Three signs that a person is starting to fail

Have you achieved your goal of 2018?

A few days ago, a 2019 plan list pierced the hearts of many people.

Indirect complacency, continuous mixed eating and waiting to die.

How many people repeat their daily lives, but look forward to the unreachable poems and the distance.

In the last six months, my cousin has been infatuated with short videos.

Whenever he saw him, he always held a cell phone and looked at it with relish, occasionally burst into wild laughter, and unknowingly thought he was possessed.

I advised him: people who are looking for a job, don't know how to browse video all the time, it's important to do something.

He always said: right away, just watch for one minute, and then watch for another minute!

The problem is that one minute often turns into 10 minutes, an hour or even a whole day.

I know that my cousin is held hostage by the algorithmic logic of the Internet nowadays.

Under the algorithm logic, the system will automatically portrait the user and push the information to the user according to the information browsed and shopping in the past.

For example, if my cousin likes to watch funny jokes, the system will push more similar videos to his cousin.

In this case, we are like pets. We eat whatever the owner feeds us. When we have enough to eat and drink and indulge in it, we are unaware that the fate of being harvested is coming.

Neil Bozman said in "Entertainment to death":

What destroys us is not what we hate, but what we love.

When you are trapped by algorithms, indulge in overly entertaining, vulgar, fragmented things, indulge in instant pleasure, and boast entertainment to death, you are not far from being scrapped.

In psychology, there is a flowerpot effect, which means that if people stay in a comfortable flowerpot for a long time, they will not want to make progress and be content with the status quo.

If you are satisfied with the status quo, imprisoned in your own small circle every day, indulge in your comfort zone, instead of taking the time to improve yourself, how can you move towards a broader sky?

Life is like sailing against the current, not to advance is to fall behind.

If you choose comfort, you will lose your fighting spirit; if you lose your fighting spirit, your life will become more and more idle; if you become more and more idle, you will eventually open a big gap with others.

If you don't want to make progress now, you will regret it when you are abandoned by the times in the future.

When people reach middle age, there is nothing saddest than unemployment, right?

A few days ago, my uncle suffered this heavy blow, which made him smoke all day and could not lift his head in front of his aunt.

In fact, we have all heard of the disagreement between the uncle and the leader. My uncle thought that he was highly skilled and had been advanced by the unit, so he was lazy all day, did not want to make progress, and indulged in the merit books of the past.

Six months ago, the unit recruited a young man who graduated from a famous school. The young man is hard-working, willing to learn and work, and his technical level has long been above that of his uncle.

Uncle is not without a sense of crisis. But my uncle felt that he was old and had a poor memory, and now it was difficult to learn new things, often full of anxiety on the one hand and no substantive action on the other.

This time, my uncle somehow offended the leader again and was fired by the leader after a disagreement.

It was too late for my uncle to regret: just imagine, if he was still the backbone of the technology at that time, would the leader let himself go?

In the final analysis, this is the price for him to be satisfied with the status quo and stop learning for a long time.

The workplace is a place to talk by value, and how much value you have determines how high you can stand.

Shi Kang, a famous writer and screenwriter, once said: a person's time of death begins from stopping learning.

Those who do not study and make progress will be abandoned by society sooner or later.

Anyone who has achieved something is destined to be inseparable from reading and learning all his life.

Once upon a time, HBO made a documentary "BecomingWarrentBuffett" (known as Warren Buffett). Buffett in the film, the greatest trait, is lifelong learning ability.

From an early age, he deeply read and learned all the books related to stock investment, and after reading his father's collection, he went to the Columbia University Library to continue his research.

Even though he became famous later, he still insisted on getting up early and spent a lot of time reading various news, newspapers and books.

His partner, Charlie Munger, commented:

You may be surprised by how much Warren reads. He is a book with two legs.

There is a saying: as long as you are still learning, there are infinite possibilities in life.

Keep reading, keep learning, keep making progress, your life will be more and more wonderful.

Two months ago, her best friend once again vowed to lose 20 jin.

Her best friend is a foodie, and you can't shut up when you see any good things, and you can't spread your legs, so your weight goes up straight up with the rub.

I encouraged her: don't come to see me if you don't cut it. After that, she did keep on running for a while. But it wasn't long before she was business as usual.

You don't know, your legs are sore when you run too much.

It's a snowy day! It will freeze to death!

Ah, such delicious pudding, don't stop me!

No matter when she sees her, she always has seven, seven, eight, eight reasons, now see her, still the same.

In life, there are always some people who are clamoring to lose weight, but they are always unable to lose weight. in the final analysis, what is lacking is self-discipline.

Give up self-discipline and sooner or later have to pay for past laziness.

Balzac said: living a regular life is the secret of health and longevity. The American journal Science has published data showing that people who exercise and those who do not exercise have a variety of diseases, which are:

Risk of heart disease

Athlete: 37Comp1000 lack of exercise: 227Universe 1000

Risk of hypertension

Athlete: 40mm1000 lack of exercise: 704Comp1000

Risk of obesity

Athlete: 4thumb 1000 lack of exercise: 808 Candle 1000

The most important point is the life expectancy gap: people who exercise live an average of 11 years longer than those who lack exercise.

Groups of contrasting data have long warned us:

Exercise and non-exercise lead two lives.

Once upon a time, there was a group of photos of the Wall Street elite that once hit the moments.

The picture shows Peter, deputy director of UBS, participating in the 400m race.

The picture shows Michael, director of RBC Capital Markets, participating in the 400m race.

People did not expect that those Wall Street elites with glamorous jobs, high incomes and gorgeous clothes should be so self-disciplined and have extraordinary requirements for their bodies.

There is a saying: self-discipline, outstanding; not self-discipline, out.

Only those who can control their bodies can control their lives!

Wang Xiaobo said: all people's pain is essentially anger at their own incompetence.

No one is born king.

In the final analysis, what kind of life a person can have, what kind of road he is on, pain or happiness, failure or success, ultimately depends on himself.

Success belongs to those who know how to get out of the comfort zone of life and make progress.

Belongs to the person who insists on reading, studying and persevering.

Belong to the person who knows how to control weight and maintain a high degree of self-discipline.

Instead of complaining and sighing, it is better to keep your feet on the ground, live up to your time, and strive to become a better person from now on.