The human heart is a container, if the heart does not hate, the world will be warm.
Once heard a saying: the height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you despise.
Everyone's heart has a piece of Futian, the so-called do not care, in fact, is to pull out the weeds in the soul, there is a spare place to bloom happy flowers.
Don't care about trifles
Some time ago, actors Tong Liya and Huang Bo went on a hot search because of a small matter.
Huang Bo was the opening guest at the closing ceremony of the Beijing International Film Festival, but because he was too nervous to introduce the guest, he pronounced Tong Yali's name as Tong Yali because of a slip of the tongue.
Huang Bo instantly became more nervous, but luckily he soon relied on his wit and made everyone laugh.
Subsequently, Huang Bo sent an apology to Tong Liya on Weibo:
The ability is limited, the pressure is great, before taking the stage, he joked that don't say it wrong again like the last time, and silently repeated all the names.
As a result, if Tong Liya's name was pronounced as tongyali, how many meals would it take to sort it out.
Later, Tong Liya immediately replied: brother Bo, don't be nervous, you just called out my former name, and I changed it because I was afraid of Yali's pressure.
Some people say: Tong Liya is not only beautiful, but also has such an atmosphere.
Perhaps, it is precisely because of such an open-minded atmosphere of people and things, there is her pure beauty.
People live in this world, always encounter a lot of troubles, not everything can develop in the direction of hope, no one's life is perfect.
The more you experience, the more you can realize that if you have nothing to worry about, it is a good time for the world.
The fountain of happiness comes from everyone's heart, care too much, but confused.
Meet villains and ignore them.
In life, we always meet all kinds of people, some of whom are full of negative emotions. once we collide with a slight spark, we vent all our anger on others.
For such a person, if you haggle and pester endlessly, then your thoughts and emotions will be unconsciously affected by him and fall into distress.
It is impossible to argue with selfish people, it is not that your reason is untenable, but that you can not overcome his essential narrowness.
Therefore, the best way is to ignore and ignore it.
Su Shi, a famous litterateur in the Song Dynasty, was repeatedly persecuted by Zhang Dun. Zhang Dun even demoted Su Shi to Hainan to let him die in the wilderness.
It can be said that Su Shi's fate of being demoted in half his life is almost due to Zhangdun.
After Su Shi's amnesty, Zhang Yuan, Zhang Dun's son, wrote to Su Shi, hoping that Su Shi would be lenient to the Zhang family and not retaliate.
In his reply, Su Shi said such a sentence: but in the past, what is more beneficial?
This kind of persecution has been understated by Su Shi. The matter is over, so don't mention it again.
The heart is a limited container, can hold hatred, can not let go of love and warmth.
There are more beautiful things in life waiting for yourself, not to argue with others, in fact, it is to let yourself go.
Not to care is not weak and incompetent, but let him get angry, my heart is as wide as the sea.
The most important thing in a comfortable life is not to care
Painter Chen Danqing once said: I almost never get angry because I don't think it's necessary to solve problems and don't let other people's mistakes affect me.
Similarly, it is necessary to treat life calmly, not to be blinded by short-term interests, so as not to be depressed by temporary gains and losses.
There is a scale in the heart, which is light or heavy to carry clearly, life will tend to be balanced and stable.
In the face of trivial life, we must know how to be kind to ourselves and maintain a normal mind in order to achieve physical and mental health.
A person's happiness is never because he has more, but because he cares less.
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