ouyang Xiu, was demoted to Chuzhou, where the boat car merchants four guests do not reach, cold and remote.
A gentleman pays attention of his own self-culture while cornered by circumstances, and endeavors to benifit the world while in the postion.
As an official of his parents, Ouyang Xiu really despised the misery of the people and had to change. He has no time to lament his grievances and obsession, and his mind is full of governance plans.
Soon he devised a policy of leniency, cutting civil servants by 2/3 and spending money on infrastructure.
Sure enough, it achieved initial results in the second year. Chuzhou enjoyed a peaceful and prosperous life.
Mei Yaochen wrote a letter to comfort Ouyang Xiu:
Life is not as good as nine times out of ten.
Unexpectedly, Ouyang Xiu had already opened his mind at this time, and there was nothing more enjoyable than people living and working in peace and contentment, and doing some practical things was much more meaningful than talking about the great truth of saving the country in the imperial court.
Ouyang Xiu often had fun with the people, swam leisurely in Langya Mountain, and even moved to Zuiweng Pavilion for office work.
Chuzhou ten years, for Ouyang Xiu, it is of great significance, he completed a major transformation of life here, fierce and forceful spirit unwittingly faded, people and things, have become sophisticated and sensible.
His well-known "the Story of drunken Weng Ting" was born in this period of mature thought.
Jiang Wen, also 40, said:
Life is a dish of green tea. When people end the night, half compromise, half persistence, a small step on both sides, compromise becomes leisurely, persistence becomes elegant.
Who can say that relegation to Chuzhou is not the alternative smile that fate throws to Ouyang Xiu?
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There may be a lot of unhappiness in life, but life still has to go on, enrich yourself and wait for opportunities, is the most positive attitude towards life.
Ten years later, Ouyang Xiu received a reply from the imperial court, took office in the Ministry of Rites, presided over the examination as a bachelor of Hanlin, and found a lot of talents.
When he saw Su Shi's article, he exclaimed:
When I read Su Shi's books, I don't feel sweaty. How fast! The old man should avoid the road and let him out of the ground!
Su Shi is only a silhouette of Ouyang Xiu presiding over the scientific research of Jiayou in the second year, when a total of 388 Jinshi were enrolled, and there were many literary giants, which can be described as brilliant stars.
Ouyang Xiu wrote the earliest epigraphy work, the Collection of Ancient Records.
Presided over the revision of the Book of the New Tang Dynasty and the writing of the History of the New five dynasties
He also wrote a botanical book, the Peony of Luoyang.
Gui Tian Lu has exerted a far-reaching influence on the notes and novels of later generations, and the Story of selling Oil Weng is one of them.
His calligraphy has also won the quintessence of Yan Zhenqing's regular script and is famous all over the world.
At this time, Ouyang Xiu, regardless of ambition, vision, and mind, is already a well-deserved leader.
It was patience that achieved the intransigence of his life.
Life, experienced thousands of hardships, the soul, withstood ten thousand kinds of suffering, can really reach the water wide place, sometimes sit and watch the ever-changing clouds to the ultimate state.
The intransigence in the heart is the catalyst.
We always encounter situations like this in our lives:
Compromises in the workplace lead to more unreasonable demands.
Give in to a low quality of life in exchange for a boring life.
Compromise with others, in exchange for the abandonment of love.
All living beings suffer, and they have no choice but to make their own way. Never forget why you started, and your mission can be accomplished.
To keep an open heart is the greatest intransigence to the world.
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